Those NASTY mommy tummies

Do whatever pleases you but do not do it to please anyone else. Yes clients expect us to be perfect because we are selling a fantasy but if any client refuse to see you or continue with the date because of your mommy tummy, let the bird fly, he is probably looking at a lot worse everyday (his wife)

I hope my experience and opinion in this matter helps you. You may not like what I am about to say as my suggestion requires a lot of hard work and discipline and just a touch of genetics. From one woman to another.....I am a mother. After my first child, I developed a little pooch. I despised it. Since I was fresh out of the Marine Core, I had a good work ethic - I applied that to working out. It took me 8 years of focusing on core exercises (I became the queen of squats and the plank); However, 8 years later that pooch was gone, naturally.

Plastic surgery is an option for some, but not for me. I'm immensely scared of going under the knife for cosmetic reasons. Our bodies are ours, so be confident of your physical characterisitics and own them! They are part of who YOU are. My point is this: It is possible to dramatically reduce or lose your mommy tummy through diet and exercise. My body is better now than when I was in my twenties. I am happy with my shape and everyday I relish in the fact that I earned my flat stomach. It wasn't by far easy, but I made working out a habit. If you want to know exactly what I did to help naturally eliminate my pooch, please pm me. If you don't, I hope that at a minimum, the responses in this thread help you.

And if nothing else lady, you are a mom. Moms are special people!!

For me, it depends on the severity of it, IN CONJUNCTION with how hot she is. There are some extreme cases, and in many of those cases, it is compounded by a general lack of body maintenance in the exercise department...or lack thereof exercise.

I hate to use my car analogy again (some of you don't like being compared to objects...sorry), but if you're going to rent me a vehicle, it's gotta be in top end shape. We're paying money, here. I'm not knocking being a mom. It's a beautiful thing. But there's a maintaining of the body aspect that shouldn't be ignored.

If you're not going to try to keep yourself hot and sexy, why would I want to pay money to see you?? You can't just escort only BECAUSE you're a woman. It helps if there is some desirability. A car that's in good shape is more rentable than a jalopy. Sitting in a hotel room eating McDonald's all day or smoking a pack a day DOES NOT make you desirable.

On the specific subject of mommy tummies, I've read that rubbing cocoa butter periodically on your tummy WHILE PREGNANT minimizes the chances of damage later on. Perhaps BDS exfoliation process should be stickied somewhere for more to see.

I have seen ladies who had them and ladies who don't- I am more concerned about the service she provides. One thing that the OP didn't mention nor anyone else is- why should the ladies with mommy tummy feel insecure or ashamed and hobbyist why should we make them feel insecure- let's be honest the average hobbyist isn't some 6 feet stud, with a 6 pack abs and the looks of some major movie star.
The hobbyist have their imperfections so what's the point? Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Agree ^^^ 💯💯💯

I have seen ladies who had them and ladies who don't- I am more concerned about the service she provides. One thing that the OP didn't mention nor anyone else is- why should the ladies with mommy tummy feel insecure or ashamed and hobbyist why should we make them feel insecure- let's be honest the average hobbyist isn't some 6 feet stud, with a 6 pack abs and the looks of some major movie star.
The hobbyist have their imperfections so what's the point? Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Because we are the ones spending the money, therefore that is the point.
It will be my choice and don't complain because with diet and exercise you do have control.
What the hobbyist looks like is not the issue.

If the hobby has taught me anything, it is that a provider with great skills BCD AND a fantastic attitude toward pleasing her man is much, much more attractive than a provider with a selfish or ambivalent attitude regardless of her physique. I have had poor experiences with providers that fit my past definition of a "10" and great experiences with providers that did not fit in that typecast.

The difference is attitude. If I had to choose a provider sight unseen, I would prefer the company of someone who considers herself sexual over someone who only considers herself sexy. Don't fret over a slight mommy tummy...it is a physical feature that should not stand in your way to pleasing your sex partner.

Because we are the ones spending the money, therefore that is the point.
It will be my choice and don't complain because with diet and exercise you do have control.
What the hobbyist looks like is not the issue. Originally Posted by universalenergy

Any male or female on here that say it has to do with diet and exercise..... I am 5"7 and 135 pounds. There isn't much to me other than my 34 DDD breasts. I exercise and eat really well.

If diet and excessive were the issue it would have been long gone

Like I said I only have one child but I was 250 pounds at one time due to awful medication. So I don't have elasticity in my body.

As for personality and bedroom skills. I know I top the charts when it comes to that. I am an amazing companion and lover.

