Why don't you participate in Co-Ed discussions?

Being quiet has its upside....

"Better to be silent and thought a fool, than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt..."

-King Solomon, Abraham Lincoln, or Samuel Clemens, but that's a debate for another thread (which I won't start). Originally Posted by Kfun12

This cliche is so exhausted.

Even if one wants to be silent, if he is of the planet earth, all doubt is inevitably removed that at one time or another he's been a fool. Doesn't mean he's always a fool.

I'd rather be THOUGHT a fool than die of starvation.

Closed mouths starve from eating all their assumptions.

How 'bout that!

"Who's more foolish, the fool, or the fool who follows him". -Ben

Just because one doesn't engage here doesn't mean they aren't researching and learning elsewhere. Closed mouths may be deep in thought too. Personally, the tone on the Boards Is not always conducive to deep, thoughtful discussions. It's easier to sit behind a keyboard and blast away anonymously.

I'll add to that...

Tone and subtleties can sometimes be difficult to pick up in this forum. I Prefer the personal face to face interaction. We communicate so much through body language and it gets lost in here.

One last thing....

I think I have officially commented in this Co-Ed more than all my previous Co-ed posts. Time for a celebration!

I honestly prefer the ones who blast away. At least I know the entirety of what they are thinking/trying to say.

What I don't like, despise actually, is those one liners that pack the same blast but in a sneaky passive aggressive way. They add less value than people who thoroughly make their point.

I'll add to that...

Tone and subtleties can sometimes be difficult to pick up in this forum. I Prefer the personal face to face interaction. We communicate so much through body language and it gets lost in here. Originally Posted by Kfun12

No doubt. I can agree with that.

That's why you need to be clear.
That is what communication is all about.

One last thing....

I think I have officially commented in this Co-Ed more than all my previous Co-ed posts. Time for a celebration! Originally Posted by Kfun12

We can celebrate by you making up the fact that you cancled on me upon pulling into my residence (no harm no foul at the time) but you failed to reschedule as mentioned; and then, I saw yo ass in the ISO lookin for some other pu nani!
What up with that Kfun?!!!?!! Huh?!!!

No pressure. I'm just fucking with you.

Later!

No pressure. I'm just fucking with you.

Later! Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

A little passive aggressive

hmmmm

sixx

A little passive aggressive

hmmmm

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

Youuuuu, hush yo mouth.

...What I don't like, despise actually, is those one liners that pack the same blast but in a sneaky passive aggressive way. They add less value than people who thoroughly make their point. Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

While I am of the opinion that if you can't make your point succinctly, you don't have one.

While I am of the opinion that if you can't make your point succinctly, you don't have one. Originally Posted by inspector farquar

And what is your opinion on those who 's opinions do not matter?

Wouldn't that fall under one that doesn't matter?

Damn it's a free for all cage fight in here. This is way better than that fake wrestling shit.

Better yet a boxing match with 5 opponents in the ring swinging away with those really cushy pillow like boxing gloves.

Even better yet a pillow fight at a tween sleep over.

Stay tuned for the continuation of "Why viewers don't post more." lol

Even when I go away for 6months at a time I come back to see the same ol' people in co-ed.

I know there are so many clients out there who don't post or write reviews;
or if they right reviews, they don't really post in co-ed.

I like the people in co-ed, I just wish there were more participants.
I have heard the: most of the young hot ones are to busy to post, answer.
Not knowledgeable enough maybe, but I'm sure they have got to be finding the time to read Co-Ed.
If they don't they are missing out on some valuable info from time to time. I know for sure if people arn't posting they are viewing. If 400-5000 people viewed the thread, and only the same 40 people post regularly; I want to know what makes the great majority of viewers not want to contribute?


I have heard some people say it's b/c they think it wont make a difference, or their view point has already been stated. Isn't there strength in numbers? I think the mores of ECCIE will be better established with more insight from various added participants.

So for all my shy guys and gals:




































I have an anonymous poll for those who don't want to post. Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

OK, 1)love the Will Ferrell. 2)adding Christina in there satisfies one of my long-held wet dreams ("Willtina"?).

3) Why have I not posted in co-ed. I did not know what it was for a long time and when I did I was asking questions about interactions with providers that I did not understand, I.e., why did providers sometimes go dark on me while trying to set a time; was it me or was that normal. How should a newbie handle himself/ expect/ move on? I was actively talking with providers and did not want to call them out or offend them because they would know who they were... I thought. I gave myself too much credit that they would remember my wit. And I did not want to needlessly spook providers I wanted to see. BUT, looking back I could have benefited from provider-answers to my questions, because let's face it: horny men are not the smartest animals on the planet. But I would say that is my biggest pause at beginning to post more here - that a provider I really want to see views something I innocently write here in a bad light and says "no thanks" to my pm. Now if I am being a true asshole, then I deserve the heisman but that's a different issue. Thanks for the question.

Okayyyyy Malebox. You won me over.
Forgive me for giving you a hard time. I did explain why.
I know I might be being paranoid (and I felt bad about saying no) but I wanted to trust my gut instinct.

I understand if this is too little to late.

Thanks for posting. Hope to see you soon.

See guys, chubby 30 year old-bitties are even able to say no here and there.
Imagine that!