WOMAN / PROVIDERS Shaving years off their age....

Now I know why my buddy Surcher drinks! About to start myself!

George Washington never told a lie... but his wife lied about her age!

I may be a bit caustic on the board, but I'm not in person...I try to be a gentleman. If the lady appears 15 years older than her pics, it might be a disappointment, but no reason to be rude or cancel the session. We are both taking chances on such a meeting. I firmly believe that the thing to do in such a situation is to be a gentleman and get the best out of the session as possible. If it's a remarkable session, you may have found a diamond in the rough, and you'll repeat. The worst that will happen is that you won't repeat. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

What if it was a transexual.

Would you be so forgiving of the lie?

If we lie about how much we agreed to pay them, would you expect them to be so forgiving?

We are talking about folks you meet over the internet, not folks you meet in person.

There should be at least some expectation of the truth.

^ Agreed....

When we will lie about things that don't matter (such as age, so far every guy has said it doesn't matter) then what else will we lie about....

They get away with it because they truly look that age! Once again, weather your 28, 38 or 48... or even 108... if your hot your hot!!! Here's a little secret: Look at show case pictures and watch for pictures of the provider’s hands. Some times even the doctored pictures, if the guy is good will fix or conceal the hands. The hands tell a story at times. With all the plastic surgery these days... ya never know. Does any one remember Phyllis Diller? She once said she had a face lift so many times, she had a brown ring around her neck! Now that’s funny, I don't care who you are!



I resemble that remark!



Agreed.... but what about the pictures of a provider you might consider an 8, but the person is really a 10 or 11 when you meet them!? Bait and switch is certainly wrong, but not all the time! Now if I show up to an appointment expecting a Gia Look A Like let’s say in her early 30's. I better not see a provider that looks like Gene, who has a deep voice Adams Apple and calls me fella?! Now that is BAIT & SWITCH (And no I don’t want to talk about it!) Originally Posted by Still Looking

What if it was a transexual.

Would you be so forgiving of the lie?

If we lie about how much we agreed to pay them, would you expect them to be so forgiving?

We are talking about folks you meet over the internet, not folks you meet in person.

There should be at least some expectation of the truth. Originally Posted by WTF

Take the 5th Charles!

Still looking, the demimonde culture is filled with little white lies and vagueness. It helps to keep boundaries in place. I have been seeing a man for about 6 years and he still doesn't know my age and other things about me. Even with my ATF, I like to keep things to myself.

Like I said before though, I bet there are ladies that have an age restriction that would have no problem calling a guy a liar if he lied about his age so he could see her. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

You are correct. There have been a couple to try and I wasn't pleased at all.

[quote=Ansley;1357818]Still looking, the demimonde culture is filled with little white lies and vagueness. It helps to keep boundaries in place. I have been seeing a man for about 6 years and he still doesn't know my age and other things about me. Even with my ATF, I like to keep things to myself.

I can certainly respect that! And value your opinion!

Take the 5th Charles! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Yea charles take that fifth and chug it!

Then report back what a gent you were for not leaving.

^ Agreed....

When we will lie about things that don't matter (such as age, so far every guy has said it doesn't matter) then what else will we lie about.... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

All kinds of shit.

That is why we are having a discussion on why lying does not matter.

Once they get you to believe that, they can get you to believe anything.

Think about that!

They don't like you lying, that is for sure!

Must be dueling penis week... I didn't get the memo!

This is one of my biggest pet peeves in the hobby. Age matters! When a lady lies (and, yes, that is the correct word), it sheds a wide shadow on ALL providers. And it is not just age. It is also pictures. With pictures, it cuts several ways. First, there are some out there who simply use other girls in their pics. Second, there are those who simply use photos that are not up to date, and when the date happens, the gentleman is surprised to see a lady that is 5 years older than what the pics indicate. Third, there are those who use various photographic tricks to hide their age or some other "feature" they don't want guys to know about. Now, I'm not saying gals shouldn't use professional pictures to present themselves in a positive manner, but they should not use pictures as a form of deception, bait and switch, or other things. But I digress; back on topic-- age.

Age matters to me. When I hobby, I usually am in the mood for a particular type of lady. Sometimes I may want a young college coed. Other times, I might be interested in a mature lady. Then again, I maybe interested in someone in between. This is where I usually run into problems with age. I have seen 50 year olds who have claimed to be in their early 30s. When they show up, the age difference is obvious, disappointing and to some degree disgusting. I think it is wrong for ladies to lie about their age. When it comes to basic things like age, height, weight, body type, etc; I never lie to the lady when talking to her. Why do providers feel the need to be untruthful to their clients? Sure, they probably think the guy will pay any way, but there are ramifications-- bad reviews, no-repeat sessions, etc. However, I feel that it does all providers an injustice. I know for me that after having been burned by deceptive providers, I now do the following. First, I do much more in terms of research. Second, I am now more inclined to NOT see any provider who claims to be over 35. If I'm in the mood for a more mature provider, it will be only with a provider who is well known, well reviewed, and has a stellar reputation. If a providers is willing to fudge on her age; what else is she willing to keep secret.

