To blog or not to blog?

i only blog music. I think the things i have to say TRULY and HONESTLY will scare either clients and providers away. And most blogs bore me to death. I have them for advertising purposes only. which means to be able to be found on the internet. The only people that have something substantial to say on blogs are sexworker activists in my opinion. Escort blogs ... nay.... one lady - a spanish one has a really interesting blog.... and the one we all know about "Belle de Jour" is now famous. Other than that. not so much variety :-) i think a blog has to be funny. I am rather cynical than funny that is my problem :-)
I write a blog because I love to write...but even more, when I write about sexual experiences I have...it's a huge turn on. Its also a huge turn on my readers, a lot of my male readers...and female readers have told me that its a turn on to read my blog...so I guess I am doing something right...

Even though I have never posted a picture of my self on the blog I have had tons of men asking me for sessions, wanting to get to know me, ask me out on dates...all on account of my blog. I think with the right words, a girl can really turn a man on. Originally Posted by BellaIsabella
your blog is one i really enjoyed reading since it seems to be honest and about your real life and experiences. I have read the story about you and your husband and the lover .....it is interesting and a little sad at the same time...thanks anyways for sharing more than just fantasies!
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i only blog music. I think the things i have to say TRULY and HONESTLY will scare either clients and providers away. And most blogs bore me to death. I have them for advertising purposes only. which means to be able to be found on the internet. The only people that have something substantial to say on blogs are sexworker activists in my opinion. Escort blogs ... nay.... one lady - a spanish one has a really interesting blog.... and the one we all know about "Belle de Jour" is now famous. Other than that. not so much variety :-) i think a blog has to be funny. I am rather cynical than funny that is my problem :-) Originally Posted by ninasastri
I agree most blogs really are pretty dull. I'm sure they are interesting to the individual and maybe their friends and family, but to the rest of us it isn't


This is a fertile, haunting book, with a thesis that peddles awareness, not conclusions. But once you've absorbed the awareness, you're bound to see life a little differently, and to keep asking the most vexing of questions. If I am a sponge, an assemblage of images, sounds and influences, always looking out for my 15 minutes of fame, always rehearsing what I'll say if a camera pokes its head round my doorway or a producer from reality television comes knocking with a contract, then where is the real me, the inner core, not the outer show?
Originally Posted by WTF
are you on mushrooms??? the "most vexing of questions" .....hahahahaha........
your blog is one i really enjoyed reading since it seems to be honest and about your real life and experiences. I have read the story about you and your husband and the lover .....it is interesting and a little sad at the same time...thanks anyways for sharing more than just fantasies! Originally Posted by ninasastri
Your welcome! Now I am writing a book, so hopefully people can read about my adventures.

More stories to come!!
are you on mushrooms??? the "most vexing of questions" .....hahahahaha........ Originally Posted by ninasastri
Aha! WTF is Carlos Castaneda
Aha! WTF is Carlos Castaneda Originally Posted by pjorourke
And i am TerenceMcKenna`s female copycat ;-)
Well Speaking of blogs, My entry today was rather bitchy....I got a bit upset with my banker!
Speaking again of blogs, how smart is it anyway to post sexually explicit material on there when we are all offering ONLY our time and companionship? I am on the urge of deciding whether or not to blog some spicy and kinky stories on there.on my wordpress blog at least. Since i am a psychologically motivated person who loves the occassional brainfuck and the heat words can induce on my sexual life, i tend to be attracted to gents who respond well to such desires of mine. After all it starts in the brain, doesn`t it?But: Do they attract too much attention? Even if its just fiction i consider that they still might be unfavourable in case someone ever "questions" my services rendered? LE?
Speaking again of blogs, how smart is it anyway to post sexually explicit material on there when we are all offering ONLY our time and companionship? I am on the urge of deciding whether or not to blog some spicy and kinky stories on there.on my wordpress blog at least. Since i am a psychologically motivated person who loves the occassional brainfuck and the heat words can induce on my sexual life, i tend to be attracted to gents who respond well to such desires of mine. After all it starts in the brain, doesn`t it?But: Do they attract too much attention? Even if its just fiction i consider that they still might be unfavourable in case someone ever "questions" my services rendered? LE? Originally Posted by ninasastri
I've just recently started blogging about sexual encounters, I try and word it as best I can, rather than saying I was with a "Client" I say lover or guy....Still prob isn't the best idea but I love to write so my fingers just take over
I've just recently started blogging about sexual encounters, I try and word it as best I can, rather than saying I was with a "Client" I say lover or guy....Still prob isn't the best idea but I love to write so my fingers just take over Originally Posted by Valerie
love to read it! Gents love juicy stories. I think we have such a variety of experiences in this hobby, (mine range from BDSM to plain vanilla) which are fun to read and excitement too. I just hope i am capable of getting the spirit across without native english skills. (I am - however - quite capable of cybersex in english - since both my lovers are not speaking my language and we communicate in english only....)

Valerie, i just started following your blog, lovely photos and appearance! I have not read it yet but will do so in the near future! xox
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I agree with ATL. Blogs are boring as hell!

However, I DO enjoy reading Valerie's blog though. I'm a faithful follower

Maybe it's because she's so sexxxxy!
I agree with ATL. Blogs are boring as hell!

However, I DO enjoy reading Valerie's blog though. I'm a faithful follower

Maybe it's because she's so sexxxxy! Originally Posted by Naomi4u
She is sexy!! I am jealous of men sometimes.....;-)
Here is the blog i find really good, its amixture between advertisement and sexworker activism: Its in spanish though, the lady is a spanish courtesan:

http://elblogdepaula.com/
Thanks ladies! Glad you guys enjoy it