NC/NS Dorthy_Monroe

Time was agreed upon was told to call an hour ahead of time to get address but hey everyone has there own rules to the way they do their business Originally Posted by Imbecil
If a day was agreed upon and he was told to be in a certain area to receive the address then would that not indicate that a session was scheduled?

If the tables were reversed and he did that to you on an Outcall we would be seeing a lot more complaining.

So you just proved my point you didn't receive an address so Therfore we had no appointment.. I didn't even talk to you today so if you didn't hear from me and had no address how is a ncns even possible?

You had no place to even show up to smh Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe
But you did tell him to be in a certain area then call for the address correct?
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your kinda sexy alexis......IJS Originally Posted by Tony Gambino
Thank you...
A session with Dorthy would be a helluva lot of fun, but her appointment-setting philosophy is fucked up. Most of us guys have limited windows of time to see providers so when we schedule an appointment to meet at a certain time, we expect her to take that seriously and either follow through with the appointment or contact us to let us know that she can no longer make it. Who has time for a provider that won't take that commitment seriously? The excuse that "I didn't give you an address when I agreed to meet you at 2 p.m. today, so we did not have a scheduled appointment" is bullshit.

If you have to wait until an hour before the appointment for her to actually SCHEDULE the appointment that you already agreed upon, you have no time to re-schedule with another provider if Dorthy is MIA. To the guys cheering her on, just think of how shitty it would be if all providers operated this way.
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BFC, nicely put. Its obvious by past threads this is her MOP, and therefore why I won't attempt an appt. While in DM's world I wasn't an ncns, it is in mine and many other hobbiest. It just demonstrates the need to do your homework on providers, not just I their reviews but I all the forums. This type of ncns is avoidable.
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But I heard she can deep throat a real dick. To me that's better than taint pics.
I think this whole discussion is hilarious. At the risk of pissing many people off on this discussion (something I don't particularly care about anyway), here I go:

1) Oh no. A "provider" no showed an appointment? Alert the f'in media! That's never happened before in the history of time (or the last 5 minutes). Let's learn to manage our expectations a bit here. It's really not a gig that's known for professionalism, punctuality, etc. You set an appointment and never get told where to go. So you expected that appointment to happen why? LOL.

2) I agree with the post right above this one too (BFC Josh). Many of us do have limited windows of time and we need the appointments to happen as scheduled. There are MANY girls on here who are very good with keeping appointments and being respectful of our schedule too. Find one of them (see, e.g., Kareena Singh, NaughtyNatalia, Peachy and many others - sorry if I forgot one - lol). Simple solution. I will say, a tad of common courtesy on everyone's part in dealing with others would make life better for everyone. Not going to show, let them know that ahead of time (and that goes BOTH ways).

3) Don't want people to hate you on this board, don't say controversial shit in the forums. Don't care? Say what you want but don't complain about it. And women, when you have stacks of awesome reviews, don't sweat the occasional negative. No one pays attention when you're stacked with good reviews to the one bad one.

4) And I'll say it again, let's learn to manage our expectations a bit. Or as I said, find someone who works for you. If someone on here has a history of being difficult to schedule with or nc/ns, either don't book with her or understand the limitations and work with it. Geesh. If only there was a place we could find out information about the providers. . . Oh, wait. . .

5) Dorthy is a doll. Admittedly hard to schedule with, but she's great. And worth the effort.

6) What did you hope to gain by starting this whole thread? Back to managing our expectations. . . If the hope was that Dorthy was going to come crawling back begging to make it up to you, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to just be crappy and make someone look bad, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to get attention, well then, mission accomplished (if it was worth it).

7) This whole thing is hilarious. Let's all find a more constructive way to spend our day.

Hate this post, love this post, disregard this post or whatever strikes your fancy.
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I think this whole discussion is hilarious. At the risk of pissing many people off on this discussion (something I don't particularly care about anyway), here I go:

1) Oh no. A "provider" no showed an appointment? Alert the f'in media! That's never happened before in the history of time (or the last 5 minutes). Let's learn to manage our expectations a bit here. It's really not a gig that's known for professionalism, punctuality, etc. You set an appointment and never get told where to go. So you expected that appointment to happen why? LOL.

