Wasted Afternoon On Cristi Cutiepie

well there it is... she needs to be understood and not bashed. ( situations out of her control)
Christie.. thanks for responding and I am hoping you feel better soon. I am so sorry about the ex thing, very scary and understandable.
If you need anything let me know I am here for ya.
Now I am hoping this can put to rest and all get along. lol

kisses christie.. and a big hug.

so AFTER reading all this, yes I will say, I canceled, for the exact reason of having to go write down my statement for the municipal court, so the warrent could go through for my ex's arrest. It couldn't wait an hour either.
I'm really kind of irritated though because DAMN! I am only one girl, and I have never met you before, who is to say that you wouldn't come force me against my will if I brought up canceling or rescheduling ??? In this business, it is my belief that when dealing with strangers personal safety comes first. Pepper spray and maybe a tazer-gun are on my birthday wish list but I have none yet. So I'm on my own as of right now- and after having to already file a PA charge- I know I really need to get on that QUICK! I am a very petite girl so there is not much damage I could possibly do on my own.

But yes I understand it was frustrating for you and I put myself in your shoes, but no offense, if you moved on or left in any way, I wouldn't of been hurt or any way offended, so why did you stay? In this business I always think, hobbyist are expected to have a backup on call, I mean us as women could have many things come up, the first being the obvious, we are women we get periods and we cannot control when we get them. I have had to reschedule due to that exact reason and at first it was so embarrassing that I made up some other excuse. Second unlike you gentleman, I like to be completely fresh and cleaned up before being with someone, even if it is just playing, I cant just let one guy leave and the other come 5 mins later, GROSS! yeah I prefer to shower rinse scrub change outfits and sheets before meeting someone again. I just cant be comfortable or settled unless I have time to refresh

and yes I do have a personal life that I am trying so hard to keep out of this business. I have always respected privacy and discreetness from the very first minute i stepped into this lifestyl, so can you please do the same for me??

thx MsLove, I kinda started tearing up a bit as I was writting this because it feels like I just cant catch a break. I try so hard really I do but things happen, and life is not perfect so I learn to take what I get and not throw a fit. Thx you made me feel a little less attacked, I will be fine and plan on playing today as soon as I start getting ready but I would like to be more understood . Thanks

@Brittany I hear ya! I usually don't waste my time posting about stuff like this because it makes me no money and I spend about a third of my day answering dead end emails that I don't have anytime for stuff like this but fuck it here I go.....Uparoundnoon I am sorry that a provider did this to you. Maybe it was a simple mistake or maybe she is one of the few proivders that gives us a bad name. Either way my vitriolic rant is not aimed towards you, rather at golfnwine. I personally don't care what hate mail I receive from the statements I am about to make because Eccie generally brings me nothing but headaches when it comes to possible clients. Those who want to only send me "wow your how whats up?" PLEASE.....Instantly DELETED!!! Let me tell you something sir....WE ARE NOT LIFER'S !!! I DO NOT GET UP AT 8AM TO THROW ON MY MAKEUP AND PUT ON 6 INCH HEELS THEN JUMP ON MY COUCH WITH MY "BUSINESS" PHONE AND WAIT FOR YOU TO CALL AND REQUIRE THAT I BE AVAILABLE FOR YOU IN 30 MINUTES!!!! I have two full time jobs and I am finishing by BA. My life is non of your concern just like your's is non of mine (one of the reasons you pay me) We all know why we are here. Lets stop calling it a hobby first of all, that is where the confusion begins. While you consider it a hobby, we providers consider it a stressful job, so you see it as no problem no cancel or nsnc and we see it as a bad customer. I run a tight ship. I play NO games. If you want to see me I will require references, work info or whatever else I feel necessary before I allow you to come over and invade me body. Yes thats graphic but I don't care. You think $300 is big? Please. I spend countless hours interrupting my normal life and priorities to appease wierdos that will never even pass my checkpoint. Rude call late a night asking if I can hook up drugs and come over,,,get fucked. Emails just to annoy me and never set an appointment. I even told one guy email me your references like my ad states and he said (in a too hard to understand accent) "So like you want me to send you my name and what time?" NO IDIOT.....CLICK. If guys would take their dick out of their hands while looking at a provider ad and actually READ directions at lot of the bs could be eliminated. Now for you guys like uparoundnoon, I am truly sorry that happened. For as much shit as I just talked I can say that I NEVER make my gentlemen wait..I ALWAYS look amazing and I NEVER ncns an appointment. I VALUE those clients that give me advance notice and the fact that you even bought a gift for her speaks volumes. You are not the typical client and you should be respected much more than that, I would have been outraged as well. But as far as thinking the world revolves around us.....fuck it, it does when you don't give me 24 hr advance notice to ensure I don't have to disrupt my day!!! I'll say it. But if you respect me the way I will you then we will not have any issues. You make me happy and I'll do the same in return. The truth is the so called "business" is much harder on the lady. You guys picture a fat old smelly woman calling you 24/7 wanting you to go down on her and you must wear those specific thongs and heels while you do. You must be able to see her in 30 minutes and she reeks of ashtray and pepperoni, she looks you up and down when you answer the door as if she is trying to find something wrong with you. She then wants to over stay her welcome and degrade you if you glance at the clock after her time is up. Then she tries to shortchange you or worse yet, stiff you completely. You REALLY think you would be so pleasant? NO!!!

