Just the other day I had a gentlemen call me up to schedule a session with me. He was screened very well, and he passed muster. He came to my in call, and when he was asked to disrobe...I saw several tattoo's. Some of them were very graphic from when he had been locked up and had been a white supremasist. Swastika and such.
He and I conversed about the tatt, and he hung his head and said that he wished he could erase his past, and all the hate he carried was no longer.
Turns out he was just a regular guy with a big heart.
I also have had guys call me up that sounded on the phone to be African American, but upon arrival were Caucasian and vise versa.
I say all that to say this..."NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER"...
You may miss out on many special guys of all nationalities by excluding them because of their race.
I think ladies who choose not to see African American men, or any other race besides white, will be missing out on an awesome opportunity to broaden their horizon and learn what makes us so uniquely different.
I have found that there is good and bad in all people, but it was once said by someone famous, "THERE IS NOTHING TO FEAR BUT FEAR ITSELF"....
I sincerely hope that one day we can all come together and put this nonsense behind us.
I love all my people....
Sincerely,
M.M.
- Melissa Madyson
- 09-09-2016, 09:36 AM
- Infinityg37
- 09-09-2016, 02:47 PM
- Infinityg37
- 09-09-2016, 02:52 PM
Just the other day I had a gentlemen call me up to schedule a session with me. He was screened very well, and he passed muster. He came to my in call, and when he was asked to disrobe...I saw several tattoo's. Some of them were very graphic from when he had been locked up and had been a white supremasist. Swastika and such.As long as you schedule the x white supremacist and the black guy so they don't meet you should be good LOL
He and I conversed about the tatt, and he hung his head and said that he wished he could erase his past, and all the hate he carried was no longer.
Turns out he was just a regular guy with a big heart.
I also have had guys call me up that sounded on the phone to be African American, but upon arrival were Caucasian and vise versa.
I say all that to say this..."NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER"...
You may miss out on many special guys of all nationalities by excluding them because of their race.
I think ladies who choose not to see African American men, or any other race besides white, will be missing out on an awesome opportunity to broaden their horizon and learn what makes us so uniquely different.
I have found that there is good and bad in all people, but it was once said by someone famous, "THERE IS NOTHING TO FEAR BUT FEAR ITSELF"....
I sincerely hope that one day we can all come together and put this nonsense behind us.
I love all my people....
Sincerely,
M.M. Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson
- Melissa Madyson
- 09-09-2016, 03:22 PM
^^ I believe that people change and a tattoo is just that a tattoo.. Hate builds up in your heart and mind. He specifically told me he was sorry for all he had done, he is a business man now, and he wishes he could erase his past. Unfortunately too many people aren't willing to forgive and let go of their anger and hatred towards one another.
He on the other hand was accepting his mistakes, changing his life around, and starting a fresh life with a clean slate. I applaud him for sharing his story, and trying to make amends for his wrong doings in his younger life.
Truth be told we all have a story...
Like I said, "Never judge a book by it's cover". The cover may be worn, but the book may be a fantastic read by a prize winning author.
M.M.
He on the other hand was accepting his mistakes, changing his life around, and starting a fresh life with a clean slate. I applaud him for sharing his story, and trying to make amends for his wrong doings in his younger life.
Truth be told we all have a story...
Like I said, "Never judge a book by it's cover". The cover may be worn, but the book may be a fantastic read by a prize winning author.
M.M.
- albundy
- 09-09-2016, 05:27 PM
I have to disagree with you on the racist part because I know a Caucasian provider who rather not visit with aa guys but outside of eccie aa guys are all that she dates ijs. It's just her preference and in most cases something have happened to make that provider have an NBA policy Originally Posted by Super Head 713
YESS!!! girl!!!!!!! Originally Posted by tarafoxxx
Not to be disrespectful but that makes absolutely no dam sense.She need to sit down with a therapist she have some unresolved issues LOL.What are you talking about, man?!? This is VERY common in the hobby world. I have seen a bunch of providers who have black kids and, from pictures I saw, date black guys. BUT, they have "No AA" on their ads. It's VERY common. Not saying that it's "right", just that it's very common.Originally Posted by Infinityg37
- tarafoxxx
- 09-09-2016, 07:38 PM
Not to be disrespectful but that makes absolutely no dam sense.She need to sit down with a therapist she have some unresolved issues LOL.
