My father served in the Pacific and he was reluctant to talk about the subject to which you referred.
Originally Posted by Yssup Rider
YR: It is true. Not universally so, but true. The Press was limited then.
My Dad as well. USMC 1939-1945. Hardly ever discussed it, although he shared his Division Book with me, and on several occasions at times with friends of his while visiting there were brief discussions. I never saw or heard any "hatred" there were pictures that revealed what appeared to be "retribution" .... and would be considered "atrocities" by many standards, if not most, today.
Until he died one did not wake him by touching him (it was unhealthy), but he was respectful, courteous, carrying of all people around him, and respected for his people skills and ability to supervise while treating all people with respect, whether others thought they deserved it or not. ......after he awoke.
I recall meeting a friend of his, "mousey" little guy, almost "sweet" in demeanor (not "gay" as far as I know), but wimpish. My Dad encouraged him to show me his friend's medals. He brought down out of the attic what looked like a wooden silverware box about 8 inches thick with trays inside. Completely full of medals he was awarded. I had never heard either one of them discuss his friends activities.
It hasn't been until the early 1990's that people started wearing their service on their sleeves. It just wasn't done, for whatever reason. Through the early 70's and actually for 20 years ... there was a strong anti-military sentiment in this country ... that put a chilling effect on conversation about it. Some people still don't talk about it, and won't. I've seen a lot more bumper stickers, caps, jackets, and patches in the last 20 years, and clearly more uniforms in the airports.
This is not a justification: But the Japanese treatment of civilians, particularly in China, made the Germans look like kindergarten attendees. Little is published and discussed about the Japanese "camps" in China, their experiments, and atrocities in those camps. Estimates of 50 to 100 million Chinese died. Occasionally one sees reports of requests for reparations.
By the time U.S. (Allied) troops had moved back into the Pacific Islands most of the young women had been removed and transported back to the Japanese mainland (or "rear bases") for entertainment and "maid" service.
There were similar "atrocities" by U.S. servicemembers in the S.E. Asia "war"... they were investigated and prosecuted..... although perhaps not as prevalent, because of the increased press coverage and the introduction of war on television. There have also been "atrocities" by U.S. servicemembers reported and prosecuted in the recent military activities. Less so it seems. They may have more to do with the voluntary military service, and improved screening, as well as increased media scrutiny.
YR ... your father's reluctance may be justified and his effort to forget.