What would you do or expect if caught?

What clue? An STD. We met in High School and he is the only man I have been with in my life. Over the course of a few days as I looked into any possible way for what was happening to be something other than what I feared I picked up his phone and his internet page was this site.

Heartache? Hurt? Pain?

In the beginning yes. Incredible anger followed. Then numbness.

I fought every single urge to confront him as I looked into what it was all about. Then I found an attorney who discussed ways to find out more and advised me on things to do before confronting him.

I have all his email passwords now and I see everything he texts. He simply seems to have thrown away family and commitment to feel like some sort of stud? Really. How can anyone feel more manly having to pay for sex?

Why have I written this here? I don't know. I started several times to write something and each time I stopped and shut it off. This time I pushed the button.

Am I throwing away an investment? Not at all. I'll have everything I expected and more and our children will as well. The only thing I won't have anymore is him.

Hate the illness? What illness?

No. I hate him. I pray there is a hell and that his soul burns there for eternity. As well as the ones from this place that he sees.

Why does my writing here result in messages offering sex? Why would any self respecting woman want to lay with anyone here?

You ladies that have spoke of having made your peace? Good for you. The next time he lays with one of you if I drop his stuff on your porch will he get any sympathy? A place to sleep?

I've been reading and learning and trying to understand how it all works and why. What it is he finds so appealing in a place like this. What it is all about. I have no intention of believing anything he has to say on face value.

Tammie - I've thought about which would be worse a lot. I think had he met and fell in love with someone else, or thought he had fell in love, that it might have been something that we could have parted over in some sort of amicable manner.

This though?

No. This is ugly and will cost him far more than he already chose to spend. It's fitting though considering he chose to spend money in this fashion.

Trolling? Is that like fishing and trying to catch him? He has already been caught. He just does not know it yet. If he was in a bar with a woman I could just go there and confront them. Will he see this and respond here? I don't think he would. Perhaps as payday approaches he will notice and see some of himself in this.

But mostly I'm sad because EL James just totally screwed up expectations in adult themed literature. Originally Posted by BiancaBonVivant

+1

I'm not convinced this poster is genuine but I'll play along like it is.

Ah, the jilted wife, after finally seeing the gilded cage in which she confined herself, comes here to stalk and snarl. Do so, but know the snarls are misguided.

We are all addicted to that which dulls the pain of living. Even you madam. For many men it is sex, for you it may be exercise or something else entirely, but there will always be something.

Blue Pill: You have bought into and likely continue to buy into the construct of marriage. You allowed a man to buy your pussy, nay your entire life for a ring, perhaps a house, and the illusion of "respectability". Because you allowed yourself, what appears here to be a bright, intelligent woman, to be infantilized into believeing this is what "good" women do. Make no mistake, you have been bought just as much as many of the people you came here to finger wag and condescend to, only you literally donated your body, your domestic labor, your reproductive fecundity, the years of your youth, and emotional availability for pennies on the dollar. Why would you barter away all of your assets so easily madam? The joke is on you because you never saw that this arrangement is for the most part a soft slavery reinforced by legal, economic and social institutions so that you can feel superior to us "bad" girls.

Red Pill: You are neither farm animal nor domestic servant. As a woman you have all the assets, and you have all of the leverage. You always did, even before you met him and you have it still. Find a way to understand this and manifest the incredible power it gives you and go up. Female standards direct male behavior, always have, and always will. Lead yourself to a more advantageous relationship with your husband, or lead yourself to a more advantageous life out of the marriage, but own and ruthlessly apply the assets that eons of evolution gave you as a woman. But for God's sake never give them away again. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina

Once again, Miss V so eloquently says what the rest of us are thinking.

Then I found an attorney who discussed ways to find out more and advised me on things to do before confronting him. Originally Posted by faithfulforyears

I call bullshit. No attorney is going to advise you to join this site because guess what? Now you're a member of a hooker site and you can't prove that you're not cheating. Women hire us, too.

But hey, this has certainly been an entertaining read with LOTS of page views, so high five to you!

Next you're going to be telling us which providers are doing BBFS. Oh wait, that's your other handle. My bad.

