Where Have All The Gentleman Gone?

BB, nice to see you posting! You are a model hobbyist.

Hugs,

Natasha

First of all, let me make it completely clear that I'm posting this as a hobbyist and not as a modtard.

Am I missing something? I used to be a high profile provider that was heavily involved in this community. However, many things have changed that. Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment

To be blunt, what's changed is that you are older and you don't look the same that you used to. Your attitude is more negative (or "a lot less fun") too and though you probably can't see it, you are being just as critical as the ones that you're complaining about.

I visit the board and each time I just see the same thing. Degradation. Verbal abuse. Childishness. Beautiful women/people (inside & out) being picked apart by the same men who pay for their company. Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment

So instead of just letting things degrade and get worse, why not CONTRIBUTE? Because being mousey and quiet is clearly not working for all of you sitting on the sidelines expecting something magical to happen. Your continued silence just leaves the Coed stage open to the blowhards. And they don't have any problem stepping up and using it. They are blowhards, after all...

(And why the fuck can't you people IGNORE the people you don't like instead of getting your feelings hurt?)

I used to subject myself to this place and wonder why I continued to come back to a place that made me feel terrible about myself. Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment

Easy money is a powerful incentive....

WHERE are THE RESPECTFUL kind gentlemen that actually like women? Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment

The same place the respectful and kind women who like men are... posting and perusing Provider Ads and The Weekend Lineup and getting their next dates lined up instead of complaining (or being quiet.) If you like-minded men and women would post, you'd have plenty of respectful company.

z

"To be blunt, what's changed is that you are older and you don't look the same that you used to. Your attitude is more negative (or "a lot less fun") too and though you probably can't see it, you are being just as critical as the ones that you're complaining about."


And you think you are contributing something positive by your comments above? You are trying to tell me what's changed is my age and my looks? That that is the reason there is less gentlemen on the board? Excuse me, but you don't know my life! I don't have time to provide. You don't see me/us on here a of the time. Btw, I haven't seen you in a while. I look fantastic!

No disrespect to the moderator, of course.

mercury is rising! maybe face down and ass-up or flat on your back would give you a few extra coins and a different perspective.

If you want respect give respect. Seems like all that women care about these days is what men can do for them or what men can give them. When you're in it just for the money, what do you expect! Originally Posted by plow44

Here's something you should try to come to grips with: ALL the women in this business are in it for the money. Are you sure you know where you are? Show me a provider who is in this business for something OTHER than money and i'll show you a provider who won't be in the business very long.

Being in it "just for the money" in NO way makes providers undeserving of respect. What respect are providers supposed to "give" in order to "earn" respect of misogynists? Some providers may earn a reputation for bad TCB, or frequent NCNS, and some hobbyists may interpret that behavior as showing disrespect for hobbyists (or men in general). But that's really about nothing more than their lack of business acumen. It doesn't make them undeserving of basic human decency.

Let us keep in mind that the board is not even close to any accurate gauge or depiction of who the actual gentlemen are.

It has been stated over and over again by many providers that the forum A-holes are often perfect gentlemen and great guys upon meeting in person just as the sweet posters often end up with alerts posted about them.

OP under your last handle you yourself stated that you considered Whispers a wonderful guy and friend off board yet few here would refer to him as a gentleman on the board.

I take nothing about the board seriously or personally because it's 100% alias BS banter and fantasy entertainment.

Regardless of what any of us feel about the Whispers, SL or even RR board personas, in all these years I've yet to see one single alert posted on any of them.

Almost every time a provider or monger posts about their RW encounters with these individuals it's in a positive light.

I am not suddenly turning pro Stooge on the board but I am keeping things in perspective.

Being a gentlemanly poster doesn't amount to shit once he steps inside your incall.

well then nancy- you missed the the double meaning, but I will add that generally those who cry the loudest usually cry and do the least! i'am tired of women complaining about every little thing that bothers them. I would prescribe to buck-up and and do their job! if they have one, or do what they promise. 100,000 battered women all with black eyes have 1 thing in common, THEY DO NOT LISTEN!

100,000 battered women all with black eyes have 1 thing in common, THEY DO NOT LISTEN! Originally Posted by plow44

WAIT A GOTTDAMM MINUET, MR. GREG HARDY!!!!

Mebbe a few don't lissen, butt ...

Sum o' them cain't cook.

An' tha rest, most o' them, really; they jus' don't know how ta handle a gun.

You can't make everybody happy all the time. So just do what you want to do. In the corporate world I had to put up with obnoxious behavior. That's what I love about the hobby world. I don't have to put up with it. If I don't want to see someone - I don't have to and if someone doesn't want to see me they don't have to either. Really, this job is heaven for me compared to supervising and managing people in a corporation.

yea i agree about the ignore button, it is the way to go. it has saved my ability to be here and enjoy the boards. I do try to make positive posts and think of topics that create discussion. I try to make coed the sort of environment i want to hang out in. We need to create a positive open and friendly place for both sexes to interact and have fun. I will continue to make topics and posts about things here and stay positive because that is what I want coed to be. I won't reply to insults or direct attacks from the haters because the rest of you know me and what sort of character I have and what sort of excellent service i provide If we totally ignore the haters and all put them in ignore they would not get the attention they so desperately desire. My coed time is so much more fun now that i use the ignore feature.

I'am ironically mooning the feminine haters!

I think I may have been a Gentleman until I joined the Hobby ... now I am just a NUTter ..

Oh girls, you know they are here and come see us regularly, the real gentlemen do not feel the need to belittle women or put people down or bully people to make themselves feel like a big shot. Most of the Eccie guys i see say they do not participate on the board and just read reviews and look at showcases.I know their are plenty of gentlemen on eccie and the few loud bad apples being hateful and ugly are not representative of the fellas who actually grace our doorways and become regulars. there are trolls on any board and our trolls are just vociferous and into showing off for each other. once I put the boors on ignore my eccie experience become oh so much more enjoyable. Originally Posted by sue_nami

Gentleman checking in...

Stay strong ladies! 😀

The same place the respectful and kind women who like men are... posting and perusing Provider Ads and The Weekend Lineup and getting their next dates lined up instead of complaining (or being quiet.) If you like-minded men and women would post, you'd have plenty of respectful company.

z Originally Posted by ztonk

This is bullshit and you know it. The board will never again be a place for respectful company. That is impossible with the number of low self esteem, hate mongers whose daily obsession is centered around finding the next person they can anonymously antagonize and destroy.

BB, nice to see you posting! You are a model hobbyist. Originally Posted by VenusEntertainment

Ah thinck Ah'm a model hobbyist, if'n by "model" yew mean thet Ah'm an unner-sized replica o' tha real thang.