Married Clients

I have always been curious about how providers feel about seeing married clients. Ladies what are your thoughts on if your client is married or not? Originally Posted by DistinguishedGent2014

I've never thought about It. I never ask

My take?
I don't care.
In fact, I prefer it.
Logically? I'm a business-woman who is contracted to perform a particular service, within an agreed time-frame, and interrogation is not part of my services.
A cautionary side of this business is the boundaries aspect;
And some men simply to get too attached.
I have found that married men are typically more respectful (fearful? lol) of these boundaries being violated, on either end.
It's not the married ones who typically give me any issues, it's those single ones who find out that I am single... Jeesh.
To quote my favorite tricks, "This ain't Match.com."
As far as feeling towards the SO? Well, I absolve myself of any guilt with this logic- I didn't seek any philanderers out... They seek me. It would be done by my services or the next providers (or any willing barslut lol ijs) so it really doesn't matter if it is me, I'm just one of many enablers.
I do know however, that there's less danger of conflict when going the "pro" route, so in essence, I actually feel like I am less of a threat or endangerment to any SO's home-life; As I am not out to change anything in any of my clients lives, only add to.
These are separate, compartmentalized aspects of his life.
I have nothing to do with any SO, nor they I; Unless you consider that I would be alleviating them of unwanted sexual work. LOL!
(Once had a client refer to his wife as the "Ice Queen." LMAO Poor chap.)
No, I don't feel bad or guilty.

Doesnt matter to me, I treat all of my clients as if they are married. No unsolicited text or calls

Doesnt matter to me, I treat all of my clients as if they are married. No unsolicited text or calls Originally Posted by RoxyDDD

i can assure you, there are a lot of men on here that appreciate that.

Obviously wasnt so blah if u want to hear more from me. Hahahaha. Fuck off Originally Posted by 38super

Given that you seem to have run out of ideas, perhaps you should let your wife answer my question.

Ah yes Dear season,
I once worked near Telephone Road and would catch the ladies heading to the Four Palms as soon as the truck rolled out of the driveway.

Back in the day most of the "exotic dancers" aka strippers, were married.

Some hooked, some did not.

Not all people are monogamous.
If they gonna get laid, they may as well make money doing it.
Not all men are so insecure as to be concerned about somebody getting a piece off their old lady.

What difference does my marital status make when I am making a business deal.

So,
I have always been curious about how providers feel about seeing married clients. Ladies what are your thoughts on if your client is married or not? Originally Posted by DistinguishedGent2014

I don't care if you are single or married. Just like I don't think the guy should push to know whether or not the provider is married.

I also think that clients who are married pose less risk. They are the ones I would assume (key word) will be more discreet and clean because of there own situations.

The only problem I have with married clients are the ones (well only once in my case) where the guy uses his personal phone for hobbying and leaves it where his wife can read our text and then I get harassing phone calls from wifey. Ugh

This whole hobby is supposed to be about having no strings attached fun and being pleased. I don't want to think about your wife or kids lol I just want to suck and fuck you until you enter mindless bliss

Most guys pick the good looking girls to suck up to...you on the other hand...you must be a lonely fella. Seeking p say something else so this fuck boy can agree Originally Posted by 38super

I have never met seeking p, and I have pissed her off in the past. I do not thinck even sucking up to her could sway her to entertain my 1.3" of dangling death. Thus, your hypothesis of my as a fuck boy does not hold water.

Giggles

It can suck getting txt messages or phone calls on the middle of the night or unconventional times Originally Posted by cr76

even as a yung Padawan(Newbie) i knew from the start to keep the hobby phone turned off and hidden lol Thinking of getting a pet hamster an keeping my HP in the cage cause the SO Hates Rodents

Foxy NC and Kat hit the nail on the head....i mean convo is fine an cool but that info should regarded as the same importance of small talk with the cable guy asking what kind of dog u have Unless u and the provider truly become friends which is awesome but usually can trust close friends with sensitive info

Unless u and the provider truly become friends which is awesome but usually can trust close friends with sensitive info Originally Posted by maineblame

It would be a huge mistake for many reasons to attempt this, or even think you have this.

I understand the importance of anonymity Citizen but life can be a poker game where u have to read the players to call,bet or fold. Sometimes(and i'm sure u have friends) u have to bet on HUMans to be humans. If not you'd never have friends......

It would be a huge mistake for many reasons to attempt this, or even think you have this. Originally Posted by citizen44

Much like life itself there are always exceptions. Back east my regular provider and I went out to dinner, movies, etc without any exchange of $..hell sex was generally involved when we did meet.

I understand your point and as a generalization it's good advice going in but cynnical to keep IF you get to know the woman on a no BS, personal level. Treat people like they are a stat and expect the same. Respect a lady for who she is and her actions alone without making her accountable for the time someone else burned you can at the least set a better mood for the session. As always YMMV. It is a business deal whether we admit reality or not so I respect your skeptism (and "safe" position).

RoxyDDD glad you two have what seems to be a strong and trusting relationship. Just take the negatives as envy of your fortune.

Have you ever watched a man who has been married over two years pull off his ring.
If you think the ladies can not tell by your ring mark or just smell it on you, well then son you are kidding yourself.

usually can trust close friends with sensitive info Originally Posted by maineblame

I beg to differ.

Legally, the only sensitive information that is safe is that you exclusively share with personnel or companies that you have a binding NDA with.

Illegally, the only sensitive information that is safe is that you exclusively share with no-fucking-body, and which you seed your trail with enough misinformation to blur potential paths to truth.