New SB...Looking for SD

Simmer down lol, don't you exclamation point me. Read the last line where i said i know i'm of the few. But thanks, yes that's my point. We don't all conform to the exact same dynamics. The only real one is financial support from a man to a woman. What's expected for this, the amount and whether real feelings are involved don't define anything except variances.
Until I'm actually a wife I can't see why SB doesn't apply to me. Originally Posted by Roxane

See that's the thing, if you were to sue for monys in court? You'd win, so, you fit under a different label.
You are a great woman Roxane! I think trying to fit yourself into a SB label is beneath you.

You are much more then that...you can share that with me some other time though.
Ciao sweetness

Thank you for being such a gentleman and allowing a real discussion and respectfully sharing our similar and different views. I'm recovering from some surgery and pretty much stuck inside resting. So I appreciate chatting. I am more than an SB but I don't feel women here have to be shamed for wanting whatever brings them their own happiness. I just get so tired of Men without manners treating escorts as subhuman and unworthy of respect. This forum is supposed to be for refined gentleman. Was wondering where they were. Faith restored.

So few get the cake and get to eat it, too. Congrats to you, Roxane!

Do he and SNL drink Scotch together, too

Sure is nice to see some living the dream.

Why do you insist on speaking for everyone?
The man that retired me obviously had more requirements than just sexual ones. You assume an escort becomes one because she lacks an education or marketable skills. While I'll agree the masses here may fit the bill, that most definitely doesn't apply to the most successful escorts who provide intellectual and sexual stimulus. Are many of these escorts fooling themselves to think they have these skills? Well of course. And so more than likely no one will sb them.
To your second statement. That's your situation. Not every mans. My Daddy is more than happy to be my sole support. But I wasn't exactly in need when he met me. I own my home, I own my cars, I have savings. He bought me a small business that requires minimal time for me to manage. That income is mine to use as i like. Anything else, i.e. monthly bills, household bills, travel, large expenses are handled by him. What's important to him is that I'm happy. That I get to be a stay at home mom to my children, be involved in their activities, keep our home clean and continue decorating it. That i get to lunch with my girlfriends. That dinner is creative ( former chef) and ready when he comes home. I'm his muse and he treats my satisfaction as a measure of his success as my Man. I treat him like a king. It's our dynamic. There are many men that prefer to be their woman's focus and have no need for the extra income.
But with that said , I know I'm of the few. Originally Posted by Roxane

This post makes no sense what so ever...

"You assume an escort becomes one because she lacks an education or marketable skills. "

Where did I say this?

I am saying that most and I am not pointing at you. I am not pointing at anyone. I am say most are in it for the hour dollar. They ask "Ok, we are going to have a meeting, what is in it for me?" I tell them I am buying dinner. They flip the fuck out that I wont be paying for their fucking 2 hours of time telling me that their time is worth money. Hahahahaha. Dumb whores. Uneducated dumb fucks that compare their time to mine. I am not saying mine is worth more but they think they are going to get paid to meet to see if we click.

They would click with anyone as long as the price is right.
I prefer the "I don't think we are right for each other because I am a six foot woman and you are a 5'7 man"

I invited a woman up for the week to enjoy a week at my beach house. No sex, just to see my girl and me and how we get along. She asked me how much after I explained i would pay for air fare, all food, shopping etc..

Dumb whore number whatever out of what ever.

So please spare me your hurt little feelings. If I directed this at you I would say I was mistaken. I did not, I directed it at a majority of hookers. I have never in my life met a hooker that wanted to be an SB, they wanted steady, rich clients and that was it.

Just like you see the "No black men" on hooker boards you will also see the "No hookers" on SD/SB forums. Get over it.

This post makes no sense what so ever...

"You assume an escort becomes one because she lacks an education or marketable skills. "

Where did I say this?

I am saying that most and I am not pointing at you. I am not pointing at anyone. I am say most are in it for the hour dollar. They ask "Ok, we are going to have a meeting, what is in it for me?" I tell them I am buying dinner. They flip the fuck out that I wont be paying for their fucking 2 hours of time telling me that their time is worth money. Hahahahaha. Dumb whores. Uneducated dumb fucks that compare their time to mine. I am not saying mine is worth more but they think they are going to get paid to meet to see if we click.

They would click with anyone as long as the price is right.
I prefer the "I don't think we are right for each other because I am a six foot woman and you are a 5'7 man"

I invited a woman up for the week to enjoy a week at my beach house. No sex, just to see my girl and me and how we get along. She asked me how much after I explained i would pay for air fare, all food, shopping etc..

Dumb whore number whatever out of what ever.

So please spare me your hurt little feelings. If I directed this at you I would say I was mistaken. I did not, I directed it at a majority of hookers. I have never in my life met a hooker that wanted to be an SB, they wanted steady, rich clients and that was it.

Just like you see the "No black men" on hooker boards you will also see the "No hookers" on SD/SB forums. Get over it. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

I'm just curious. I understand that the week was an extended meet and greet with perks. But she is "losing" a week of time that could be spent working and maybe has to pay for childcare.

Would you have been amendable to her totaling her monthly bills, dividing that number by four, adding the cost of childcare if needed and asking that amount in compensation? I highly doubt that it would have been much more than the cost of a nice handbag if she's honest.


As, for the other topic of discussion. No, a SB is not a pretty young thing and a SD is not old and rich. She doesn't have to be at his beck and call and he doesn't have to give her his wallet. I think of a SB as being a girlfriend that needs help getting things from time to time and her SD helps her out, gives her gifts when he feels like it, and helps her reach the potential she has. She also is understanding she can't be number one and doesn't pressure her daddy. It sounds a lot closer to civilian relationships then providing because it is.

