Addressing some things

On the other hand, it helps us guys to figure out who to see and who not to. Originally Posted by Kshunter
Right you are Kshunter.

Gotta believe holding on to that $120 cost her a lot of money.....
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Ha some of y'all are silly. She could have had another appointment with a gentleman with a clean dick. Offering back half of the money is generous for wasting her time. If you have a fucked up dick, why book? Lol

in my opinion she is very professional and was generous in this circumstance. Originally Posted by Holly Love
Thank you for the ladies side of the discussion. Seems fair to me.

If I call a plumber out the house for a 1 hour job and send him away for bad workmanship after minutes. How much do I owe him for making the house call, or in this case - a quick visit?

JR
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im assuming you havent seen his junk. if it was clean like he says it was then she is the one that wasted not only his time but also his gas. and if it was not she should have given him his money and sent him on his way. what kind of person gives someone a handjob who has an STD? wtf? Originally Posted by amyoto
All of the discussion is important.

Does a guy owe a girl any if he, or she, shows up for an appointment and he things she is too ugly to complete the visit. Do you pay her something for setting up the appointment.

The other way around, does the guy still pay something because he is too ugly (or has a dirty dick) and took the girls time?

Was the dick as dirty as she said it was, or was the girl as ugly as he said she was? Interesting questions, maybe a full debate is in order.
All of the discussion is important.

Does a guy owe a girl any if he, or she, shows up for an appointment and he things she is too ugly to complete the visit. Do you pay her something for setting up the appointment. If she misrepresents herself then no I do not pay. I walk out. Why would I pay for something and in this case someone I didn't want.

The other way around, does the guy still pay something because he is too ugly (or has a dirty dick) and took the girls time? If he misrepresents himself and hands over money knowing that he has lied then that is his loss.

Was the dick as dirty as she said it was, or was the girl as ugly as he said she was? Interesting questions, maybe a full debate is in order. Originally Posted by JRLawrence
I think this is the debate that is going on now.
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ill tell you what though, I would have definitely left with all of my money. I definitely will not be taken advantage of like he was.
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And while we are on the subject of leaks (man I miss that site lol)...
I find it extremely humorous that grown men get so upset about a dorky men's locker room privacy policy.
I can't figure out which you men are more angry about:
(1) That some of the providers have gained access to the men's locker room .
OR

(2) That some of the providers are smart enough to gain access to the men's locker room without your permission or knowledge. Originally Posted by Urban Dahlia
Do you really think we don't know y'all spy on the coed lounge?? Really?
You're smarter than that....c'mon..LOL

Thing is, when there is a direct transfer from the mens coed lounge to the coed lounge and even a caveman could figure it out...it's like so obvious that it slaps us in the face, do you suggest we just be quiet little WKs...or be a more vocal WK like JR? As far being "upset"...not at all as far as I'm concerned...but I don't see why myself or anybody else should ignore what is an obvious breach of protocol.. Seriously Dahlia, what should us "grown men" do here? We ain't all bitches like JR & co....

Of course I am assuming you don't know any of the other side of the story, so if you're curious, just check with MS Cash or..
Do you really think we don't know y'all spy on the coed lounge?? Really?
You're smarter than that....c'mon..LOL

Thing is, when there is a direct transfer from the mens coed lounge to the coed lounge and even a caveman could figure it out...it's like so obvious that it slaps us in the face, do you suggest we just be quiet little WKs...or be a more vocal WK like JR? As far being "upset"...not at all as far as I'm concerned...but I don't see why myself or anybody else should ignore what is an obvious breach of protocol.. Seriously Dahlia, what should us "grown men" do here? We ain't all bitches like JR & co....