2) I agree with the post right above this one too (BFC Josh). Many of us do have limited windows of time and we need the appointments to happen as scheduled. There are MANY girls on here who are very good with keeping appointments and being respectful of our schedule too. Find one of them (see, e.g., Kareena Singh, NaughtyNatalia, Peachy and many others - sorry if I forgot one - lol). Simple solution. I will say, a tad of common courtesy on everyone's part in dealing with others would make life better for everyone. Not going to show, let them know that ahead of time (and that goes BOTH ways).

3) Don't want people to hate you on this board, don't say controversial shit in the forums. Don't care? Say what you want but don't complain about it. And women, when you have stacks of awesome reviews, don't sweat the occasional negative. No one pays attention when you're stacked with good reviews to the one bad one.

4) And I'll say it again, let's learn to manage our expectations a bit. Or as I said, find someone who works for you. If someone on here has a history of being difficult to schedule with or nc/ns, either don't book with her or understand the limitations and work with it. Geesh. If only there was a place we could find out information about the providers. . . Oh, wait. . .

5) Dorthy is a doll. Admittedly hard to schedule with, but she's great. And worth the effort.

6) What did you hope to gain by starting this whole thread? Back to managing our expectations. . . If the hope was that Dorthy was going to come crawling back begging to make it up to you, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to just be crappy and make someone look bad, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to get attention, well then, mission accomplished (if it was worth it).

7) This whole thing is hilarious. Let's all find a more constructive way to spend our day.

Hate this post, love this post, disregard this post or whatever strikes your fancy. Originally Posted by yeah_right

1.) The reason why there is research to do on here is because people provide the information necessary to accomplish the the research so don't discourage the discussion.

2.) Exactly my point lie to me i don't care tell me hey my car broke down i won't be able to make the appointment aliens abducted me i don't really care but at least take the 2 mins to call or message.

3.) Of course girls that are stacked are going to have a line around the corner still willing to see them no matter what especially with guys like you discouraging post of flaky providers.

4.) That was my mistake i honestly didn't do enough research as far as NC/NS just reviews so that one is on me.

5.) Your review was one of the ones that sold me on her so i understand your displeasure in my post and your willingness to defend her but nonetheless i posted a ncns to further the research that may be done for the nest guy.

6.) Again the posting of information for future research you sure are quick to discourage it but also very fast in blaming the hobbiest for his inefficiency on here and i think at this point your the one seeking the attention of the provider by becoming a whitenight congrats man if i was her this shit you wrote would have me wetter than .... you get the idea.

7.) I agree.
I think this whole discussion is hilarious. At the risk of pissing many people off on this discussion (something I don't particularly care about anyway), here I go:

1) Oh no. A "provider" no showed an appointment? Alert the f'in media! That's never happened before in the history of time (or the last 5 minutes). Let's learn to manage our expectations a bit here. It's really not a gig that's known for professionalism, punctuality, etc. You set an appointment and never get told where to go. So you expected that appointment to happen why? LOL.

2) I agree with the post right above this one too (BFC Josh). Many of us do have limited windows of time and we need the appointments to happen as scheduled. There are MANY girls on here who are very good with keeping appointments and being respectful of our schedule too. Find one of them (see, e.g., Kareena Singh, NaughtyNatalia, Peachy and many others - sorry if I forgot one - lol). Simple solution. I will say, a tad of common courtesy on everyone's part in dealing with others would make life better for everyone. Not going to show, let them know that ahead of time (and that goes BOTH ways).

3) Don't want people to hate you on this board, don't say controversial shit in the forums. Don't care? Say what you want but don't complain about it. And women, when you have stacks of awesome reviews, don't sweat the occasional negative. No one pays attention when you're stacked with good reviews to the one bad one.

4) And I'll say it again, let's learn to manage our expectations a bit. Or as I said, find someone who works for you. If someone on here has a history of being difficult to schedule with or nc/ns, either don't book with her or understand the limitations and work with it. Geesh. If only there was a place we could find out information about the providers. . . Oh, wait. . .

5) Dorthy is a doll. Admittedly hard to schedule with, but she's great. And worth the effort.

6) What did you hope to gain by starting this whole thread? Back to managing our expectations. . . If the hope was that Dorthy was going to come crawling back begging to make it up to you, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to just be crappy and make someone look bad, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to get attention, well then, mission accomplished (if it was worth it).

