Tie or no tie

This is may be just idiosyncratic old me, but I find that after a session of terrific sex, the process of getting dressed in a suit provides an important end note. I have to find the stuff (dark socks in a candle lit room can be illusive), get 'em all organized and then go through the step-by-step process of dressing. But this mundane process lets me disengage from the fantasy of the carnal world and re-enter my reality. So the little things like putting on the cufflinks, knotting the tie, "shooting" the shirtcuffs through the sleaves of my jacket are more focused since the completion of each discrete act means I am that much closer to walking out the door flush with memories and the residue of lust. This is an important transition for me and it doesn't happen if I only have to pull on a polo shirt and buckle up my Levis.

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She was overdressed. Personally one of my favorite looks is her in one of my dress shirts partially buttoned Originally Posted by atlcomedy

She was wearing the tie VERY loosely, and the shirt was unbuttoned most of the way. It was just such an obvious (to me LOL) part of "wearing" a man's shirt and tie that I didn't mention it.

Reminds me of a winter day when a lovely lady was meeting me at my hotel. She had to cab it from across the city. When she entered she took off her coat ... she was completely naked Originally Posted by discreetgent

I tried this recently. Except - instead of waiting for me in his room like a good little puppy, my date decided to meet me in the lobby so we could go out and get a bite to eat. Here I am, wearing nothing under my trench coat. I didn't think it would be a problem until we got to the restaurant.... which had mandatory coat check policy. Oy.

Ok, LV ...then what happened?

however the only place a tie is absolutely necessary(but maybe not) is a "black tie affair.

Correct me if I'm wrong.
Originally Posted by anova444

Appearing as a lawyer in Federal Court.

And there's absolutely nothing at all wrong with a cheap tie -- so long as you don't mind running the risk of looking poorly turned out. I'm sure that there's a decent cheap tie somewhere, but I don't think I've seen many.

I once had a girl that thought it would be sexy to take my tie off and run it back and forth between her legs. It was hot but she obviously did not realize that for a silk tie there was no way to clean it and get rid of the smell. Women can always smell another woman so I could never use that tie again. Great visual but obviously a lack of appreciation for good ties.

I gave it to her, I hope she put it to good use; maybe in a courtroom.

I love a man who wears a tie and a suit, and like everyone was talking about I love cuff links,but I also love a man who looks great in a pair of jeans and a sport coat.

I love a man who wears a tie and a suit, and like everyone was talking about I love cuff links,but I also love a man who looks great in a pair of jeans and a sport coat. Originally Posted by BellaIsabella

Isabella, you are sooooo my kind of gal. Choose LA for your month off.....



This subliminal (or was that sublingual?) ad is courtesy of the SoCal Chambers of Commerce, who promote the best weather in the world whille offering the worst traffic.

A gentleman that can wear a tie and be comfortable in one is so sexy.
Something about a man that knows how to dress and smells delicious...
Completely melts me..

Tie play.. even better...