@Brittany I hear ya! I usually don't waste my time posting about stuff like this because it makes me no money and I spend about a third of my day answering dead end emails that I don't have anytime for stuff like this but fuck it here I go.....Uparoundnoon I am sorry that a provider did this to you. Maybe it was a simple mistake or maybe she is one of the few proivders that gives us a bad name. Either way my vitriolic rant is not aimed towards you, rather at golfnwine. I personally don't care what hate mail I receive from the statements I am about to make because Eccie generally brings me nothing but headaches when it comes to possible clients. Those who want to only send me "wow your how whats up?" PLEASE.....Instantly DELETED!!! Let me tell you something sir....WE ARE NOT LIFER'S !!! I DO NOT GET UP AT 8AM TO THROW ON MY MAKEUP AND PUT ON 6 INCH HEELS THEN JUMP ON MY COUCH WITH MY "BUSINESS" PHONE AND WAIT FOR YOU TO CALL AND REQUIRE THAT I BE AVAILABLE FOR YOU IN 30 MINUTES!!!! I have two full time jobs and I am finishing by BA. My life is non of your concern just like your's is non of mine (one of the reasons you pay me) We all know why we are here. Lets stop calling it a hobby first of all, that is where the confusion begins. While you consider it a hobby, we providers consider it a stressful job, so you see it as no problem no cancel or nsnc and we see it as a bad customer. I run a tight ship. I play NO games. If you want to see me I will require references, work info or whatever else I feel necessary before I allow you to come over and invade me body. Yes thats graphic but I don't care. You think $300 is big? Please. I spend countless hours interrupting my normal life and priorities to appease wierdos that will never even pass my checkpoint. Rude call late a night asking if I can hook up drugs and come over,,,get fucked. Emails just to annoy me and never set an appointment. I even told one guy email me your references like my ad states and he said (in a too hard to understand accent) "So like you want me to send you my name and what time?" NO IDIOT.....CLICK. If guys would take their dick out of their hands while looking at a provider ad and actually READ directions at lot of the bs could be eliminated. Now for you guys like uparoundnoon, I am truly sorry that happened. For as much shit as I just talked I can say that I NEVER make my gentlemen wait..I ALWAYS look amazing and I NEVER ncns an appointment. I VALUE those clients that give me advance notice and the fact that you even bought a gift for her speaks volumes. You are not the typical client and you should be respected much more than that, I would have been outraged as well. But as far as thinking the world revolves around us.....fuck it, it does when you don't give me 24 hr advance notice to ensure I don't have to disrupt my day!!! I'll say it. But if you respect me the way I will you then we will not have any issues. You make me happy and I'll do the same in return. The truth is the so called "business" is much harder on the lady. You guys picture a fat old smelly woman calling you 24/7 wanting you to go down on her and you must wear those specific thongs and heels while you do. You must be able to see her in 30 minutes and she reeks of ashtray and pepperoni, she looks you up and down when you answer the door as if she is trying to find something wrong with you. She then wants to over stay her welcome and degrade you if you glance at the clock after her time is up. Then she tries to shortchange you or worse yet, stiff you completely. You REALLY think you would be so pleasant? NO!!! Originally Posted by Gabriella Golden

