Does it hurt you to see picture or video reviews of your ATF with other guys?

It would hurt to see her CIM, Greek, scream with real passion and return the donation because the guy was such a stud, when all we did was play checkers for $300/hr. Originally Posted by Prolongus

Now that is funny.
What hurts me is about half way thru the session she asks
"What's your handle again? Oh. Have I seen you before?"

I saw one provider that was so seductive that I had to remind myself afterwards for a couple of days that it's an illusion.

She was and is really good a the illusion.

She really seduced me.

Does it hurt your feelings when see picture or video reviews of your all time favorite with other guys? Originally Posted by Jonesscott6969

I'm trying to remember the last video review that I've seen, but I can't. Where do you see those?

Does it hurt my feelings? No.

Does it hurt the illusion of passion? Yes.

Many here seek that "GFE" experience. I'd say it's not common for someone's girlfriend to be banging half of dallas every week.

We pay for fantasy. Not reality.

Choosing to allow pics like that to be published (where a provider is in the act with a hobbyist) simply destroys the fantasy.

I'm not saying we should be delusional and ignore the fact that hobbying is based on a provider seeing multiple gents. But it's downright bad marketing IMO to shove that fact in the face of a potential client.

Anyone who says they are "GFE" when they are putting out an image of "Slut of the month" has got the definintion wrong.

Does it hurt my feelings? No.

Does it hurt the illusion of passion? Yes.

Many here seek that "GFE" experience. I'd say it's not common for someone's girlfriend to be banging half of dallas every week.

We pay for fantasy. Not reality.

Choosing to allow pics like that to be published (where a provider is in the act with a hobbyist) simply destroys the fantasy.

I'm not saying we should be delusional and ignore the fact that hobbying is based on a provider seeing multiple gents. But it's downright bad marketing IMO to shove that fact in the face of a potential client.

Anyone who says they are "GFE" when they are putting out an image of "Slut of the month" has got the definintion wrong. Originally Posted by Duke of G

My thoughts precisely.

Does it hurt my feelings? No.

Does it hurt the illusion of passion? Yes.

Many here seek that "GFE" experience. I'd say it's not common for someone's girlfriend to be banging half of dallas every week.

We pay for fantasy. Not reality.

Choosing to allow pics like that to be published (where a provider is in the act with a hobbyist) simply destroys the fantasy.

I'm not saying we should be delusional and ignore the fact that hobbying is based on a provider seeing multiple gents. But it's downright bad marketing IMO to shove that fact in the face of a potential client.

Anyone who says they are "GFE" when they are putting out an image of "Slut of the month" has got the definintion wrong. Originally Posted by Duke of G

My feelings as well.

And don't get me wrong...I love me some sluts.

But there are different market positions for providers. If she allows pics of her blowing some dude in a review, she's declared pretty strongly that her position isn't about GFE. It's about amateur porn. Did she think we didn't belive she gave blowjobs? I mean, we had one just the other day...

Some gals want the "pornstar image." Problem is, most of the examples I've seen here are pathetic attempts that wouldn't rate a bad gonzo site let alone the fantasy sites that make guys feel like they have a shot at a pornstar.

Most of this activity is hobby bravado. The bragging club wants to "show off" for his "hobby bros." Just goes to show: there are many ways to hobby. Discretion isn't part of it for some.

To quote a favorite, Crash Davis: "Think classy and you'll be classy."

I love the way you think Duke. Very well said

I saw my favorite band in LA and they said we were the best crowd ever... Then I saw them again in Phoenix... Couldn't believe it when I heard them say that Phoenix has the best crowd ever!!

Devastated!

(I kid. I kid.)

Does it hurt my feelings? No.

Does it hurt the illusion of passion? Yes.

Many here seek that "GFE" experience. I'd say it's not common for someone's girlfriend to be banging half of dallas every week.

We pay for fantasy. Not reality.

Choosing to allow pics like that to be published (where a provider is in the act with a hobbyist) simply destroys the fantasy.

I'm not saying we should be delusional and ignore the fact that hobbying is based on a provider seeing multiple gents. But it's downright bad marketing IMO to shove that fact in the face of a potential client.

