fuck and leave!!!!

This is a great discussion. We all, for our private reasons, enjoy the ability to do this. Useage and reasons vary per person.
Not All providers offer a full experience or actually enjoy the time spent.
Its great when you find one that gives you that ....

About 3-5 posts just disappeared? There was a page 4 and it's gone? Originally Posted by blthzr666

Great points made here by all of you! I agree with most of them also, I believe its up to the provider and the customer. Some guys have the f&l in mind and same with the providers possibly the same. I believe some providers raise the bar with there services and offer gfe type experiences that triggers the guys emotions in thinking of it as for than a pay for sex arrangement and become attached, It's the nature of humans. I have been in this hobby longer than I want to admit lol, with the technology what is is i.e.; cell phones, text and email etc it is so easy to become entangled with the provider thinking you have more than you really do with her lol. Over the years I have had the honor of great company with some awesome ladies and have kept in touch with quite a few. I also like many of you have had some really shitty ones that like previously said here, just paid, left and kicked the can down the road. Great thread Trisha, it is getting out many points on the topic, thanks!

Not to interrupt the singing of Kumbaya in this love fest, but a thrAD is a thrAD is a thrAD.

thank you all for your comments and honesty.. I want to make it clear that im not looking for a boyfriend husband or a stalker.. but I do love my regulars.. maybe its me who has the problem but having this " job" give me the opportunity to fulfill some of my needs.. me as a person craves intimacy and passion that I think that can only be achieved through seeing someone on a regular basis. before eccie I was never high volume at all and I think that's def better for me.. and yes im going to be totally honest and say money does matter but im sure once u add up all my texting time and dates going over time my hourly rate is pretty low lol.. idk what to say but I guess this whole deal kinda messes with my head.. lol but at least everyone knows where im coming from and why I have been mia lately.. there are girls on this board who openly express that all they want is f and l but im not that kinda girl Originally Posted by trisha.xxx .countrygirl

Thanks Trish for the thread and to all the people that commented in this thread.

Good opinions and good dialogue.
U done good trish.

On we go trish?

Not to interrupt the singing of Kumbaya in this love fest, but a thrAD is a thrAD is a thrAD. Originally Posted by jokacz

Jok you gotta admit one of the better threads lately at least the ladies could talk and not get attacked, we could use more ladies on here in some threads.

Not to interrupt the singing of Kumbaya in this love fest, but a thrAD is a thrAD is a thrAD. Originally Posted by jokacz

Why is it every time a girl post a thread someon has to say they are posting an ad? Last time I checked the coed was for open discussions, that is what this appears to be to me, she posted a great question so why do you have to throw that threAD word around, come on man

Thanks Trish for the thread and to all the people that commented in this thread.

Good opinions and good dialogue.
U done good trish.

On we go trish?
Originally Posted by bjwstw

There are three scenarios to F&L.
Fuck and leave is one. For some guys that is all they ever plan on. It is all they need and desire. That's cool. I do that on occasion. I try to find new talent on a routine basis. If I see a girl and there is no chemistry I thank them for there time, leave the required donation and kick rocks down the road.
Now Fuck and Love that's dangerous. And as someone said you can never tell what your heart will do when you spend time with someone wether they have set out to have that happen or not. That is why in this hobby there have to hard rules in our minds we don't change. In the flying world we call that our personnel minimums. Before we set off on a flight we establish hard minimums that we will not compromise no matter what. Many pilots get killed when they get "get home itis" and they exceed what they set for themselves and push the envelope of thier abilities based on emotions. Just as many hobbiests have had there lives dashed on the rocks as they allowed themselves to go farther than they planned.
Then there is the third one. This is my mode. It is Fuck and Like. For me to see a girl more than once or twice I have to like her and believe she likes me. Not in love with me just likes the fact I am her customer. As we get to know each other better then we learn how far we can go in that friendship. But always I know where my personal minimums are. And if I get to close to them and feel I might be drawn into a situation that would be detrimental I slow it down or stop and reasses. Always keep the big head in the game.
That being said I better go. I have a bunch of valentines presents to buy. �� Originally Posted by FlyboyNY

there are a few I like/d very much yet never had

Fuck and Leave?

Some providers seem to hate this term?

I’m not saying that a limited few women aren’t sincere with their disdain for this attitude.

But please, the majority: Simply a thinly veiled marketing ploy.

We’re not that stupid. At least I’m not. Originally Posted by The Drummer

What he said.

About 3-5 posts just disappeared? There was a page 4 and it's gone? Originally Posted by blthzr666

Everything is as it was. Thank you staff.

Why is it every time a girl post a thread someon has to say they are posting an ad? Last time I checked the coed was for open discussions, that is what this appears to be to me, she posted a great question so why do you have to throw that threAD word around, come on man




Originally Posted by rodeomann22

not yet burger not yet time will tel lthough

Great thread! I'm with Trisha on this. I enjoy the connection with the ladies I see

We lost the AG post. I think she said something simple, yet profound 😜, like this called a relationship service?

Im sure what I posted is still in the cloud...

Its advertised as the

"Relationship Experience"