What you scare the shit out of a provider. No means no!

Seeing some for the first time is awkward enough as it is. I try to feel out what the provider likes or doesn't like. I'm pretty normal though when it comes to my activities / menu. Maybe on the second visit if I want to try something off the wall I'll discuss it prior too the session but the first NO I hear means stop.
Kaylee - I'm so sorry this happened to you. This really made my heart fall. I would've went crazy and had an all out brawl with that asshole.
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....and Brown Sugar you (and Kaylee) would have been well within your rights to kick him in the nuts. No means no!! NO EXCEPTIONS!

Kaylee - I'm so sorry this happened to you. This really made my heart fall. I would've went crazy and had an all out brawl with that asshole. Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby
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After the 4th no, I just lost it. He kept putting my legs in a position where it was hurting me and finally, I just lost it.

He text me after giving me a lame excuse why he was doing it and then said no harm no foul.

Whatever..... it wasn't you on the receiving end of it dude.
....and Brown Sugar you (and Kaylee) would have been well within your rights to kick him in the nuts. No means no!! NO EXCEPTIONS! Originally Posted by planojim
Kick him in the nuts? Heck no! That's too painful. I would've gave him a serious lesson with my strap-on. No lube. Of course, that would've rendered a full refund and maybe even a tip.

Never forget the Golden Rule!
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Kaylee I'm guessing you were saying "STOP! NO! & DON'T! "But he heard "NO! DON'T STOP!!!" Lol I'm sorry Originally Posted by cush
Shut the fuck up and get a sense of humor dick!! She wasn't hurt, no harm no foul! She had good things to say about guy .. Originally Posted by cush
Nothing like a good old self alert, thanks cush I'm sure any ladies that may be screening you in the future will appreciate your sensitivity...

Kaylee, I have been moderating Dallas forums since aspd and you have never been anything but sweet and considerate, rest assured that karma will work her magic on the knuckle dragging moron that put you through this, stay cool babe.
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  • L.A.
  • 05-06-2014, 04:49 PM
Kaylee - I'm so sorry this happened to you. This really made my heart fall. I would've went crazy and had an all out brawl with that asshole. Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby
Not making light of what you went thru Kaylee but I have to say if he tried that with BSB I would have actually felt sorry for the guy....see her second post. LOL


Why would he do that to somebody who didn't want to do it? Power I guess. There are providers to fulfill that roll so why he didn't seek them out? Probably would not have "done it for him" to do it with somebody where it was consensual.
Just no respect...sad.
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  • modus
  • 05-06-2014, 05:05 PM
Modus is a really awesome guy! I'm happy to have him here. We need more people like him! Originally Posted by Jillian Price
Thanks Jillian.

You providers have a higher threshold for interesting people than I ever would have. I'm amazed by some of the stories I hear from providers. I know as a hobbyists I sometimes forget how vulnerable we can be in this business. Hopefully everyone stays safe and has fun.
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  • modus
  • 05-06-2014, 05:11 PM
After the 4th no, I just lost it. He kept putting my legs in a position where it was hurting me and finally, I just lost it.

He text me after giving me a lame excuse why he was doing it and then said no harm no foul.

Whatever..... it wasn't you on the receiving end of it dude. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick
He should be blacklisted for the "no harm no foul" comment. That shows how out of touch he is, or how close he is to being a borderline rapist. Again, that's horrible that happened to you.
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Kaylee,
The way I learned it 'Excuses are like assholes'. (And this guy seems like he was an asshole) What he did was wrong and there is NO EXCUSE for him treating you like he did. Good for you for telling him to take a hike girl!
Bottom line: It's HIS loss not yours!
We all support what you did nice lady!
Jim

After the 4th no, I just lost it. He kept putting my legs in a position where it was hurting me and finally, I just lost it.

He text me after giving me a lame excuse why he was doing it and then said no harm no foul.

Whatever..... it wasn't you on the receiving end of it dude. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick
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Brown Sugar....I just LOVE your attitude! You go girl!!
Jim

Kick him in the nuts? Heck no! That's too painful. I would've gave him a serious lesson with my strap-on. No lube. Of course, that would've rendered a full refund and maybe even a tip.

Never forget the Golden Rule! Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby
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Thanks everyone. I was a real eye opener that is for sure.
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You're VERY welcome Kaylee! You seem like a wonderful woman and a magnificent provider! You'll be alright darlin!

Thanks everyone. I was a real eye opener that is for sure. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick
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Holy shit just read this. SOOO sorry this happened to you girl. I'm here too if you need me.