OMFG AMEN!!!!!!!!! COULDN'T OF SAID IT BETTER

ONE LAST THING I HAVE TO ADD: YOU WANT A GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE?? I KNOW AS A GIRLFRIEND I SOMETIMES TAKE FOREVER TO GET READY AND I DON;T ALWAYS WANT TO GIVE IT UP, AND MOST OF THE TIME MAKE MY BOYFRIEND WORK FOR IT. SO THAT WOULD TRUELY BE THE REAL GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE, BUT IF YOU DONT WANT TO DO THAT, JUST STICK TO THE PORN STAR EXPERIENCE AND ILL FUCK YOUR BRAINS OUT AND CARE LESS ABOUT BEING SWEET OR FRESH ..

P.S. THIS IS MORE OF A JOKE AND ME BLOWING OFF STEAM AND NOT MEANT TO BE TAKEN TOO SERIOUSLY

CC writes "so AFTER reading all this, yes I will say, I canceled, for the exact reason of having to go write down my statement for the municipal court, so the warrent could go through for my ex's arrest. It couldn't wait an hour either."

So then why did you make the appointment? Relax Cristi no one is attacking you. I merely told of my experience and said you were inconsiderate which you were. You didn't "cancel" on me which would have been fine. You just completely ignored me after sending me 4 texts within the half hour that it would be fine for me to come at 1:30 and then directions to your place. As far as not leaving how was I supposed to know TO LEAVE. I just thought you were running late with another customer which it sounds like you were. You could have just sent me a text saying "Sorry can't make it" and I would have happily departed.

CC writes "I'm really kind of irritated though because DAMN! I am only one girl, and I have never met you before, who is to say that you wouldn't come force me against my will if I brought up canceling or rescheduling ??? "

That's pretty dramatic. Like I'm going to rape you for rescheduling? You and I both know I didn't even know what apartment you were in out of 20 or 30 buildings in that complex. I'm sorry you had an awful experience but to bring all that up and suggest I might attack you for canceling leads me to believe that you are looking for sympathy to turn the tables around as an excuse for you being inconsiderate and make me look like a bad guy. I didn't have to take 6 years of psychology to see that clearly.

And I guess now you are even changing your excuse to say you didn't have time to freshen up. Well which is it? Again if that was the case you could have texted. But after giving me directions there was NOTHING. Make all the excuses you want or try to make me look bad because I guess you can't just apologize and let it go. Jeez at this point I could care less but please don't be so childish as to try to turn this around and make me look bad. The only thing I did wrong is try to go see an escort and if that is messed up then we are ALL messed up.

I generally tend to avoid contributing to these types of discussions (the backlash can be detrimental). I do however, enjoy reading the comments / banter, its quite entertaining.

Like it or not, this is a topic of discussion that comes up all too often. I would venture to say that its not even brought to the forefront as often as it occurs. With that being said, the purpose for which we gents use this forum is to share information we feel is pertinent, and more often than not RANT (whether it be good or bad). The coed section of the forum in particular should be used to bring these types issues to forefront and allow all parties involved to amicably solve their differences (IMHO). Its these types of discussions that help me to determine the true personality of a man / woman.

I will agree that not everybody is perfect and nothing in this world is perfect. We've all got hang-ups. We should all be RESPECTFUL of one another, and our time is what should require the most respect above all else. Money comes and goes, but lost time can never be retrieved!

~ D

I'm editing my response....

I disagree that the OP posted this within 24 hours. Though I do believe it is warranted after a reasonable amount of time has elapsed. I agree that CC should have contacted @UP to cancel versus no communication.

Providers have had similar situations, including myself, however; usually wait a reasonable amount of time to be contacted from the Hobbyist.

@UP - I am sorry that CC could not accommodate you at your scheduled time. Truth is - most reviews say she is worth the wait, that is under different circumstances.

I am equally sorry to @CristieCutipie that she was unable to communicate to you due to a very rough and traumatic 72 hours that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

The truth is this - Shit happens in RW and the hobby is no exception. We are all going to have an encounter with another that may not be one that we so desired. When a hobbyist finds a provider that delivers what he desires than it's the ideal companion to have. When a provider has a hobbyists that is groomed, clean, arrives on time and pays the proper donation - Jackpot!

