Bahahahha OMG THIS SHIT MADE MY NIGHT!!!!!! Where do I start? Ok, first of all that site is wack, and so are most of the escort sites...WHY? Because men are cheap! In Ca I could easily get minimum $800/hr. Now in Texas it is a much different story. Let's get it straight, I don't care whether you call yourself a "sugardaddy" or a "hobbyist" or a "trick", the fact of the matter is that you pay to play. Don't think that just because you put a label on "sugardaddy" that it makes it more acceptable to call 24/7 365. It's stalking and psycho and I deal with it everyday. $500 a month??!??! AHAHAHAH I QUIT! That is a one hour outcall with tip then. There will be NO calling, texting, emailing 24/7. You are not entitled to call me just to say hi or, the most common ones as of late, "I saw your new pics just wanted to say they are great!" hmmmm OK do you want to set an appointment? NOOOO they just want to play on the phone. I get enough bs emails, texts, calls, and messages all day long that robs me of my regular life I couldn't imagine putting a "sugardaddy" label to it where the guy feels like he has the right to waste your day away with annoying texts and calls. Lets stick to the basics, crawl before you can walk Texas, we first need to get the guys who actually can follow simple directions that are stated clearly in our ads like, "email me first with all references and/or p411. If you don't have that then don't contact and especially don't call." 90% of my calls never amount to anything. I get little boys looking at my ad that call with their dick in their hand and start asking what I'm wearing. It's a joke. It's hard enough when the rate per hour and all services are clearly listed, why add to it some grey area where you have to negotiate some "deal" each month. It sounds like a lot better deal for the guy, think about it, you want to see a girl x amount of times a month for a set rate...Ok well do the math per hour and see how high that rate would be. The provider will get the short end as a sugarbabby I promise, unless she is Anna Nicole Smith. (and she still got screwed) NO THANKS!! Lets stop trying to complicate all this. I'll make it easy....client sees provider ad, clients READS requirements and follows thru with said requirements. Clients sets time, meets provider, pays provider set rate, gets off, gets out. THAT SIMPLE!! Do I sounds callous? Probably. Do I sound like a bitch? Yea. But the fact is that there are too many providers/clients watering down this industry with unprofessionalism. Trying to blur the lines of business gets us where we are now. I run a tight ship, with that being said if a girl can establish a relationship with a sugardaddy that benefits him and her then go for, but I have yet to see one that didn't eventually evolve into the guy trying to steal more time without paying or one of them becoming a stalker/problem. Originally Posted by Gabriella GoldenWhen I read this diatribe, I had several thoughts. First, what a beautiful young woman whose despise for those who seek her services is simply sad. And, pragmatically, it just isn't a recipe for good karma. It is an economic argument: giving pleasure for an hourly compensation certainly beats the constraints of a SD/SB relationship.
The writer of that venom is certainly a girl one would want to spend an hour or two with, if at all. I have had two very successful relationships with women half of my age. In fact, both were young enough to be my daughters. Both were serious women who never wanted to be in a position in life to be economically dependent on a man for her security. Both were students and becoming educated was their primary goal. But, both were beautiful young women who understood the pleasure they could provide. I really wanted them to succeed, and they both are succeeding. I made no demands but I wanted to know how their university study was going. Soon it was clear that the newest fashion jean was not a priority, and that I was going to do what I said I was going to do, and that was to treat them like I would treat one of my children. Tuition, books, an allowance for a cheap college apartment, which was shared with other girls - the typical university existence, was offered and given. I never felt neglected or used. To the contrary, both physical relationships lasted several years and I reaped the benefit of sex that was offered without request more often than not. Perhaps it was the realization that I really cared about these young women and they knew it. Perhaps it was because I was the father figure they wanted but never had. Perhaps it was simply they knew I would do what I said I would do. Everything is impermanent, so I never expected that the sex would continue after they go into the work force. It didn't, but I still have two beautiful friends (one is married and the other is engaged - serious relationships they would never have entertained while in school) that are still in my life, but not "in the biblical sense." Don't forget Karma.
Just because one is young in age doesn't mean that they're immature... Just sayin..
Originally Posted by Naomi4u