I am sure this has been discussed many times BUT>>>>

I beg to differ.

The person you should be worried about having unprotected sex with is the one night stand that you're picking up at the bar.
Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

That was especially true back when I was in Dallas before.

I'm talking to an old ASPD friend and he is telling me that BBFS is very common. Few are going to admit it. Unlike before, he said that half the time he isn't asked to use a condom.

It is doubtful that the girl in the bar is seeing multiple guys in a day.

Seriously, I don't care what other people do. I'm surely not trying to influence others. I posted some statistics about the biggest threat HIV.

I was tested last Thursday and know I'm clean. That is my concern.

.

.

.

.

If I daty a provider I'm only going to lick on the clit. I'm not diving deep down into the pussy, there's no telling what the hell she's got going on down there. And there's no way in hell I'm going to dfk a chick who bbbj's 50 different guys a week. That's just beyond gross imho. Originally Posted by Bombay

Haha yeah, when I smoke I don't inhale. You never know what is going on. The only safe way it to abstain. for the DATY/DATO Lovers we do take risk

Last year over 35,000 people were killed in car accidents. Need to stop driving.
Last year over 270,000 pedestrians were killed. Just walking down a street or road. Need to stay in the house. Originally Posted by Gbfsl

Actually, 4,700 pedestrian deaths a year. Auto accident deaths are down to about 33,000 per year.

In any lifestyle we tend to take risks. We all can say that at some point in our lives whether it be in or out of the hobby we have taken a chance by doing something we are not fond of. whether it was a drunken 1 night stand with someone we met at a bar, whether we were in a short term relationship that didn't last, or whether we are in this industry.

We all need to play safe. If one is going to offer BBBJ, then why complain about bodily fluids?? If you say you are not swallowing the cum, does it make it any safer that you will let a guy cum in your mouth and you spit it out?? NO, not in my opinion. Even if a guy ejaculates a little pre cum, and you get it on your lips, or in your mouth, it can be just as dangerous if he is infected with a disease.

The same with a woman who is infected with a virus of some sort and lets a guy lick her who-ha...

Now if one is getting to the point that all of this "crazy question' asking by guys makes her upset or sick, then I feel like it is time to re- think staying in the hobby.

I will hobby until ?? But no matter how long one has been in the lifestyle whether it has been 1 day or over many years, you are taking risks. And isn't taking a risk every now and then what makes life exciting??

M.M.

In any lifestyle we tend to take risks. We all can say that at some point in our lives whether it be in or out of the hobby we have taken a chance by doing something we are not fond of. whether it was a drunken 1 night stand with someone we met at a bar, whether we were in a short term relationship that didn't last, or whether we are in this industry.

We all need to play safe. If one is going to offer BBBJ, then why complain about bodily fluids?? If you say you are not swallowing the cum, does it make it any safer that you will let a guy cum in your mouth and you spit it out?? NO, not in my opinion. Even if a guy ejaculates a little pre cum, and you get it on your lips, or in your mouth, it can be just as dangerous if he is infected with a disease.

The same with a woman who is infected with a virus of some sort and lets a guy lick her who-ha...

Now if one is getting to the point that all of this "crazy question' asking by guys makes her upset or sick, then I feel like it is time to re- think staying in the hobby.

I will hobby until ?? But no matter how long one has been in the lifestyle whether it has been 1 day or over many years, you are taking risks. And isn't taking a risk every now and then what makes life exciting??

M.M. Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

Agreed on what you posted, if members here want to be 100% safe, don't hobby!

I do agree with Nurse and if I read it right I think she is just concerned for all the more than risky behavior ( bare back mostly) going on now. I am not trying to change anyone's opinion either. I dont think the thread was trying to change what people do, was just wanting opinions and discussion about it. Things have changed like a couple of ole timers like me said, but we just read and select who we want to get be with ! She did say she does BBBJ with no CIm and maybe that cuts the risk little less , but the bare back concerns me too. I have a do not see list and if bare back is offered I do not see. Just my 2 cents. This hobby sure has risk, just try and make it little safer and still have fun. To each his own

...I upped my safety considerably this week due to heightened concern over the Ebola case in Dallas... Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Really? Why? What about car accidents and gun homicides, which are far more likely to take you out in Dallas or anywhere?

Imagine if Ebola were claiming 35 victims every day. The country would panic. Cars and bullets each claim about 30-35 victims every day in this country, but nobody gives a shit because it doesn't affect them (until it does).

So why would I worry about Ebola? At this point, it's probably about 200th on the list of things that might take me. When it makes it to the top 5, I might start to pay attention.

Please reread my post as a whole, lust4xxxlife. You are taking it out of context.

... Your elderly Aunt Gertrude really is giving that shriveled geriatric man a blow job in the old folk's retirement home.

Every. Chance. She. Gets.

Hell. I plan to do it, too! ... Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Elisabeth, have you picked out your future nursing home yet? If so, please tell me. I'll plan to be an inmate, too!

I know this will really piss a few guys off and ladies to that do it, but what the hell is happening on here with all the bare back full service and wanting the CIM. Originally Posted by SensualNurseD

It appears BBFS is taking place in the hobby secretly, and there's a move afoot to remove the stigma associated with discussing it. Some clients do not want to engage providers that offer BBFS while other clients are actively seeking them. As the stigma is removed, you gals may very well get more requests for BBFS if guys feel they won't have to wear a scarlet letter for asking. Personally I would think that instead of being insulted or annoyed at being asked for BBFS, you ladies would welcome the question because then you would know which clients are actively pursuing/ engaging in that, and that helps you decide who you want to see or not see.

It appears BBFS is taking place in the hobby secretly, and there's a move afoot to remove the stigma associated with discussing it. Some clients do not want to engage providers that offer BBFS while other clients are actively seeking them. As the stigma is removed, you gals may very well get more requests for BBFS if guys feel they won't have to wear a scarlet letter for asking. Personally I would think that instead of being insulted or annoyed at being asked for BBFS, you ladies would welcome the question because then you would know which clients are actively pursuing/ engaging in that, and that helps you decide who you want to see or not see. Originally Posted by RideFreeInTexas

Well said.

Yes, you should take precautions and be careful in all that you do, be it in the hobby or the RW, but if you are worried about everything and are so paranoid that you are up at night worrying or crying about things that really do not and will not effect you individually, then my advice is to go live in a bubble on a remote island where you will be safe.