For all the time that we all took reading and responding to this (me included) we could of been making new friends and making whoppie! It's time to move on already!

I am so sick of hearing how tough it is to be a provider every time this type of NCNS is brought up. If it is so fucking difficult get out of the business and find a real world job.

Charlie, you are making excuses for CC's actions that don't jive with what she has posted. Assuming that what she said is true there is absolutely no reason she could not have taken the 60 seconds necessary to text UP a note canceling the appointment. I find it hard to believe that this "statement" came up at the very last minute and she had to drop everything and head down to the court house but that is her story.

Gabriella, you sound like a bitter provider that hates her chosen profession. If it is so bad get another job.

Every job has it's negatives. I've had to deal with people that I thought were clueless, demanding, idiots but they were the ones paying me. I may bitch and moan about them to my circle of friends and confidants but I would never stand in the middle of their office and whine about how fucking shitty they were.

CC made a poor business decision to NCNS. It may be because she had other issues to deal with but a call or text was certainly warranted. It may cost her some business or it may not. I have read nothing but good reviews about her and actually tried to schedule w/ her once but it didn't work out. I'm sure she will continue to have callers and I hope that the next time she has to cancel she makes a call.

I could sit here and whine about how tough it is to be a hobbyist and how my RW life is extremely difficult but nobody gives a shit. We all have issues that come up that make us change our plans but when that happens we need to keep in mind how that affects others. If you have to cancel an appointment then let the other party know about it. Ignoring the person only makes it worse.

I could sit here and whine about how tough it is to be a hobbyist and how my RW life is extremely difficult but nobody gives a shit. We all have issues that come up that make us change our plans but when that happens we need to keep in mind how that affects others. If you have to cancel an appointment then let the other party know about it. Ignoring the person only makes it worse. Originally Posted by Budman

@BUD - Please don't misread that I am making excuses for CC. I wholeheartly believe that business affairs should be handled professionally. She should not only of communicated with him via telephone but also contacted him asap to cancel. My rant was that it should of been considered BCD between the parties versus getting the whole board involved on a situation between the two. If an alert is warranted then is should be after a respectful amount of time, not 24hours.

@Hobbyists - I am sorry for all the girls that you visit both here and on BP that don't deliver GFE services, that aren't like their pictures, that take your money, that call or text you when it's not ok, that are ymmv..... etc.... but guess what - there are so many that DO! Originally Posted by Ch@rlie

Being a hobbyist has it's downsides as well. Thus, my apologies to them earlier as well. From NCNS, bait-n-switches etc. I'm not saying it's easy for either party... I just believe that respect should exist across the board for all.

Hope this thread isn't setting the tone for the hobby in 2011. Enough said time to move on.

Charlie, I disagree that it should have been kept private. If these things are never brought up then there is no reason for the guilty party to change their behavior. I don't think it is a capital offense but it is good information to have. It may save the next client from having to deal with the same situation. NCNS are very frustrating for both hobbyist and providers. All of us need to keep in mind that canceling is not a problem but not letting the other person know is. We all know that shit comes up but to leave the other person hanging is unacceptable.

Budman, I agree...being inconsiderate isn't a good excuse. And, I learned through one of the moderators, that the Coed forum is the proper place to post this type of thread. This forum gives the provider the opportunity to post her side of the story...and allow everyone to come to their own conclusion.

Up, now that CC has posted...I am sorry that you wasted your afternoon, but the amount of time you decided to wait is above and beyond what most hobbyists would have waited. You sir...are longsuffering! (lol) Better luck next time!

NOT TRYING TO GET ATTENTION OR BE DRAMATIC- I HAVE ENOUGH ATTENTION AND I DON'T LIKE TO BE DRAMATIC, I HAVE ENOUGH ATTENTION JUST FROM BEING ME, HAVING GOOD REVIEWS WITH ALL RECOMMENDATIONS, AND HAVING GOOD NECKBREAKING PICTURES. AND I AM NOT DRAMATIC AT ALL, I LIKE TO BE RELAXED AND RESERVED , ANY OF THE GENTLEMAN WHO HAVE MET ME WILL AGREE - BUT I AM CAUTIOUS AND WAS JUST BRINGING THAT UP TO POINT OUT SOMETHING YOU MIGHT OF NOT REALIZED - BECAUSE IT DOES HAPPEN MORE THEN YOU THINK.

