Ok, great thread! I love to be tied up by a Shanari expert, (ie someone trained in this jApanese art form) it is never about the sex in this type of session! It's About the mind fuck of loss of sensory control and only having the rope be your touch! Damn I could squirt just thinking about it!
However, because of this love I have learned to do this myself for others enjoyment! I have even taught a few classes on basics of rope play! However, I have mainly only done this in my personal non-hobby life.
I do have two exceptions and my so was present during first sessions of rope play with the clients for my safety and trust! The clients now see me without and play is at higher level even if we haven't seen each other in a yr or so! With that being said! Both clients I have known over years and can say are friends as much as clients! The trust factor was built! I would never see a client first time and have them attempt this! My opinion so don't tear me apart! I just take longer to build those deep bonds!