Is it Appropriate to contact a friend who doesnt know you know shes a provider??

Somehow I find it hard to believe that you get offended quite so easily. But If It that bad.. I will go get punished by one of our lovely ladies tonight and post a review for all to see. Yup that should ease your pain.

I find that offensive..... Originally Posted by Russ38

This is all he said and he said. There is no she said in any of this. I believe this should be posted in co-ed and let the chips fly. There is no way that this is fair to the ladies accused of bare backing. I for one would never go bare back even if it were offered. We are adults and responsible for our actions. It is easy for some of you to hide behind your handles hiding in this thread to toss out innuendos.

I think you should PM her on ECCIE, and let her know that you would like to book an appointment, but also let her know that you guys used to know each other without letting her know who you are. This should be enough info for her to decide whether she wants to see you or not. If not, then you haven't lost anything. You can still try to add her on fb later on and rekindle your friendship in real life. But if she says yes, then you can have what you wanted and she can have a good client. But please, don't out her. She won't out you because in doing so she will be outing herself. It is more of a risk for her than for you. Then again if you were able to find her because she is recognizable in her showcase (i.e. maybe she is showing her face), then she might not really care if people know what she does.

Hope everything turns out well for you both.

~Johanna

You gotta remember this was 15 years ago. I was just decovering my submissive nature.. Her and I actualy played. She loved the clamps and shit.. I remember her saying to me at one point after I told her I was going to avoid being dominated. She said " Your gonna surpress this ? Good luck with that."

As for friends.. we live in two completely different worlds now so im not afraid of being outed., but the crush is something to think about. Im not the same man I was back then but with the knowledge she has of me maybe she could drum up some old feelings and put them to work with my fetish if she still likes that stuff. As for love Im not even sure Im capable of falling in love anymore so I doubt that would be a problem. Originally Posted by pleasher46

OK, so the real question here is.... If you've already fucked her before... For free...! ...why would you want to be a client and pay for something you tapped before... For free...!!???

Fuck the client/provider scenario and go tap it again.
... For free....!!

Ijs...

Somehow I find it hard to believe that you get offended quite so easily. Originally Posted by pleasher46

That was kinda the point(joke)......

Wear a fake mustache.

Oops wrong thread sorry

Let laying dogs lay, when you get them up they get into shit haha

A: You been there done that albeit 15 years ago. Her body probably was in it's prime but didn't know how to use it like she does today.

B: Go see what she has learned in 15 years, and enjoy the ride.

Don't blind side her as the ladies have suggested fo sho. I see a provider who overlooks her parking area and if by chance she knows a client in RW she ain't answering that door hahaha

On another note I think one of my neighbors is a provider, would you mind going and knocking on her door an ask for me LMAO....Maybe that's another thread

This is fucks for bucks plain & simple.
You want to fuck her. She (should.... possibly....) wants your money. Don't overcomplicate this with unnecessary backstory or feelings.

Hmm, this is topical for me. Always thought the odds were astronomical, but I find a FWB has become a provider since we met. She doesn't know that I know -It wouldn't be an issue to me but she's signalling that she would like to have an upgrade from FWB to something else. Originally Posted by Captain Correlli

Fuck that! Bitch is giving it up for free already. No going back and vice versa.

Thinking back to a couple of hot women I worked with or knew pretty well I would go give it a try. They won't say any thing nor would I. A couple that come to mind would be fine bed partners. Just play dumb(not hard for me) I would set the session and looked surprised as hell.

Go for it and hit it hard bro.lol

Based off of what you know about her as a person (from the past), do you think it is something she would be upset about?

I have several people in my life, that I have been able to open up to about all of this, so I consider myself lucky.

Only you will know if it is the sort of thing that will not make her upset.

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I have several people in my life, that I have been able to open up to about all of this, so I consider myself lucky.
....... Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I'm with you on that one.

Edit: i can relate

Seriously?

Think of the ways that this could come out badly . . .FOR YOU.