Being a provider is infinitely easier then being a SB emotionally especially after a couple years of growing to truly care and understand each other. Watching him leave you to go back to his wife and never showing that it bothers you hurts...

I have never been watching over GY6's shoulder so everything I am saying is impressions from his posts--but I do not get the impression he is cheep, but he does like to be in control. No promises that he will do anything, just a lady should trust him to come out for the weekend and TRUST in his generosity. That works for some--not for others. But flexibility is not how he manages his affairs.

I'm just curious. I understand that the week was an extended meet and greet with perks. But she is "losing" a week of time that could be spent working and maybe has to pay for childcare.

Would you have been amendable to her totaling her monthly bills, dividing that number by four, adding the cost of childcare if needed and asking that amount in compensation? I highly doubt that it would have been much more than the cost of a nice handbag if she's honest.


As, for the other topic of discussion. No, a SB is not a pretty young thing and a SD is not old and rich. She doesn't have to be at his beck and call and he doesn't have to give her his wallet. I think of a SB as being a girlfriend that needs help getting things from time to time and her SD helps her out, gives her gifts when he feels like it, and helps her reach the potential she has. She also is understanding she can't be number one and doesn't pressure her daddy. It sounds a lot closer to civilian relationships then providing because it is.

Being a provider is infinitely easier then being a SB emotionally especially after a couple years of growing to truly care and understand each other. Watching him leave you to go back to his wife and never showing that it bothers you hurts... Originally Posted by SA Angel

The agreement was that she come for a week. I would fly her here and we would meet. I would pay her for that time. If it didn't work out then she keeps the money and we part. If it did work out then she would have a free vacation. This was the agreement.

The vacation consisted of a week, My beach house, and she could come and go as she pleased. She could even work if she wanted. She wanted to know what a sugar daddy life was. A real sugar daddy and not a cheap dumb fuck that wants to find a college girl and screw her for 100 a night.

But a shopping spree, dinners in a classy place that I can assure you she never ever ate in before, catered dinner at my beach house along with just some running around and just relaxing.

So did I expect her to come for free? No, it was going to cost me a shit ton of money to fly her here, take her on a shopping trip, feed her etc.. Was I going to fuck her. NOPE! don't even want to. I wanted to show her what it was like and she wanted a vacation. She just wanted a paid vacation and that wasn't going to happen.

The difference in a hooker and a sugar baby to me is obvious. The hooker has a mindset of money right now ,the sugar baby has the mind set of learning and growing.

Right now and I have no problem verifying this to anyone that wants it ....

The girl I am with now, next month we will have been together for three years. She went from a retail job of making 10,000 a year to making 41,000 a year. She is 21 years old.

Tell me a hooker that makes 41,000 a year on the books and has her own place, a new car, a dog, a stable job and just bought a 1300.00 bicycle, has a membership at a gym and she will be getting a promotion on her next review. No help from me on her promotions, she earned them. She wants to climb. A hooker wants to lay there.

So the hooker that wanted to get paid to take a vacation got nothing. Nada, zip.

I am not cheap, I may want things my way but I can assure you I am very flexible when it comes to going on their own and doing things.

I have taken several girls from this site to places that some will never get to go. I wanted to give them a taste of this. One of the girls left this site right when she got back. Closed her account and left. Don't know why but I think she found a better place to be. Beats me.

I may want it my way but I will bet a million dollars that anyone that has met me in person will tell you I am a sweet, amazing person that wants to do nothing but good.

There is one person on here that is always here that can vouse for me. Not that I care if she does but if she does it can only reassure you I am not an asshole and I have seen hookers try this and fail.. Every single time. Fast money. That is what a hooker wants.

I offered a job to one hooker that said she wanted out paying 32,000 to start. A kid with a kid. The company would have paid daycare and it was right up the road from where she lived. She was in, NOPE! rather live for that 250.00 and live in the fucking ghetto.

So say what you will, do what you want. I really dont give a shit.

But when a stupid ass hooker yells out they want to be a suagr bay I will be right there telling them to STFU whore, you will never be one, you will never understand it and you live for the money.

They will argue with me and I will say ok, lets me, the dumb ass fuck will ask what is in it for her and I will smile as I tell her to fuck off.

So for the the want to be SDs and SBs... fuck off....

Gotyour6, thank you for the clarification. Honestly, I was asking because what I interpreted didn't really seem to be your MO as I understand it. The agreement you said you had with her is much closer to what I would attribute to you.

Look bitch. Don't come for me unless I send for you. From the beginning, I asked a simple question. Please dismiss yourself from my post and refrain from involving yourself in anything else I post. Thank you!

Thank you. I just asked a question. But all of the ass hole answers aren't called for.

Four pages of replies to figure out if you're in the right place or not?

o.O

SDs like to add all the extraneous stuff about 'mentoring' the girl so that it makes what they're doing seem less creepy. It's exactly what it sounds like it is.

Wow! This board can be so harsh.

Personally i think you can find an SD here on Eccie and anywhere else if that is what you seek to find. It's a very very slim chance but what is the harm in asking? Oh wait......
No one on this board can speak for EVERYONE.
I would try Millionaire Match or SD for you.
Those are specifically for such Inquiries.

Good Luck to you.

Very slim chance. Anorexic slim.

Four pages of replies to figure out if you're in the right place or not?

o.O Originally Posted by TravelingGentleman