Referral Expectations

Hellooooo Everyone, did you miss me today??

I want to thank everyone for keeping my Thread going!! I reached a milestone today in my Eccie career, this thread has over 40 posts and I did it all in less than 700 views. (JJD15 for President!!) LOL

This just tells me that people do care about the topic and making things better in our community. Not all comments were on topic, but if you read between the responses you’ll see there was good information shared and to be learned. If the information allows one person to have a better experience and sets real expectations, then it was worth the time to post. That’s the unique thing about our community, we have good things said, different things said. But overall, things are said that do make a difference. We have to have the BAD/INDIFFERENT to allow us to appreciate the GOOD. AND as long as the GOOD out ways the BAD, then it’s not so bad after all…

A few takeaways for me are:
• Allow at least 48 hours for your Referral requests to be properly screened and other providers to get back to each other
• Never give a Provider’s number to another Provider if it’s not listed on her Profile page
• Never give out a Provider’s Hobby location – This is a No Brainer
A couple of questions for the ladies:
• If you currently ask for another Provider’s contact number, what alternate information are you willing to accept to maintain the integrity of the site?
• In the event we need a faster than 48 clearing, what’s the best way to accomplish this?
• Some ladies require more than 3+ referrals, is this really necessary? When you think about it, the guys are only going to give you providers referrals who’ve they had good experiences with. It’s kind of like a Job Resume; people are only going to supply you with people who will give you positive feedback. I definitely understand the concern, so what’s a better way for you to get the info you need to help you make a better decision on who and who not to see?

Feel free to chime in if you feel I missed anything, as always your feedback is encouraged and welcomed!!

if you feel I missed anything, Originally Posted by jojodancer15

Trust me, you're doing it wrong.

Get p411 and be done with all this BS. I haven't provided a reference since my second OK on p411 over a year and a half ago. P411 = instant verification.

^this. And 75% of the ladies I book with never even click on my p411 profile (I have the email alert turned on) so I know they're not contacting the girls who gave me my multitude of okays.

^this. And 75% of the ladies I book with never even click on my p411 profile (I have the email alert turned on) so I know they're not contacting the girls who gave me my multitude of okays. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

MOD PUSSY

Sorry Spice had to do it.

^this. And 75% of the ladies I book with never even click on my p411 profile (I have the email alert turned on) so I know they're not contacting the girls who gave me my multitude of okays. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

P411 makes things a whole lot easier. But I always insist that providers view my profile before a meet, so we are on the same page.

Primary reason is to avoid misunderstandings like recently, I arranged a session and noticed she hadn't clicked on my profile. I insisted she do so, when she did, I got the "Oh I didn't know you were black." Island_Gent, I guess she thought it was a Greek reference.

I never saw her.

Trust me, you're doing it wrong.
Get p411 and be done with all this BS... Originally Posted by citizen44

Lots of This^
Dealing with people that will be sweet as sugar one day, then bite your head of the next are not reliable references. My ex wife was bipolar and I've learned to stay' clear of crazy bitches like that.

MOD PUSSY

Sorry Spice had to do it. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Lol I wouldn't know. I was bamboozled I tell ya, my mod pussy card still hasn't come in the mail!

...but whatever gets me in the door and between their legs!

P411 or not if you're a filthy, nasty mofo who to top it off like to bully and harass woman hiding behind a keyboard, you will still eventually get exposed.
Just because you got a few of Okays doesn't mean we still not going to check and ask for feedback from the ladies you have seen.

Specially providers like myself and several I know that aren't hurting for clients, I see who I want to see, not everyone who requests. I guess it sucks for those providers who don't take their time to do their research.

The little trick some fucktards have pulled in the past, where they don't link their eccie handle to their P411 because they know they act like assholes on this board, won't work anymore with me. I have taken precautions on that.
Two got away with it, but won't happened again.

You, in the other hand Jojo have nothing to worry about sweetie you have built a great reputation with all the ladies you have seen, they had nothing but good things to say about you, is always a pleasure to see a gentleman like yourself.

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Specially providers like myself and several I know that aren't hurting for clients, I see who I want to see, not everyone who requests. I guess it sucks for those providers who don't take their time to do their research. Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

Yesssss! The way some of you all try to book is a whole other thread

And I'm certain that would be a very interesting thread to read. But it would probably be best posted in the powder room. I've never had a problem booking and I'm not trying to hide who I am. The only one time I was declined was because of who I had seen in the past. I prefer repeat appearances though, as the sessions usually get better the more you know each other.

. Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

Say it loud and proud or don't say it at all

Getting grumpy again ? Remember SMILING is the key, just like this do it with me

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Specially providers like myself ..... Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

What's s "specially" provider?

What's s "specially" provider? Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Typo... I meant Especially,

es·pe·cial·ly

: more than usually
—used to indicate something that deserves special mention
: for a particular purpose or person

En español:

Especialmente

NataliA,
You claim your attack on me, and let's face it that's what it is, outing personal information etc... You claim your dislike of me is because of my "insults and disrespect of you"
Just to set the record straight...

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=433

Ŵas one, here are all my posts from the threAD you had closed.

http://www.eccie.net/search.php?searchid=5269049

Not once I called you names, I only said I didn't like your nasty attitude and didn't want to see you. And you continue your nastiness weeks later. I contacted you with a peace offering and you repay me with putting my personal information online like a potty mouth outing whore. Is there another name for it? I'm not the bad guy here no matter how you spin it.