I call bullshit ... Next you're going to be telling us which providers are doing BBFS. Oh wait, that's your other handle. My bad. Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Ah agree on tha bull-shee'yit call. Ain't no womb-man Ah e'er heardt of is a-gonna catch an STD frum her man after 21 yars o' chas-titty an' faithfull-ness an' not kill tha sumbitch on tha spot, let alone not use all caps e'en oncet when she goes ta tha site whar her fella's been a-whore-mungerin' around.


Only kwest-yun h'yar is if'n it's rockerrick 'r ol' Whisperola a-usin' a "Womb-mandle". Ah'd lean t'wards Whisperola, but Ah ain't 100% shore thet he's genetimahcally capable o' not usin' ee-lips-isisis an' color'd fonts when s/he posts sump'in.

P.S. If the monger happens to be the David Douchurst character, then go ahead and cut his donkey dick off. We are all tired of the girls swooning over him. Originally Posted by Mr Peabody

Thar ain't enuff munny in all o' Donald Trump's bank acccounts ta get meh ta git marriedt! Fukk thet shee-yit.

An' Ah jus' wantsta say thet un-laik tha Donald, Ah luvs tha Mexican peeple. 'Speshully tha ones wif tig ol' bitties wif them dark chok'lit nipperolas an' a tight leetle poooossy.

Once this ends he'll have time to write more reviews!

She just looking for some DICK

Trolling? Is that like fishing and trying to catch him? . Originally Posted by faithfulforyears

Urban Dictionary: A person whose sole purpose in life is to seek out people to argue with on the internet = whispers!


IB

I could care less what a woman proud of her ability to get paid to give blowjobs to married men think. What will you think if subpoenaed to explain what my husband was doing with you?

No lawyer gave me any advice regarding this place other than I should leave things alone. I did not join this site or post to find anything out relating to what is happening. I paid someone to document all of that including his sordid details of his interactions with the likes of you and others

I have plenty of proof of what HE is doing including pictures and addresses and names of more than one of you here. My reputation is untouchable. He can try to do so but I highly doubt he will want all the details I've put together presented to his parents, siblings, church and co-workers. I've done NOTHING except type a few words here.

I have plenty of proof of what HE is doing including pictures and addresses and names of more than one of you here. My reputation is untouchable. Originally Posted by faithfulforyears

Sounds like a thinly veiled threat of outing.
How do you suppose your reputation in court will be when his lawyer proves your membership on this site?

Sounds like a thinly veiled threat of outing.
How do you suppose your reputation in court will be when his lawyer proves your membership on this site? Originally Posted by SOULFLY

And you Say you have access to "his accounts" so who's to say you weren't setting him up? Setting up dates with girls, getting pics, addresses and then canceling late minute by phone.

Think about it. It would look completely legit that "he" is doing all the hobbing when in fact it's been you setting him up to get custody and alimony from him.

If I were "him" there are many ways to get around your allegations.

You dear have the burden of proof. Good luck.

Sounds like you are threatening members and I'd suggest the mods bann or disable your account as fast as the horse you rode in on.

Were you to be caught would you expect a chance to explain? If you caught your spouse at this would you be forgiving?

For a little over 21 years I was clueless.

It's been a couple of months now since he left behind a very unwanted clue.

He's the one that is clueless now. He and his lady friends.

I really wish I had never found this place and his adventures but now I have what I need.

I don't understand how you all are so nonchalant knowing that you can destroy families and futures. Originally Posted by faithfulforyears

You really need to read my public service announcement.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...&highlight=psa


Now post some taint photos for me.

And you Say you have access to "his accounts" so who's to say you weren't setting him up? Setting up dates with girls, getting pics, addresses and then canceling late minute by phone.

Think about it. It would look completely legit that "he" is doing all the hobbing when in fact it's been you setting him up to get custody and alimony from him.

If I were "him" there are many ways to get around your allegations.

You dear have the burden of proof. Good luck.

Sounds like you are threatening members and I'd suggest the mods bann or disable your account as fast as the horse you rode in on. Originally Posted by Kitty Bunny Fuck

+1 on the legal analysis and the "set up" angle......
+1,000,000 on the ban / suspension from the IP address.....

-Nilla (I'm in "Time Out")