The ladies should be able to review the guys

I do not want to review any clients {unless they wanted me to, but really still not even} because ... they do not exist.
This isn't real, and every appointment never happened.
Our safety is the most important concern - for both Escorts and their Gentlemen - I'd only report dangerous activity.
That's me - but I'd love to read what other Escorts have to share!

...As far as reviewing hobbyists goes, I'd rather not. I'm getting paid for discretion and privacy. There is the alert section, info share (other websites) to report horrible clients. Originally Posted by anita

On Point Mamacita xoxo

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This is part of what I enjoy about this line of work--feeling appreciated... Originally Posted by PiperPosh

I can say that I agree with that, and I think all people like to feel appreciated for the work they do.
This is more than just work though, this is very much more, so the appreciation if for more than just a "job" as far as GFE is concerned, is possibly as valuable as the tangible payment/donation.

...I know this site has the reputation of being more monger friendly than provider friendly, but allowing reviews of mongers could be an advantage to them by making the screening process quicker. Originally Posted by tandyscone

VERY GOOD IDEA, SMART!

I thought that all of the Provider Only sections of sites were a way for them to share all of the juicy dirt about us? Only difference is it's not available as public knowledge, and we are all thankful for that Originally Posted by lovergrrl

It is mostly tips and how-to type of stuff, but I assume Pimps have access to the entire site, so I'm sure guys have figured out ways to see it as well.

...considering the following:

Proxy Servers(create new handles when wanted)
Google Numbers (change when wanted)
Email Addresses ( Change when wanted)
Smart people don't use real first and last names.
Never have an out-call to home address

D-bags can continue on just as the girls who post fake pictures of themselves for business..... Originally Posted by myg0t.tron

This is true, so in response I have to say that when it comes to "bad seeds" in the Hobby community the most prevention is needed.
To me, I think it is even more important to also learn about the behaviors to watch out for, the sketchy patterns and areas, how can we Ladies avoid unavoidable trouble better.
For the guys who are safe, maybe they can move up faster on being accepted to be seen because of good remarks.

Good job. Very well written and informative

I do not want to review any clients {unless they wanted me to, but really still not even} because ... they do not exist.
This isn't real, and every appointment never happened.
Our safety is the most important concern - for both Escorts and their Gentlemen - I'd only report dangerous activity.
That's me - but I'd love to read what other Escorts have to share!



On Point Mamacita xoxo



I can say that I agree with that, and I think all people like to feel appreciated for the work they do.
This is more than just work though, this is very much more, so the appreciation if for more than just a "job" as far as GFE is concerned, is possibly as valuable as the tangible payment/donation.



VERY GOOD IDEA, SMART!



It is mostly tips and how-to type of stuff, but I assume Pimps have access to the entire site, so I'm sure guys have figured out ways to see it as well.



This is true, so in response I have to say that when it comes to "bad seeds" in the Hobby community the most prevention is needed.
To me, I think it is even more important to also learn about the behaviors to watch out for, the sketchy patterns and areas, how can we Ladies avoid unavoidable trouble better.
For the guys who are safe, maybe they can move up faster on being accepted to be seen because of good remarks. Originally Posted by Gorgeous_Boriqua

This is true, so in response I have to say that when it comes to "bad seeds" in the Hobby community the most prevention is needed.
To me, I think it is even more important to also learn about the behaviors to watch out for, the sketchy patterns and areas, how can we Ladies avoid unavoidable trouble better.
For the guys who are safe, maybe they can move up faster on being accepted to be seen because of good remarks. Originally Posted by Gorgeous_Boriqua

I imagine a guy's demeanor on this site accounts for something. Regularly posting insulting things towards the ladies here doesn't go unnoticed. Some members here post all the screening info a lady will need.

mygot.tron is right, there are many insulation layers here which can mask us for good and bad. But if you stand by your profile as a regular, then why not have feedback logged to your online persona? To be honest I think it would be a riot to see what providers think of us. I'm sure some egos would need nursing (which a provider can do for a fee Bottom line, treat people how you would like to be treated!

Reviewing hobbyists is the most silly idea i heard: it is like a restaurant reviewing customers instead of customers reviewing the restaurant.

Just in case....Ladies I'm an 11 out of 10....just sayin

I'm also an 11 of 10 but inches LOL

If you girls start doing reviews LOL.

mygot.tron is right, there are many insulation layers here which can mask us for good and bad. But if you stand by your profile as a regular, then why not have feedback logged to your online persona? To be honest I think it would be a riot to see what providers think of us. I'm sure some egos would need nursing (which a provider can do for a fee Bottom line, treat people how you would like to be treated! Originally Posted by ajlybj

The question comes up a lot. It always gets the same reaction: a few of us say, "Sure. It would be an interesting read and I am sure I would get some useful feedback." But there are too many guys on here who have some significant self-confidence issues and feel threatened. I really, really doubt it will happen.

Hell, look at the recent conversation in the main forum where guys got uncomfortable with a lady reviewing other ladies! If they can find excuses to gag female hobbyists you know full well they will hide behind "tradition" and make Augusta Country Club look like feminists.

