Believe it or not we all do not show up here after taking escorting 101 or hobbiest 101. Should cleanliness be an obvious for intimate situations.....probably so. I have a section on my website that clearly states that I expect the client to shower/clean up when he arrives and that I provide all ammeties for that. Then upon arrival and some conversation I direct them in the direction of the bathroom.
If they say they have already showered I take their word as they do mine that I have showered before hand and proceed. If it turns out they are in need of cleanliness/grooming etc.....they get what they prepared for. I will either go to town on you or shy away from many activities. All was stated in directions and offered upon arrival. At that point we have no reason to explain our actions.
I am just stating my perspective on the original op post, drama aside. OSD had a great point that offering to shower with is always fun for both parties! Scrub each other down how you like it and set some fun foreplay in the midst! And hey.....if we we all knew how to follow directions of appropriateness.....would any of us be here to begin with?
My in call is certainly not a club of health code restrictions just a place of mutually beneficial fun! Be upfront with what you expect with what should be obvious or not!