Kayla, about these references how do I go about procuring them? I've only ever seen 1 provider and she wasn't from Rochester.
Also, hi. Lovely pics.
Originally Posted by RadWater
I know this is addresssed to kayla, and i am not AA, but when i started hobbying, i lacked references. For one provider, i actually did a no-sex date in a public setting, so they could meet me, and see i am not an asshole, or LE, or a druggie, and next date was a sex date. From there, i had a reference.
Also, in my prior handle, i participated in the forum a lot, and was able to establish a decent rep, and i was able to see ladies, who would not see me when i first started.
I think ur off to great start.
My advice for the hobby, 1) dont be an asshole, 2) realize this is a recreation hobby and treat it as such, 3) when you go to an incall, especially for the first time, leave all ur possesions, wallet, id, extra money locked in glove compartment in your car. just go in with clothes, donation, and maybe phone if you need it to text your way in past a gate 4) get a hobby phone 5) signs of abuse or drug use, never go back, do not need that, and 6) from jok, not meant as derogatory, hookers are like buses, if you miss one, the next one will be here in 15 minutes. 7) forgot one , part of dont be an asshole, dont push a provider to something out of her comfort zone, if you are extra kinky, you will eventually find a provider to meet your needs, every provider has a different comfort level, it should be respected
If you do well, some providers can be good for long dates, and increased gfe experiences. Some providers can open doors to other utr providers, and poly or party experiences. Also menus can open up with some providers when the become more comfortable with you.
Take care and stay safe