[QUOTE=PiperPosh;1057916783]I still feel like my pussy is my pride.

If you take pride in your body then why would you want to sell it, why not be like millions of other women and get a job. I am not being a smart ass, but most people that sell their body just don't want to physically work, they just want the quick buck!

and lots of reasons, money is one, but please don't try to discourage any of the lovely ladies that provide so much pleasure to so many of us!

I reviewed a place I ate once.
I don't remember them reviewing me.

You sell pussy we don't sell our dick.

Pay me to fuck and you can review me. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Agreed!

The point I'm trying to make here is: Pussy is not just a commodity. It is the seat of all human life, it is important.
Just being male doesn't mean you're entitled to sex.
Wanting it is fine, but it is also good to appreciate the things we want, no? And appreciate having them, when we can. Originally Posted by PiperPosh

I'm not following your logic. I don't feel entitled to sex nor do I have to pay for it. When my car is dirty and I don't feel like washing it, I research to find a good car wash and pay them for their services to wash my car. If they do a good job, I write a good review. If they do a bad job, I write a review detailing the poor job.

Your not giving favors, you're offering a service for which you are charging a fee. Whether the service you provide is bad or good, you will be reviewed. As business women, you should know and understand the cost of doing business. Just like any other business, customers will review you. I'm a great person to know and help my regulars on a personal level whenever they need assistance but as a customer, I don't care to be reviewed.

As others have stated, report the bad ones and keep it moving.

That might get you banned if it outs the guy. Originally Posted by cowboy8055

If a guy is dangerous, threatening, or crazy...He should be outed at least to the providers who could end up in a room alone with him. Aren't we supposed to all look out for each other?

This lifestyle is not for the faint of heart. We are all adults. In a way, our connection to this lifestyle makes us our own community. We should all be doing all we can to protect our community. This isn't just against LEO, it is also against those who make our community unsafe because of disease, harmful actions, and such.

Yes there needs to be limits to what can be reported. It shouldn't be a matter of judgement about someone else. Not everyone is going to have the chemistry to match up as a hobbyist and provider. How boring would that be?

The hardest part is going to be him not just changing email, phone, and getting a new screen name. In reality, there is no way to warn each other if someone is truly dangerous. It is to easy to get a new identity online.

Guess I just answered my own remark. Sad what this world has come to. Why can't we just go back to the days when providers could do their thing and no one messed with us. (Okay so I am dreaming about the 1800's wild west and wouldn't want to give up the technology.)

Hell, look at the recent conversation in the main forum where guys got uncomfortable with a lady reviewing other ladies! If they can find excuses to gag female hobbyists you know full well they will hide behind "tradition" and make Augusta Country Club look like feminists.[/I][/COLOR] Originally Posted by Old-T

Amen!

Anything here that even suggests stepping out of their nice little traditional roles is deemed a threat and unacceptable. Sad, really and very self limiting.

The male EGO is pretty fragile when it comes to intimacy. It's why hobbyists have stated things like "providers are not real". Hey, I'm just pointing this out and it doesn't mean all men have this issue. It is what it is.

I used to be an over Ego stroker, but it just tends to perpetuate false ideas and sort of helps gents stay stuck in the dark ages concerning our roles in this world. I can still stroke an Ego like nobody's biz, and everyone has at least one good quality even if they don't show it to me, but I try hard to limit my stroking to that which deserves being stroked.

And, I agree with Piper Posh's attitude concerning gratitude for that which you guys seem to seek 24/7, yet gripe not only when ya don't get it, but even when ya get it and it's good, or even great. LOL Nothing says DB, like a guy who reviews a lady, brags about his multi-pops and prowess, then gives a NO, because of something stupid, like she had a hair out of place. (Yes, that was a little sarcastic, but DBs don't always keep it real either. LOL)

A gentleman earlier referred to reviewing restaurants. No one wishes to make an effort to wait on the table of a guest in a restaurant that has been known to be an a**hat to other staff, even if they tipped well. They dread it and will even try to bribe another staff member to take their table. Believe it or not, that and similar things occur. Restaurants may not review their patrons, but they still have their own way of dealing with folks who are unpleasant. This includes telling all the other staff members just exactly why that guest was an a**hat. ijs

As far as reviewing gents, I believe, just as I believe for reviews of ladies. Intimate details between two parties are just that. Between the two parties. It's fine to give accurate details, and services one can expect, and then have a "limited" comment section for issues or extra details either party may have found undesirable or above and beyond the expected or acceptable. All the other stuff is just fluff and subjective to individual perception and memory. And, while I am grateful to have a place to put my ads, a tiny more equality would be nice. Men have the ISO to place an ad, but ladies do not have a way to say, "Offer some mouth wash or a shower, otherwise the gent was awesome!" I practically swear the ladies to secrecy and send over documents of do not disclose, because I don't want to hurt a gent's feelings or even become the target of unwarranted attacks, because I was trying to help another lady out and don't want them pissed at me either, because I didn't tell them enough to make what they felt was an informed decision. Safety is the most important issue when deciding to see a gent, but it is by far not the only thing we might use to decide for ourselves who we wish to see and who we don't.