Love MY age and don't give a fuck if someone asks how old am I? I'll say it loud and proud! I take care of my body, no wrinkles on my face, don't smoke and don't look old. Rather I look younger than my age and damn proud of it!!


Though I *do* understand *why* some women indicate they're A LOT younger than they are. Because some men can't handle the *age* of a woman, despite how NICE her body is. Sad but true, as many men have indicated that AGE is a factor for them (regardless of the woman's body) as the age of the woman ruins their fantasy of being with someone *young*.

I feel you ought to own your age, and be proud to state it. As there ARE men who most certainly DO adore MATURE women of a certain older age!! I'm proof that being in my 40's & beautiful for my age is a wonderful thing when your enjoying a real mans touch!


NOW...let's turn the table.......there are far too many men in this hobby whom indicate their age as being 10+ years younger than their TRUE age. There are men who are just as vain about their age as women.

So the age shaving goes both ways!!



Older women & Men make beautiful lovers and there's no need to shave years off your age!!

Be you and be proud and fuck what others think! That's MY motto and I'm sticking to it.

Its been said never ask a woman how old she is. I think the reason is in most cases you either won't get an answer or your going to get something that might be a little less than the truth.

It would seem even younger gals take years off their age. Examples: A 30 year old seems to be a 26 year old. (4) A 40 year old seems to be a 32 year old. (8) A 50 year old seems to be a 38-42 year old. (8-12)

Before you gals start beating me like a red headed step child, I know not all of you do this but for the most part its true. It would seem the older a gal gets the more they feel they need to shave!

Here's the question. Guys like what they see! (This explains some of the show case pictures and professional photos. SMART!) But why the age shaving? If you 49 and your hot... well your hot! I'm pretty sure when I say guys really don't give a darn how old you are with few exceptions. Originally Posted by Still Looking

This is one of my biggest pet peeves in the hobby. Age matters! When a lady lies (and, yes, that is the correct word), it sheds a wide shadow on ALL providers. And it is not just age. It is also pictures. With pictures, it cuts several ways. First, there are some out there who simply use other girls in their pics. Second, there are those who simply use photos that are not up to date, and when the date happens, the gentleman is surprised to see a lady that is 5 years older than what the pics indicate. Third, there are those who use various photographic tricks to hide their age or some other "feature" they don't want guys to know about. Now, I'm not saying gals shouldn't use professional pictures to present themselves in a positive manner, but they should not use pictures as a form of deception, bait and switch, or other things. But I digress; back on topic-- age.

Age matters to me. When I hobby, I usually am in the mood for a particular type of lady. Sometimes I may want a young college coed. Other times, I might be interested in a mature lady. Then again, I maybe interested in someone in between. This is where I usually run into problems with age. I have seen 50 year olds who have claimed to be in their early 30s. When they show up, the age difference is obvious, disappointing and to some degree disgusting. I think it is wrong for ladies to lie about their age. When it comes to basic things like age, height, weight, body type, etc; I never lie to the lady when talking to her. Why do providers feel the need to be untruthful to their clients? Sure, they probably think the guy will pay any way, but there are ramifications-- bad reviews, no-repeat sessions, etc. However, I feel that it does all providers an injustice. I know for me that after having been burned by deceptive providers, I now do the following. First, I do much more in terms of research. Second, I am now more inclined to NOT see any provider who claims to be over 35. If I'm in the mood for a more mature provider, it will be only with a provider who is well known, well reviewed, and has a stellar reputation. If a providers is willing to fudge on her age; what else is she willing to keep secret. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Very True and VERY well written. Personally, if a gal looks 30, acts 30 and says she is 30 and she is hot... when its over and done with and you find out she is 44... then she is in fact a "Liar". Nobody can or will argue with that. But who would separate the fly shit out of the pepper and say... oh I'm not going to see you ever again because you lied. Kinda why I started the thread, because I see it over and over again. Seems to be common knowledge that this goes on.

I dont understand why they lie.. say 28 and their 41.. what? I can see a few years but over 10??

It seems to me.. the bigger market is older women and Milfs.. Work it ladies.

If anything Ive added a year or two. lol

A lady is a lady no matter the age and a gentleman should be a gentleman no matter the age. I agree with Charles that even if the age is not reflected in the info provided, make the best of it and in many cases I would bet it will be a great time. As for the TS lying, that would be a totally different ballgame.

I prefer mature ladies because I am an older gentleman and in most cases, not all, the experience with a mature lady has always been better because of the maturity factor, but before the younger ladies jump me, I said not always. I have been with some 20 and 30 year olds that were old beyond their years.

I really wish they would be honest about their age, because that is not a priority in my booking an appointment. Many other factors take priority over age in my determination to see a lady.

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What they are gonna say next is "well if it doesn't matter then why do y'all care if we lie about it"....lol

. As for the TS lying, that would be a totally different ballsgame.
Originally Posted by topsgt38801

There, Fixed that for ya topsgt