Of course I am assuming you don't know any of the other side of the story, so if you're curious, just check with MS Cash or.. Originally Posted by malwoody
How could anyone expect anything they write on the internet to stay only
in the hands of those intended? Are they just using the vial of "I really did not think the ML was coed" dispite the YEARS of warnings to futher their cause???? just so you know in the future the ML is coed and WKs will pass info to providers. If you do not want info known place your keyboard out of reach.
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It has been brought to my attention that someone that I recently met with in Kansas City has made false accusations about me scamming clients out of money. This is simply NOT true at all. I have NOTHING to gain on my end from running "scams" on anyone that I agree to meet with. I do care about the guys that I've met along the way, my brand and the business that I have going. I pride myself on my reputation in this community and scamming or getting over on people is not worth what I have put into this and what I have tried to build. Over the past year I have worked my butt off and I have more than enough money saved up. If I wanted to not provide again I could do that. It's not about the money. Money is the reason why most people would attempt to run a "scam" on someone. I genuinely enjoy what I do. I'm respectful, courteous and helpful to any client or provider who contacts me. I put too much time and hard work into building a great reputation, providing outstanding service and making sure everyone that I see leaves my place happy and satisfied to be accused of "scamming" someone.

I will not go into great details about this, to make a long story short. Me and this gentleman agreed to meet for an hour GFE. All started well and everything was going great 15 minutes into the meeting until I noticed something on his private part that resulted in me not being comfortable enough in progressing to the next step in this meeting which was a BBBJ. So I voiced my concerns and told him that I wouldn't be able to continue because of this, and that I have to think about my health and safety along with everyone else that I meet with. I gave this gentleman an option that included me giving him half of the donation back and providing him with a hand job to completion. He agreed and that's how the meeting ended.

A couple weeks back I had this same exact thing happen to me in Omaha with a gentleman who had something going on with his private part that looked like *Staff Edit - JCM. I declined on proceeding with the meeting *Staff Edit - JCM. Looking back I should have offered the client part of his donation back to me that was the right thing to do. I learned from that experience and tried to do what I thought was right and fair in this situation, which was offer him part of the donation back since we was 15 minutes into our meeting.


I know the risk that everyone in this hobby takes by participating in it. Being a provider I accept the good and the bad that comes with any situation from the decisions that I decide to make in my life. That being said, that is why I am overly cautious and will always put my safety over any amount of money. If something looks or feels out of the ordinary with a gentleman for my safety and piece of mind I will not proceed with the meeting.

I think my rules and requirements are fair to all and in the best interest of both parties. I WILL NOT continue a meeting with any gentleman who shows up with anything on his private area. Just as I don't think a client would see me or any other provider who appears to have things going on down below. All I ask is for every gentleman that comes in contact with me to be respectable, polite and courteous. Pass screening, show up to my incall on time and have great hygiene. I have a shower, clean towels and soap available if needed. I will always be polite, courteous, respectful and have immaculate hygiene so I expect the same. Every gentleman that meet these requirements I've never had an issue with at all. My reviews here speak to everything that I have stated.

Also, It is no secret that I inspect every bill that I receive. I've trusted gentlemen on several occasions in the past. I've assumed that every bill was real and that every gentleman will come with the proper amount in regards to the time that they request. As a result in trusting these gentleman I have been given counterfeit money and I've been short changed more than once. To stop this problem and put an end to it I inspect every bill I receive. Is it a pain in the ass? Yes, but it solved this problem.

In closing I just want to let everyone know that I have NEVER scammed anyone and I NEVER plan on it. All I am here to do is to make friends, provide a great service and have fun along the way. I don't care for the drama or false allegations.

Sincerely,

Lariyah Originally Posted by Lariyah_Cash
The issue I have with this is simple. Lariyah has posted a few things in this post that could have only came from someone telling her what is posted in the men's lounge. She may not have realized this when she made this post, or she may not have realized the ramifications of her obvious disclosure in coed of info that came only from the men's lounge.

The pussy that told her this shit knew exactly what he (or she) was dragging her into. We've seen this before.

