Most times I dispose of them myself. Those few times that I let her do it, I can't help but wonder a little bit. I sure would hate to get a 5-year child support bill out of nowhere and have to put backtracking clues together. Chances of this happening? Next to zero, but hell, who wants to be those 1 or 2 guys that this happens to? I doubt any of the cute, young ladies i chase around want to get pregnant by an aging, ugly black dude with an average income, but who knows. Maybe I'm an upgrade over their uglier boyfriend/manager.
As far as flushing them goes, I wrap them in toilet paper to help it go down. Of course, that's just the flushing part. What happens to it after it's out of sight, I don't know. I don't know the dynamics of a sewer exactly. I used to and still occasionally dip them in the toilet water to empty out the load and then throw it in the trash. This can be a bit time consuming, not to mention make the lady wonder what I'm 'doing in there'. Speaking of the trash can, I've had 1 or 2 times where I've seen previously used condoms already in the can. Talk about wondering what number were you today. This makes flushing them seem like a better option. Makes me want to start bringing my own little bag to throw away later myself.