should I keep my mouth shut or should I say something?

Know? That's how they met...lol

I think i would feel him out by asking some question on his thoughts on it before i proceed on the course of action.

REPEATING...it is NONE of your business!!!
What annoys me is that you posted this in the first place and you are a hobbyist. You are putting on the "fiancé" a stigma. Stop thinking with your cock and leave it alone.

Word of the day boys and girls.....Mysoginistic (I would add "prick" to that...but I am a lady)


Spikebaby

If it were me, I'd expect any person I called a friend to tell me. Anyone who knew, and didn't tell me, and I found out about it would no longer be a friend. Keep that one in mind. Originally Posted by honeydavis

Honey, I guarantee that you would hate your friend, either way. Been there done that.

REPEATING...it is NONE of your business!!!
What annoys me is that you posted this in the first place and you are a hobbyist. You are putting on the "fiancé" a stigma. Stop thinking with your cock and leave it alone.
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Spikebaby Originally Posted by Spikebaby

Listen to the woman. She knows whereof she speaks.

We have obviously never met...

Honey, I guarantee that you would hate your friend, either way. Been there done that. Originally Posted by Glenn Quagmire

Don't say a word! Are you kidding me? You don't know the full dynamics of the situation and frankly (as we all know I am) it is none of your business!!

I see you have a few reviews yourself...would you want anyone to find out that you hobby?Iit is a simple act of DISCRETION!

Spikebaby Originally Posted by Spikebaby

Every discussion about what's most important in the hobby goes back to DISCRETION. I wouldn't out my worst hobby enemy - yeah there's all the stuff that everyone says on here, good and bad, but in the end everyone has a personal situation and that should be respected NO MATTER WHAT.

Thank you guys for all the comments.

Im just going to have to really think about this one. She is a very popular provider on here and she has a lot of reviews. I was very surprised to see her on here. Some of you guys have asked me for her info and I do apologize but I cant do that. The one thing that I know is that it is a no win situation

It's really none of your business. No need to think about it. Just mind your own business. Your friend may be a hobbyist, too, and bringing it up would be awkward. Just let what is supposed to happen happens by itself. If the relationship is meant to be, it will find its way naturally. But you are a hobbyist, so I hope you respect DISCRETION.

Leave it alone...

period

not your business. keep your mouth closed and butt out!

Thank you guys for all the comments.

Im just going to have to really think about this one. She is a very popular provider on here and she has a lot of reviews. I was very surprised to see her on here. Some of you guys have asked me for her info and I do apologize but I cant do that. The one thing that I know is that it is a no win situation Originally Posted by el_nino_1

I take it she has face pics? If so more than likely he knows or she just isn't worried about getting caught.

Absolutely do nothing. It can only lead to trouble for all concerned!!!!

I've gone through this exact thing except the guy was my client and the girl was my best friend in the real world. I decided to stick with the provider code of protecting the identity of my clients under any circumstance. I held that till they broke up and she caught him. I am very glad I didn't say anything.

Follow the taint, the taint will not lead you astray.

I'm sure very few of us married a virgin.

If they love each other, don't screw it up. Be happy for him that he is getting to be with someone who can obviously make him happy. Hopefully, he offers the same satisfaction for her in return.

Skip the guys advice and listen to the ladies. They are much wiser than us in these situations.