I'm a bit confused...the OP is wondering the reason for the cancellation. Multiple people have expressed the feeling that it's not like her to cancel like that. Her response is "I chose not to see you" while hinting that there's more, but doesn't explain it.
Is this such a strange request? Since everyone is saying it's not like you, why not at least answer him in a PM? Why did this suddenly turn into a Alyssa WK crowd versus OOB thing and become hostile from both sides?
Originally Posted by Wakeuр
+1 on the direction this thread has taken. Yes, in the end, it is her decision, and it's not MY business why the cancellation, but I feel that some truthful explanation to OoB is a reasonable request. There were numerous flirtatious posts back and forth between the OP and AXOXO. It was very clear that they were both looking forward to a session in the near future. If I were in his shoes I would want to know why as well. However, I would have approached it privately via PM. The only reason I see a seasoned hobbyist like OoB taking this public is that he was denied an explanation or received no response at all. I never saw this thread as an attempt to cry to get in to see her or change her mind, but merely a reasonable request for an explanation.