Suggestive Screening?

LOL, I have my own screening process.Its to sit around after and watch the coming and going's. I got lost in your apart complex and saw things This is when you where at the apartment with the dead fish tank , And I was a quicky.No worry just want to make sure things are not recorded to be permanent. Originally Posted by man-beast

I have never had dead fish in my tank! So rude! I may have had an empty fish tank, but certainly not dead! I love animals, fish, etc. So anyway, you just sit around after appts , ok now that's weird creepy. No offense.

Just a note ==> its never happened to me at her (Pepper) place....

I'd check the phone number if the person is an out of towner....they should have an out of town cell phone. Next I'd ask for the persons flight arrival and departure info. I'd give no more than 3 min for him to give you the info.....most travelers have that info at hand in there room.

Problem with refs is you can give the number out, but as you all know not everyone answers the phone away.

I'd check the phone number if the person is an out of towner....they should have an out of town cell phone. Next I'd ask for the persons flight arrival and departure info. I'd give no more than 3 min for him to give you the info.....most travelers have that info at hand in there room.

Problem with refs is you can give the number out, but as you all know not everyone answers the phone away. Originally Posted by Tekcor

What exactly is flight info & an out of town cell # going to tell you about how a hobbyist treats a lady???

A hobbyist should never give out ladies phone numbers w/o first asking permission.
You as a hobbyist however, should provide your references website & board handle. So the providers your wanting to see, don't have to go on a wild goose chase searching for it.

I have never had dead fish in my tank! So rude! I may have had an empty fish tank, but certainly not dead! I love animals, fish, etc. So anyway, you just sit around after appts , ok now that's weird creepy. No offense. Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield

Less than 5 minutes isn't weird. Cover your own a@@ I alway's say. It's a two way street of caution. I alway's hear about provider safety but what about the hobbyist. And Dead fish tank can be read a great many way's. The use of ............................:n o:

Having out of town cell and flight info handy to match that location would help indicate he's not LE. Doubtful LE can give you flight arrival and departure info real quick/out of Towner should have that info at hand. It’s a good indicator.

Second indicator is location of client....is he in $30 a night rat hole or in a $200+ a night hotel. Doubtful a jerk would fork over cash to pay for lavish digs when he plans on hassling a lady. There are rich jerks…..but it’s my belief that persons who stay at nice places don’t plan on making a scene.

Last and probably most important is the persons voice and response to your questions. Does he sound like a whack job or a respectable businessman? In a minute phone call you should be able to discern if a person is intoxicated, or weird, or interesting.

The rest is your gut instinct. What do they tell you? Good luck.

Having out of town cell and flight info handy to match that location would help indicate he's not LE. Doubtful LE can give you flight arrival and departure info real quick/out of Towner should have that info at hand. It’s a good indicator.

Second indicator is location of client....is he in $30 a night rat hole or in a $200+ a night hotel. Doubtful a jerk would fork over cash to pay for lavish digs when he plans on hassling a lady. There are rich jerks…..but it’s my belief that persons who stay at nice places don’t plan on making a scene.

Last and probably most important is the persons voice and response to your questions. Does he sound like a whack job or a respectable businessman? In a minute phone call you should be able to discern if a person is intoxicated, or weird, or interesting.

The rest is your gut instinct. What do they tell you? Good luck. Originally Posted by Tekcor

Spoken like a true cop.

But sorry to disappoint. LE will go to whatever lengths THEY want to and SOUND as sweet as grandma. Just to get a collar.

they could just do what i did...see 2 girls that i wouldnt normally be interested in seeing, that ARE newbie friendly...then you have refs. then hurry up and see you right away cuz you are so wonderful with at giving refs

one lady suggesting i show her a paycheck and a work ID. I am sure most men wouldnt be interested in this option...but i dont really care. A girl that pays attention to detail can tell what i do anyway....and you can look on line to see what starting pay is a taco bell

Being a little paranoid in this game is understandable. I trust the provider to use her best judgment, and will honor reasonable requests. This protects all of us.

If you don't like the screening process, you can always go elsewhere.

Type of room and airline tickets aren't a problem for them.

Hell, if they do a takedown of someone in high class digs (could be a bust totally unrelated to the Hobby) they can do an impromptu BP/CL/whatever bust.

And they can get airline tickets the same way.

Always cheaper to use confiscated evidence to pull off a sting.

Being a little paranoid in this game is understandable. I trust the provider to use her best judgment, and will honor reasonable requests. This protects all of us.

If you don't like the screening process, you can always go elsewhere. Originally Posted by raedy4funn45

Exactly!!

I also like to spend five minute on the phone with the potential gentleman....my preference! I like when they call....

they could just do what i did...see 2 girls that i wouldnt normally be interested in seeing, that ARE newbie friendly...then you have refs. then hurry up and see you right away cuz you are so wonderful with at giving refs Originally Posted by bubbaJay

awww bubba, you went through all that for me? jk

lol...if you only knew

pretty interesting points have been presented.
considering going back newbie friendly....
if the screenings too rigorous, theres always another