How "dressed up" do you expect her to be...

Perfume should be by request IMO. Even then It's Iffy cause either party could be allergic. I'd rather be on the safe side and not wear any at all.
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<<<< Taking notes. Originally Posted by Nicolet
Nicolet, you already know, I would also request that you drink plenty of fluids, because I plan on making you lose a ton of it lol, gawd I love squirters.
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Let me give you a recent version of what I like. I recently saw the luminous and elegant Samantha Meadows in Philadelphia. She is a trained classical dancer who stands 5'9". I saw her at a four star hotel and she was dressed in a body hugging but elegant LBD and taupe Louboutin heels. She wore full but discrete make up with only the slightest scent.

Her underpinnings were elegant, lacy and a wonderful coral color that complimented her pale skin. Her lady bits were perfectly shaved but there was a landing strip to honor nature's way. A particular pleasure was unzipping the dress while we were lip locked in foreplay. And, before I forget, her long thick auburn tinged brown hair was her glory.

This was perhaps my "best sex ever" (yes, I was there for the sex) and it all started with that perfect and elegant look.
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  • 09-03-2015, 07:55 AM
I think price has nothing to do with it. I see ladies from 200 to 1000 range and at both ends of that spectrum the ladies almost always ask my preference. My most popular response is a teasing, sexy bra and pantie set. In most cases my requests are always granted. If a lady doesn't ask, I am always pleased to see them in tasteful street wear that looks like they could go out for a nice lunch or dinner. I like a classy sexy look.

What I hate is when they show up in sweat pants, a sweatshirt and looking like they just came from the gym or a five mile run. I have had this happen several times and at all price ranges.

I think a provider should have enough pride in herself to have her apearance reflect that pride. I also think a provider should ask what the gentleman's preference is and, as long as it is within reason, she should grant that wish.

Just my 2 cents worth.

By the way, I feel the same way about how we men should present ourselves to you. JS
My favorite is a dress with classy(not fishnet) thigh-high stockings, lacy bra underneath lacy and heels. I know it's coming off soon anyway, but as someone stated earlier, men are visual creatures.
Nine times out of ten, I come dressed to impress. I spend all day getting ready and want to look my best. The reason I say, 9 out of 10 and not 10/10 is because I have request for more casual attire at times. One time, the man was meeting me at my hotel room and wanted me to open the door wearing blue jeans without a shirt. Another time, I got a request to open the door in a towel with wet hair. But, unless they specifically request something different, I dress to the nines.
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I prefer them dressed in a nice clothes or any type of lingerie, perfume is always nice if not over done
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Hello Everyone,

I really like this topic. I love high heels, stockings, Slutty Club Dresses, Lingerie. But I do notice Everything. The decor, cleanliness of the place, lay out. One of my favorite appointments, was when the lady even had fake lillies on the bed. She helped me disrobe and escorted me to the shower where she had a whole closet full of soaps n shampoo. Yes, the shampoo bottles were used but she had my particular brand, (man think of the shopping at Walmart, hehe). Anyways, I tipped her half of what the appointment cost was just because of this alone. So, I put money where my apperication lies. Most guys won't do this.

I do find most will ask if I have any special requests and try to accomadate as best they can. Ever effort to do so,or the lack there of, is seen by me and repeats from depend more on this than just wam bam thank you mam. I guess us older guys just want that dream.........
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This is really funny, because in my every day life I am the most casual kicked back person on the face off the earth and I truly believe that . Really, read my twitter or ask anyone who knows me. I only wear makeup for providing, and my hair is always back. I am a practical hands on person.

That being said:

If I am showing up to meet you? I am decked to the fucking nines. Not in some obvious attention drawing way but I am soft, nice smelling, and well dressed. I have on makeup, my hair is styled. I DO NOT wear pants to a visit, ever. It is always some kind of dress and never anything where people would stop, stare and remember...but always something elegant, beautiful, and flattering. My makeup is tasteful, and I don't really do jewelry.

The exception is if yoga pants are requested, but I don't do jeans (unless you buy them and have them there) simply because I do not own any. I've lived in Vancouver for 4 years, no one owns jeans!

To me, this has nothing to do with price but what kind of a person you are. Someone is paying for a luxury experience -- whether they're paying 150/hr or 1500/hr -- and they deserve to know the person providing that experience gave enough of a shit to dress nicely, be clean, etc al.

My whole goal has always been to provide the most luxurious experience I could at a fair cost to everyone. I NEVER EVER EVER want someone to walk away from time with me and feel that they wasted their money. Every single one of us works SO hard for what works out to be worthless sheets of paper that just buy "stuff" or pay bills in most cases. For some people, it's very rare (even once in a lifetime) to be able to just spend $1,000 on yourself. I treat every single visitor like they are that person having a once in a lifetime indulgence.

And to me that means being dressed flatteringly, nice smelling, and ultimately soft. YMMV.
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Honestly, I prefer sweats or yoga pants and a t shirt.
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The only time I can recall ever NOT dressing down was with a regular and thats simply because he didn't care. In his words 'I really have to have you now!'
I obliged, but I still wore a matching panty and bra set.

First impressions are everything to me! I have high expectations of the gentlemen I choose to see so I make sure I am as pleasant and polished as possible if we do get to the meet and greet.

If we actually make reservations, I'm gonna do the best I can to blow his mind. Understand that your man has 1,000 other options, so do what works for you. I have very long legs so thigh highs are my compliment.

Needless to say... What's the candy without the wrapper???

Leah
Love a girl in a dress or skirt all decked out. Easy on the perfume. If it starts like that it usually a good experience and leads to a goo d tip.
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Hello Everyone,

I really like this topic. I love high heels, stockings, Slutty Club Dresses, Lingerie. But I do notice Everything. The decor, cleanliness of the place, lay out. One of my favorite appointments, was when the lady even had fake lillies on the bed. She helped me disrobe and escorted me to the shower where she had a whole closet full of soaps n shampoo. Yes, the shampoo bottles were used but she had my particular brand, (man think of the shopping at Walmart, hehe). Anyways, I tipped her half of what the appointment cost was just because of this alone. So, I put money where my apperication lies. Most guys won't do this.

I do find most will ask if I have any special requests and try to accomadate as best they can. Ever effort to do so,or the lack there of, is seen by me and repeats from depend more on this than just wam bam thank you mam. I guess us older guys just want that dream......... Originally Posted by CuddlyBear
You really are a cuddly bear . I definitely expect my guy friend to notice everything. I'm really big on attention to even the smallest detail as well.
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I am a fairly simple man If I am paying hoe rates I expect a hoe, if I am paying lady rates I am expecting a lady. Not just in looks either. There is nothing worse then a beautiful woman opening her mouth and ruining the illusion by speaking like dumb ghetto trash.

Now as a man I am also expected to play my part as well. I don't show up to a higher lvl evening looking and speaking like larry the cable guy.

Jus saying...like....ya know...gah
I appreciate discretion very much and always want my company to feel comfortable. I am always in my designer dresses and heels, BCD I love my lingerie. Unless a gentleman has a specific request, I feel you will always be pleased with my appearance.