I AM SORRY THAT I DID NOT CONTACT YOU TO LET YOU KNOW I COULD NO LONGER PLAY. I REALLY WISH I HAD DONE SO AND IF I COULD TURN BACK TIME I WOULD OF MADE MORE OF AN EFFORT TO LET YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED RIGHT THEN AND THERE. I JUST GOT EXCITED AND CAUGHT UP WHEN I WAS CONTACTED BY THE LADY FROM FAMILY VIOLENCE DEPT. SHE SAID IT WAS VERY IMPORTANT THAT I COME RIGHT AWAY TO WRITE DOWN MY STATEMENT BECAUSE THE CASE WAS ALREADY IN MUNICIPAL COURT AND I WAS ALREADY SUPPOSED TO HAVE MY STATEMENT WRITTEN DOWN BUT THE COPS TOTALLY SLACKED AND DIDN'T HAVE IT DONE WHEN THEY FIRST CAME TO RESPOND TO THE INCIDENT WHEN IT HAPPENED. SO THIS BEING SO IMPORTANT TO ME, I DROPPED EVERYTHING AND FOCUSED ON COMMUNICATING WITH THE LADY FROM F.V. DEPT AND GETTING TO THE POLICE STATION ASAP. IM REALLY REALLY SORRY I IGNORED YOU FOR IT, IF I HAD JUST MAYBE LOOKED AT MY HOBBY PHONE ONCE I WOULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING BACK BUT I DIDNT AND IM SORRY .


TO ALL MY OTHER HOBBYIST READING THIS: AND IM SURE THERE ARE A FEW LURKERS LOL

IM SORRY I HAVE NOT BEEN EASY TO GET A HOLD OF, I NEVER INTENDED TO BECOME SO CELEBRITY LIKE AND DO NOT LIKE HAVING TIME TAKEN AWAY FROM GETTING TO KNOW NEW GENTLEMAN OR BREAKING IN FUN NEWBIES TO THIS AMAZING FUN LIFESTYLE

THIS HAS BEEN A TOUGH WEEK FOR ME, EVEN MONTH. ACTUALLY COMING BACK TO THE HOBBY HAS NOT BEEN AS EASY FOR ME AS I HAD HOPED, AND NOT AT ALL BECAUSE OF ANYONE INVOLVED IN THE HOBBY BUT MORE SO BECAUSE OF PERSONAL DRAMA FROM THOSE WHO KNOW ME OUTSIDE OF HERE. I HAVE MOVED 4 TIMES IN THE PAST MONTH AND JUST FINALLY GOT SETTLED TO A PLACE I CAN ACTUALLY CALL HOME AND KNOW I AM SAFE AT. ITS HARD BEING A YOUNG ATTRACTIVE GIRL, BUT I KEEP ON AND STAY STRONG.

NOW ONE LAST EXPLANATION (NOT EXCUSE) THE DENTAL WORK I AM HAVING DONE IS PRETTY MAJOR BUT NECESSARY AND HALFWAY DONE. THIS PAST MONDAY, I JUST HAD SOME PRETTY MAJOR AND PAINFUL ORAL SURGERY DONE
AND FINALLY FEELING BETTER BUT IM STILL IN QUITE SOME PAIN AND UNCOMFORT, BUT I AM PUTTING ALL THAT ASIDE STARTING TODAY WILL BE PLAYING AGAIN. IM ACTUALLY AT MY INCALL NOW AS I WRITE ALL THIS.

SO LETS PUT ALL THIS REST, BOTH ME AND MY CLIENT HAVE SAID OUR PARTS AND I DON'T THINK THERES ANY MORE ENTERTAINMENT LEFT FOR OUR LURKERS,
BUT I AM CURRENTLY DOLLED UP IN SOME CUTE BLACK LACED TOP FISHNETS, BLACK HEELS, BLACK LACE PANTYS AND BLACK PUSH UP BRA WITH PINK TRIM AND KEEPING WARM WRAPPED UP IN A SILK BLACK MINI ROBE FROM VICTORIAS SECRET - love that place! SO INSTEAD OF STARING AT THE COMPUTER SCREEN COME STARE INTO MY EYES AND PLACE YOURSELF SOMEWHERE WARM AND TIGHT.