1. The brain is the biggest sex organ in the body for most men, not the eyes. It sounded like you sought out the hottest body you could find but paid little or no attention to whether she could/would/cared for stimulate the mind. Whether she would seduce you and mesh well with the mental side of your libido. Next time try finding a lady who posts things that raise your puritan interests. The one who gives you a glimpse of her fiendish/playful/teasing/lustful/coy/sensual/dominating/submissive/naughty side--whatever adjectives push your buttons..
Originally Posted by Old-T
Thanks, this is great advice. A couple of the girls I slept with in college didn't exactly have supermodel looks, but I was attracted to them nevertheless and looking back I believe it definitely had more to do with the way they acted - more confident, fun, teasing etc just like you describe. I'll look for providers like this rather than only paying attention to looks.