7) This whole thing is hilarious. Let's all find a more constructive way to spend our day.

Hate this post, love this post, disregard this post or whatever strikes your fancy. Originally Posted by yeah_right

1,3,4,5, and 6 are nothing more than making a joke out of the OPs post or taking up for dorthy.

I agree with 2.

7 is just blatantly trying to take something that's very unprofessional and telling people to just disregard the whole issue.

So, I'll just disregard your post.

So... let me get this straight... guy gets the okay and is told to call the hour before you're supposed to meet? Sounds like an appointment was made to me.

Answer me this then.... if he doesn't call the hr before, do you bitch about him and say he no showed you?

It was a chicken shit excuse when you used it the last 20 times.... it's a chicken shit excuse now. Justify it however you want but you wasted his time Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude
We had no damn appointment I didn't even speak to him Friday he had no address and didn't know where to go.. This Isn't the first time this shit has been discussed with me.. It specifically states in my showcase no address means no appointment.. Ive never once made a ncns thread so that should tell you something... I didn't waste his time because we had no appointment...
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I think this whole discussion is hilarious. At the risk of pissing many people off on this discussion (something I don't particularly care about anyway), here I go:

1) Oh no. A "provider" no showed an appointment? Alert the f'in media! That's never happened before in the history of time (or the last 5 minutes). Let's learn to manage our expectations a bit here. It's really not a gig that's known for professionalism, punctuality, etc. You set an appointment and never get told where to go. So you expected that appointment to happen why? LOL.

2) I agree with the post right above this one too (BFC Josh). Many of us do have limited windows of time and we need the appointments to happen as scheduled. There are MANY girls on here who are very good with keeping appointments and being respectful of our schedule too. Find one of them (see, e.g., Kareena Singh, NaughtyNatalia, Peachy and many others - sorry if I forgot one - lol). Simple solution. I will say, a tad of common courtesy on everyone's part in dealing with others would make life better for everyone. Not going to show, let them know that ahead of time (and that goes BOTH ways).

3) Don't want people to hate you on this board, don't say controversial shit in the forums. Don't care? Say what you want but don't complain about it. And women, when you have stacks of awesome reviews, don't sweat the occasional negative. No one pays attention when you're stacked with good reviews to the one bad one.

4) And I'll say it again, let's learn to manage our expectations a bit. Or as I said, find someone who works for you. If someone on here has a history of being difficult to schedule with or nc/ns, either don't book with her or understand the limitations and work with it. Geesh. If only there was a place we could find out information about the providers. . . Oh, wait. . .

5) Dorthy is a doll. Admittedly hard to schedule with, but she's great. And worth the effort.

6) What did you hope to gain by starting this whole thread? Back to managing our expectations. . . If the hope was that Dorthy was going to come crawling back begging to make it up to you, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to just be crappy and make someone look bad, um, well. . . oops. If the hope was to get attention, well then, mission accomplished (if it was worth it).

7) This whole thing is hilarious. Let's all find a more constructive way to spend our day.

Hate this post, love this post, disregard this post or whatever strikes your fancy. Originally Posted by yeah_right
TL;DFLE ha! (didn't feel like editing for anyone wondering)

I think this post is mostly hilarious. all points not even worth addressing


1) uh? are you saying members shouldn't post any negative type information for exchange? explain to us the what eccie stands for again?

3) uh? really? no one huh? here's some info for you. the NO's are generally the FIRST ones I click on. who cares about a bunch of yes's? some more info - on amazon I do the samething. sure the yes's are randomly clicked on here and there. especially if they have pics. I will say, sometimes a bad review actually gets me more curious so sometimes they work in reverse as far as this member is concerned. a NCNS? pffft. I hardly go through the move of performing that search the way they're done like this so once they're off the first page or two they drop in value.

6) what did you hope to slant by typing up #6 here? because anyone with the tiniest amount of common sense should know the answer. I refer you back to eccie (the name/acronym)

7) was going to skip but yes, let's all find a more constructive way to not exchange any useful information

heck, first I heard of the no address piece so I learned something.