So Lariyah gets to face the dilemma of getting a longer or shorter vacation. Many of these providers depend on eccie for a portion of their business. Lariyah would be wise to face the music, and give the true pussy what he has coming to him.

I have never seen Lariyah, but now never will not because of the dick check or counting bills, but because she obviously got info from the men's lounge and posted it in public. Fuck that.
Bottom line is Lariyah made a business decision...heard about it being talked about and wanted to clear the air....which may cost her some days.

But she aint gonna change her policy no matter whats discussed...

she seems very high on herself and the way she runs her business and her being pretty hot will still have guys with their references or not..... and their fucked up junk or not .....try to see her.

I do however agree if she kept the money and said either you take this or get out (which I dont the whole story and Im guessing that's what happened) then she fucked up

Nothing will change from this IMO....but some vacations may be due
The issue I have with this is simple. Lariyah has posted a few things in this post that could have only came from someone telling her what is posted in the men's lounge. She may not have realized this when she made this post, or she may not have realized the ramifications of her obvious disclosure in coed of info that came only from the men's lounge.

The pussy that told her this shit knew exactly what he (or she) was dragging her into. We've seen this before.

So Lariyah gets to face the dilemma of getting a longer or shorter vacation. Many of these providers depend on eccie for a portion of their business. Lariyah would be wise to face the music, and give the true pussy what he has coming to him.

I have never seen Lariyah, but now never will not because of the dick check or counting bills, but because she obviously got info from the men's lounge and posted it in public. Fuck that. Originally Posted by Johnny4455
You have NO idea all of the shit that we providers deal with on a daily basis.

This isn't North Korea, and the mods are not Kim Jong-un LOL. Some of you men crack me up with your thoughts that you are going to control us providers with Fear LOL.

Look at a map of Earth. Poke a little pen dot somewhere on it. Step back to look at the map of Earth. That tiny little dot you barely see... that's you.

We need to get this all in perspective, and quit acting like the men of ECCIE get to run a muck ruling a communist hobby board LOL.

"Hi, I'm Earth. Have we met lol?" (Tommy Boy lol)
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Control you with fear??? Wtf are u talking about??
You have NO idea all of this shit that we providers deal with on a daily basis.

This isn't North Korea, and the mods are not Kim Jong-un LOL. Some of you men crack me up with your thoughts that you are going to control us providers with Fear LOL.

Look at a map of Earth. Poke a little pen dot somewhere on it. Step back to look at the map of Earth. That tiny little dot you barely see... that's you.

We need to get this all in perspective, and quit acting like the men of ECCIE get to run a muck ruling a communist hobby board LOL.

Hello my name is Earth. Have you heard of me lol? Originally Posted by Urban Dahlia
Damn Communist..speaking of...
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Control you with fear??? Wtf are u talking about?? Originally Posted by Johnny4455
Exactly what I just wrote/typed.

Did I stutter?
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There's 2 sides to every story, and the truth is somewhere in the middle.

Either way, I would like to see the person who leaked this Men's Lounge info Banned for life. Originally Posted by paragod
A fucking men!
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Exactly what I just wrote/typed.

Did I stutter? Originally Posted by Urban Dahlia
There are guidelines in place to protect all of us. Your full of shit if you think mods are out to scare ladies. How many times have mods changed your ads when u made a typo? I can tell u from personal experience that I have helped ladies in this community in many ways. Asking for other providers to help young ladies who are in maybe over their head. Encouraging providers to screen. Giving them advice on that. Do it for no pay or no benefit. Even some providers I have been cross ways with I worked very hard to help them. Got bans lessened for providers because I knew how important this was to there livelihood.

This deal with Lariyah, I am more pissed at the pussy wk who told her what was posted in men's lounge. You think it's fine for that douchebag to reveal ML shit right? He fucked her, and youre pissed at mods for scaring people.

You like the guidelines when they suit your purpose. You like the mods when you need them. We got it.

Mods are communists and try to scare ladies.. Right.