On Eccie I see verified well manner black men,so I date them... As far as Backpage and other sites of that nature I tend to stray away from YOUNGER black guys due to immaturity and lack of respect... Me personally I love all races, but sexually I love to turn white men out,sue me!!!! But that's my sexual preference, I have dated black men before and enjoy it,I just really get off more with white guys... But as far as a WHITE supremacist I guarantee one date with me he will go from rocking a Swastika to being a Black Panther...No shade...
- Super Head 713
- 09-09-2016, 08:41 PM
- Super Head 713
- 09-09-2016, 08:46 PM
On Eccie I see verified well manner black men,so I date them... As far as Backpage and other sites of that nature I tend to stray away from YOUNGER black guys due to immaturity and lack of respect... Me personally I love all races, but sexually I love to turn white men out,sue me!!!! But that's my sexual preference, I have dated black men before and enjoy it,I just really get off more with white guys... But as far as a WHITE supremacist I guarantee one date with me he will go from rocking a Swastika to being a Black Panther...No shade... Originally Posted by tarafoxxxOMG I thought I was the only person who feels this way lol. I date aa men but Caucasian guys seem to get me off more, whenever I watch porn to get a really good orgasm I watch Caucasian guys Mmmmmmmmm it turns me on so much!!!
- Infinityg37
- 09-09-2016, 09:02 PM
- tarafoxxx
- 09-09-2016, 09:23 PM
I'am not mad at you back in the day they use to just take it now you get a few roses LOL. You just like to be in control of the man for a minute that's what gets you off.Sir, I find your comment to be offensive and some what sophomoric.I do not feel that was an appropriate statement, we have came a long way since then, and from personal experiences white men aren't the only men who feel the to need to "Take and now donate"... Control is a trust thing you give that up willingly... None of my clients where forced and what gets me off is open minded SENSUAL men...Originally Posted by Infinityg37
- Super Head 713
- 09-09-2016, 09:50 PM
Sir, I find your comment to be offensive and some what sophomoric.I do not feel that was an appropriate statement, we have came a long way since then, and from personal experiences white men aren't the only men who feel the to need to "Take and now donate"... Control is a trust thing you give that up willingly... None of my clients where forced and what gets me off is open minded SENSUAL men... Originally Posted by tarafoxxxSMH he is beginning to act very ignorant right now, which explains why some providers have a NBA policy
- Super Head 713
- 09-09-2016, 09:51 PM
- Infinityg37
- 09-09-2016, 10:02 PM
- Super Head 713
- 09-09-2016, 11:02 PM
I did not mean to offend you ladies and I see more women of other races so I'am in the same boat. Originally Posted by Infinityg37I believe this is the whole moral of this thread "everyone has his/her own preference" either if it's regarding ethnicity, weight, looks, and etc. In this case it was regarding ethnicity(which she should have posted some place where she advertises at). I understand your frustration because I would have been a little upset of how everything occurred myself,but hey at least you know now that you should include that in a message so that you will not be put into this situation again lol
- tarafoxxx
- 09-09-2016, 11:51 PM
I believe this is the whole moral of this thread "everyone has his/her own preference" either if it's regarding ethnicity, weight, looks, and etc. In this case it was regarding ethnicity(which she should have posted some place where she advertises at). I understand your frustration because I would have been a little upset of how everything occurred myself,but hey at least you know now that you should include that in a message so that you will not be put into this situation again lol Originally Posted by Super Head 713I 2nd the sweet lady's thoughts