I don't charge outlandish because I know I am not perfect but even if I didn't have a small mommy tummy I would never go over the rates I have right now. I don't need too.

I love me as a person. I REALLY love me as a lover. I am the gal that wants to experience every piece of furniture in the bedroom and still have energy for more

As me as a person. Well that's personal but my reviews say what kind of a lover and person I am.


I had someone wonderful message me because of this thread and he was inedible sweet and I am no longer worried about my tummy.

I know the kind of woman I am and what I have to offer. If a tiny mommy tummy scares a guy away than he can piss off.

I look at a mommy tummy as evidence of a woman who cares more for others than just a passing thought. A woman who has the courage of women from time immemorial who chose to face all of the hardships of having a child, rather than submitting herself to the baby butchers eager to sell tiny child parts. A woman who has the limitless love necessary for being a mom. In short a real MOM, who I am proud to know in any situation I may meet her. I would choose her over the person who chose the convenient way of pregnancy conclusion. If you have a mommy tummy, your my first choice. Be proud.

I look at a mommy tummy as evidence of a woman who cares more for others than just a passing thought. A woman who has the courage of women from time immemorial who chose to face all of the hardships of having a child, rather than submitting herself to the baby butchers eager to sell tiny child parts. A woman who has the limitless love necessary for being a mom. In short a real MOM, who I am proud to know in any situation I may meet her. I would choose her over the person who chose the convenient way of pregnancy conclusion. If you have a mommy tummy, your my first choice. Be proud. Originally Posted by HMFICDICK

Wow... Nothing but RESPECT... 😊

I look at a mommy tummy as evidence of a woman who cares more for others than just a passing thought. A woman who has the courage of women from time immemorial who chose to face all of the hardships of having a child, rather than submitting herself to the baby butchers eager to sell tiny child parts. A woman who has the limitless love necessary for being a mom. In short a real MOM, who I am proud to know in any situation I may meet her. I would choose her over the person who chose the convenient way of pregnancy conclusion. If you have a mommy tummy, your my first choice. Be proud. Originally Posted by HMFICDICK

Good then take you dollars and spend it on mommy tummies. Make sure and let any hooker that has had an abortion know that you are not interested in seeing them. That seems fair enough.

Let the free market decide. If you want to fuck a woman with a mommy tummy, In short a real MOM with three kids in the other room....more power to you.

I do not care to.

Its my money and my choice. I am not being rude.... you asked a question and I gave my opinion....I know women who have had children and do not show any signs, therefore it is possible. Not easy but it is possible. That is my choice and I will reward those who have put in the hard work. I am a man who dropped 50 pounds by diet and exercise and at my age it was not easy. it can be done.

Good then take you dollars and spend it on mommy tummies. Make sure and let any hooker that has had an abortion know that you are not interested in seeing them. That seems fair enough.

Let the free market decide. If you want to fuck a woman with a mommy tummy, In short a real MOM with three kids in the other room....more power to you.

I do not care to. Originally Posted by WTF

Obviously, you do care deeply or you would say nothing. My statement is MY feelings about the ladies who may have a MOMMY TUMMY. I have been with ladies who have three children and no mommy tummy's and these who do. I appreciate both of them, as well as those who have not yet had children. You...WTF... seem to want to denigrate those who have had children and have mommy tummy's. I guess Abortion is your preferred method of dealing with babies. It is not mine and Just as you have your preferences I have mine, although I feel mine are not quite as shallow as yours.

You...WTF... seem to want to denigrate those who have had children and have mommy tummy's. I guess Abortion is your preferred method of dealing with babies. It is not mine and Just as you have your preferences I have mine, although I feel mine are not quite as shallow as yours. Originally Posted by HMFICDICK

You seem to want to denigrate those women who are pro choice and may have used that choice. So how does that not make you just as shallow as me? In fact we both are paying women to fuck us...by definition that is a shallow endeavor.

Unlike you , i realize it and choose to voice my opinion that while engaging in that shallow endeavor , choose to look for the most ATTRACTIVE. Momma tummies are not attractive IMHO. The general public agrees with me because last i checked i have never seen one on any Mrs. USA contestants!

Like i said see ever who floats your boat.

A mommy tummy is only there if you allow it to be...
You can get rid of it with some good workouts!
This is based off experience not word of mouth.
When people meet me they would have never
guessed I had a mini me. Thats the way it should be!

It doesn't happen over night but you can most certainly
get rid of it with some hard work. Consistency is the key.
Good luck girl! The hard work is worth it, not only will you
be more confident in yourself, you will be healthier all
the way around!

fair enough...