I'd say the one tidbit you got right is not everyone is everyone's cup of tea. you diluted it with all the fluffing and slanting


no issue with this point. thought I'd add some more info that could be helpful to some reading this

5) not unique to DM and can depends on how you hit it off with whichever provider. plenty of other providers are hard to schedule with if not damn near impossible. something you learn over time maybe.

edit:
I forgot to mention one other thought. even with the issues with the above post, come on OP! you've been here how long? seems like you don't have much of a clue when it comes to DM. you don't keep up with the boards much huh?
If a day was agreed upon and he was told to be in a certain area to receive the address then would that not indicate that a session was scheduled?

If the tables were reversed and he did that to you on an Outcall we would be seeing a lot more complaining.



But you did tell him to be in a certain area then call for the address correct? Originally Posted by Mr. GPop
No I didn't tell him that because everyone who has met me knows I give your ass the damn address when I speak to you so believe what you want...
It's a shame that you're so blind to her you can't see the forest for the trees. She has the absolute worst attitude of any provider on the Houston forums.

Jusanotherdude put it out there, his opinion and no doubt the opinion of others. As far as I'm concerned he's 'spot on'. Here it is again.



Now, since you're her punk boy, why don't you throw down on Jusanotherdude? Oh that's right, he's a mod and you wouldn't attempt to upset a mod would you? Didn't think so. Originally Posted by NOBODY60
Sounds Like French Toast Mr. Dorthy_monroe has the worst attitude.. & GIFS
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Sounds Like French Toast Mr. Dorthy_monroe has the worst attitude.. & GIFS Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe
ha, ha! I thought the exact samething as I read that sentence
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  • 05-16-2015, 12:41 PM
We had no damn appointment I didn't even speak to him Friday he had no address and didn't know where to go.. This Isn't the first time this shit has been discussed with me.. It specifically states in my showcase no address means no appointment.. Ive never once made a ncns thread so that should tell you something... I didn't waste his time because we had no appointment... Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe
If you agreed on a time and date, you made an appointment. Most ladies don't give an address until an hour or so before an appointment. Since most drive times in Houston are an hour or so, it's common not to know the address until you're about to leave. DM is trying to win this argument on a technicality. If you agreed on a time and date, you owe the guy a call or text to let him know you won't make it. Throat Punch >>>>)))
great responses.

But let me remake my point. I'm not discouraging people from the sharing of information. In fact, I had no issue with the original post about the nc/ns. That is, in fact, good information because it lets you know how people handle their business and then you can make the educated choice of whether to see them.

Regarding DM, my point was not to white knight and jump to her aid. I like her. I had a good time with her. I think she's worth it. But then again, it did take me months to get an appointment. But I knew that going in so . . . And yet, I'm being criticized for "discouraging" others to share their opinions, information, experiences, but then, as well, being criticized for sharing mine. Can't have it both ways.

So here's my opinion on sharing information - we should. This board is useful for that reason. And I "encourage" it. HOWEVER, I just don't think it's worth getting all wrapped around the axle over any of it (yes, barring more serious situations). I think it's great to post the info about the nc/ns or the way people handle appointments. What I found not useful and over dramatized was "some" of the discussion that followed. Maybe the original poster had an appointment, maybe he didn't. Maybe DM should have let him know it wasn't a solid appointment or that she wasn't coming, maybe she shouldn't have. But let's not get bent out of shape about any it.

Sharing information is this:

"I had a time set with her. She never provided an address and never let me know the time was a no-go"

Response: "I never gave him a location, therefore no appointment in my book."

Done and done. Then people have all the info to decide whether they agree with him, or her. And enough info to decide whether they want to pursue seeing the provider or not.

Whether you do or don't pay attention to bad reviews is up to you. My point was directed at the providers on that issue and suggesting to them not to get bothered by bad reviews when they have tons of good ones. It's not directed at the hobbiest as to whether they should or should not ignore the bad reviews.

But NONE of this is worth getting irate for, and NONE of it is worth the dispensing of keyboard venom. If I've learned anything in life it's this - people will see the facts as they see them, based on their opinions, beliefs and experiences. There's no "swaying" them one way or another. So pass on the facts and let them decide for themselves. That is the sharing of information.

No matter what we think, being a provider is NOT easy. So take it easy on them from the 1,000 foot view. Share your info for other's benefit and let it go. But it's not worth people getting upset over and certainly not worth devoting time and energy to.

So let's not take it all so seriously. In the end of the day, that's the real issue. And disregard all of the above for the more serious of situations, and we all know what those are already.