Hello guys and gals, I am posting this message with no intention for another argument or drama. I've been in this hobby for many years but I did not get on a public board like the ECCI or P411. Due to my previous jobs, I had to be UTR, but now it’s okay. I really like the forums and the way of how the hobby is utilizing the internet. I like the transparency that the internet can provide. I now can read the reviews ahead of time before meeting a provider. That is so great in and of itself. Since I've been around the block a few times, I understand that it is normal that you would have a bad day and sometime a good day. Even the weather is unpredictable; therefore, you cannot expect a provider to be perfect the way you wanted every time. I've read many reviews from Eccie and other boards, and learned many things about each one of the providers I am interested in. Those reviews are so useful to me and I feel that I also owe it to the community to also give back candid reviews in my own words. All that being said, so please do not add any more drama into this. Whatever I’d said in my previous review was the truth from my heart. It was totally candid, and it was not the results of me not receiving the “Okay” from my provider. I actually already wrote this review without publishing it, while waiting for the “Okay” from her. She would have gotten my same review whether or not the “Okay” was approved. Lastly, I really dislike to having to explain myself, but I hope that the drama ends here: “I am not an aggressor, and I am not a liar.” Whether you’d like to believe me or not, that’s your choice. In the end, I’d like to send love and respect to everyone on this board, including my recent provider. You are the protectors who keep our hobby safe, resourceful and fun.Thanks for your input, but this is a drama thread and the OP knew it was going to be before she started it. I agree with you on a few points. You were right to write the review after the provider answered your ok request, I had wrote a review once before sending the ok request, she denied it, even though I do not know the real reason nor would she respond when I asked, it may have been the review. I also was on p411 long before this handle on Eccie.
"Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable." - John F. Kennedy Originally Posted by phta
I think it is hilarious when WKs, providers, other than the one being reviewed, and other fellow hobbyists question the validity of a review and what did and did not happen as well as reading something in between the lines as they were not there so unless a provider was recording the session and sent the tape to the wanna be detectives, then their opinions are worthless, and even then, video has a cause for interpretation, depending on your perception.
Where I disagree with you is the provider having a good day or a bad day. While that is true, as it is with everyone, a provider is getting paid to show a guy a good time for a whole hour, if that long, while he is there. IMHO, the difference between just a provider and an ATF type provider is being able to leave those personal issues outside the bedroom door and making her client feel as if he is the only person that matters making that time all about him and his wants and desires for a great session. If the problems are so bad that she is not able to do that, she should reschedule for another time when she will be able to do so.
