Ahem, and I say this politely; ANY TIME YOU EXPECT A LADY TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU IN EXCHANGE FOR SPENDING MONEY ON HER, IT'S PLAY FOR PAY. And don't gimme that shit like she's not expected to.
We don't mention the males on these sites who want sex on the first date. Only then can I see the situation turning P4P. Because I'm not promiscuous in my real life, I could see myself quoting my rates to some loser who thought dinner and the promise of a monthly stipend would get me into bed.
But you want to know what I really find deceptive? A MARRIED ASS MAN trying to make a SINGLE woman feel like she owes him to be faithful at ANY POINT because he pays her. That finely-worded contract between him and his wife isn't enough to keep him faithful. Why would he expect fidelity from ANYONE?? Does the SB have grounds to be mad and with hold sex from her SD because he had sex with his wife? Unprotected, and potentially affecting HER health? Does she still get paid if she decides to stop fucking him like the wife? That is just confusing. And one-sided. This is why I gives two- no, THREE fucks what you professional young girl manipulators have to say about deception.
I know this statement seems to support the myth to some about Companions not being good Sugarbabies. But there are some real Sugardaddys out there who know nothing is for free, and they understand what they're doing. They're paying for companionship. Most of their wives wouldn't hang around without the money, so there's no difference. To say that because a woman can't be manipulated by some MUNDANE, UNPROVABLE, ONE-SIDED rule to be faithful to an unfaithful man that she can't be a good SB is a play on my intelligence. You can go somewhere else with that bull...
For the most part, a lady doesn't have to bill herself as some naive young demure young lady who's going to school or some broke single mom in order to get a sugardaddy. I'm proof of that. That concept only appeals to some men's need to deflower young girls and take advantage of needy women. Would it be deceptive of a woman who claims she's looking for quality men, and turn around and ask for money? Yes. Because there are some good ones out there. But there are some that let you know they're all about the fun.
What I would hope that you gents would understand is that you're either a man secure enough to know that it takes money to deal with women (especially if you like them) or you're not, and would like to dilute yourself to believing that young broke women will flock to you for your good looks alone without expectation of financial contribution to her book fund, or light bill. Whether a woman has ONE GOOD TRICK or a bunch, she's still a ho. Some of your wives are professional gold diggers, and knew exactly what to do to land you. Everything she said or did from the day she met you was a means to get a ring. The day you can see past the financial aspect of dealing with women and can see good in her, or something worth spending your money on, you have officially grown as a person.
You don't have to manipulate a woman to be a Sugardaddy.