Anyone who says they are "GFE" when they are putting out an image of "Slut of the month" has got the definintion wrong. Originally Posted by Duke of G

I deliberately stay away from reviews of my ATFs that purport to have pictures of the activities in them. I also stay away from the videos that one has created, in which I guess she does some sort of erotic dance.

They do what they think they have to do to attract clients. With one of my ATFs, the die is already cast: Unless I find out she's doing those aforementioned bareback gangbangs in south Dallas, I'll probably continue to see her. But if I were choosing someone new to see now, her ads touting that her pussy is a great place to put my dick -- or some similar wording -- would probably turn me away. I'd much rather read a woman's ad in which she says she'll be girlfriend-for-an-hour than one in which she brags about what a great cocksucker she is.

And don't get me wrong...I love me some sluts. Originally Posted by Duke of G

Sometimes I think I might like to try me a slut or two, someone to just have some fun with and drain my nuts. But invariably I wind up being attracted to the GFE types, the ones whom I'd never think of calling a slut, the ones who sense that in me and, even if they are, turn on the GFE charm. Sigh.

Yes,, you guys are doing a better job of saying what I was trying to say. I am in total agreement.
The ladies set the tone. If they allow 3rd rate porn of themselves they are seeking a different client base than I am in. I am as stated GFE almost always. I really like the gals I see. I don't want them demeaned.

I disagree with all that. I can handle seeing a woman I want to bang (again, in some instances) getting it on with other dudes. Reason I say that is because, without this business I wouldn't be fucking her anyway. That's the point of the hobby. It's like a "wormhole" shortcut to banging girls that are otherwise out of reach. Some of the women I've had, no way in hell I'd get to see them without the hobby shortcut, so why would it bother me to read or see her with someone else? Without reviews of them, many of us would be hesitant to see them. If you can meet and bang lots of hot women without effort, why bother with the hobby at all? Just skip the middleman process, I say. Basically, it took someone ELSE fucking her for YOU to get to fuck her. We can't let trivial shit annoy us in this game, IMO.

Take porn star Sophie Dee, for example. Watching her suck and fuck dicks bigger than mine makes me want to slay that ass like a crazed sex MANSTER. I've jacked off gallons of load (slight exaggeration-maybe just one gallon) over the years watching her movies. Without porn, I wouldn't know who the fuck Sophie Dee is, so how can I hold it against her for doing it?

The same principle applies to the hobby.

Does it hurt your feelings when see picture or video reviews of your all time favorite with other guys? Originally Posted by Jonesscott6969

If it does you are in the wrong hobby mate.

What about this spin I've been hearing has been put on it, guys leveraging the review to be able to take pic's or video's of the ladies. You have to question the validity of the review if the only reason it was posted was so she'd let him take pic's or video for his "trophy case". In some cases I've been told it's been put as bluntly as "Well if I can't do pic's or video, I just won't review you" or this little gem "My pic's/video of you in my review will have all the guys calling and increase your business".

When you stoop to this, that review isn't for the hobbyist, it's for your weak ass ego only!

I disagree with all that. I can handle seeing a woman I want to bang (again, in some instances) getting it on with other dudes. Reason I say that is because, without this business I wouldn't be fucking her anyway. That's the point of the hobby. It's like a "wormhole" shortcut to banging girls that are otherwise out of reach. Some of the women I've had, no way in hell I'd get to see them without the hobby shortcut, so why would it bother me to read or see her with someone else? Without reviews of them, many of us would be hesitant to see them. If you can meet and bang lots of hot women without effort, why bother with the hobby at all? Just skip the middleman process, I say. Basically, it took someone ELSE fucking her for YOU to get to fuck her. We can't let trivial shit annoy us in this game, IMO.

Take porn star Sophie Dee, for example. Watching her suck and fuck dicks bigger than mine makes me want to slay that ass like a crazed sex MANSTER. I've jacked off gallons of load (slight exaggeration-maybe just one gallon) over the years watching her movies. Without porn, I wouldn't know who the fuck Sophie Dee is, so how can I hold it against her for doing it?

The same principle applies to the hobby. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

That's some righteous well put shit. I've been able to be with girls I could never dream of fucking when I was young and in shape, so how would I ever get the time of day to even say hello without them going into this business?
I don't know about the rest of you mofo's but pretty twenty year old girls just ignore me unless they have some business reason to interact with me.