Dating a provider

Tori you are the shit you act much older than you are. See you soon Originally Posted by 40bows

Thanks! I was forced to grow up a lot faster than most.

What I don't get is guys wanna date a hooker then want her to leave the business without making up the lost revenue for them. Talk about a douchebag control freak move.

I will say I follow the fuck and leave philosophy, no illusions. But there are a few (well, at least 1) who is gone that I miss very much. Hey, they are people and you develop feelings. Or else a plastic fuck doll would do the trick, right? Not feelings of love neccessarily but something not easily replaced. People come in and out of our lives all the time. Some you miss some you don't. Originally Posted by trojantide

Well said!!!

Trojan, you are allowed to miss her. You pay her to create a feeling that is easy to miss.

Just know and remember this when you are missing her...you aren't missing her, you are missing the fantasy. In real life she isn't the fantasy she is for the hour she's with you. She takes a dump, chews with her mouth open, mother fucks the cab driver, walks out of the bathroom with toilet paper stuck to her shoe, loses important things, cant get stuff off the top shelf, etc.

Somewhere, someone, right at that exact moment, is sick and tired of putting up with her shit. Originally Posted by amishgangster

And well said again...my poor husband

Very well said guys. In fact I remember thinking those very same things! I remember thinking I can't fucking wait to leave my ex and be alone in peace and quiet for a bit. And others were lining up to see her and wanted her out of the business! Come live with me, take care of my cats, my house, I love you, marry me, etc. I couldn't believe grown men could be so foolish but trust me, it happens, and it happens more than we think. Eccie must stand for Christian mingle.

Do you tell guys when they get clingy or do you just ignore them! Originally Posted by tounge ring

I just want to apologize if I offended anyone. AD sorry for the remark, I was being a dick. You didn't deserve that!

If it floats, fly's or fucks rent it, do not fall in love with it.

Someone sweet on one of your hookers?

Someone sweet on one of your hookers? Originally Posted by Gotyour6

They are just "friends" lol

Who knows? A relationship, any relationship, takes a lot of work. People tend to want and need safety and security. Any relationship can work. Sex is only part of it, though. And I'm sure, the guys can bring as much "stuff" into a relationship as the girls. We can be just as simple and petty, and have toilet paper hanging off of our shoes, too. The bottom line. Can you be happy with someone and love them with their faults. It can happen.

Well I read all the replies, and I for one agree with amishganster. I haven't been on here that long but have been "playing" for awhile. There has been one woman that I actually thought about but I keep the hobby and real life separate. So if you get a regular that is fun then stick with it, but just remember no matter what you're paying her and she's out to make money, if she can then she'll say what ever to keep you coming back for more. That said I have becomes friends with one, know her real name, age blah blah. But bottom line is she may be saying the same to others, so its all what it is. I will say this though, getting to "Know" one has been great, turns me on to other good chicks and what to stay away from and the sex is outstanding, plus I get a great discount!

Do you tell guys when they get clingy or do you just ignore them! Originally Posted by tounge ring

well ive tried the telling part but most of them dont stop even after that.
so now I just ignore figure it out yourself

I get it! Like I said I was a jerk and that was not right! I just want to say to you sorry for being a PITA. I really did have fun with you.

Don't shit where you eat Lmfao. Friends are AWESOME I'm very close friends with some but that's it.
Dating sites are amazing for recruiting new guys, I love them but some guys on there say nsa but don't mean it at all they want to be your bestie because you slept with them.

Who knows? A relationship, any relationship, takes a lot of work. People tend to want and need safety and security. Any relationship can work. Sex is only part of it, though. And I'm sure, the guys can bring as much "stuff" into a relationship as the girls. We can be just as simple and petty, and have toilet paper hanging off of our shoes, too. The bottom line. Can you be happy with someone and love them with their faults. It can happen. Originally Posted by richguy2851

Amazing. I have a lil crush.

Don't shit where you eat Lmfao. Friends are AWESOME I'm very close friends with some but that's it.
Dating sites are amazing for recruiting new guys, I love them but some guys on there say nsa but don't mean it at all they want to be your bestie because you slept with them. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Are you calling men pussycats Lexxxy?! Good to see you post xoxo

Who knows? A relationship, any relationship, takes a lot of work. People tend to want and need safety and security. Any relationship can work. Sex is only part of it, though. And I'm sure, the guys can bring as much "stuff" into a relationship as the girls. We can be just as simple and petty, and have toilet paper hanging off of our shoes, too. The bottom line. Can you be happy with someone and love them with their faults. It can happen. Originally Posted by richguy2851

Amazing. I have a lil crush. Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

Richguy -- this is what is termed a window of opportunity. Leap before it closes.

Sometimes, with some people, living out the fantasy, alters their perception of the real world.