Thoughts on social/public-time only dates.

I flew all day...alcohol only. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Right, meeting Val in Nashville tomorrow lol

To the OP, I've tried social outings (public dates) but it always ends up in him getting turned on and asking to go into a private engagement (for pay of course). They always wanna do me afterwards :/ I no longer have it listed on my site as something i offer. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Can't blame'em, especially if you show up in that shirt in your avatar!

Right, meeting Val in Nashville tomorrow lol Originally Posted by discreetgent

Darn you!

Darn you! Originally Posted by London Rayne

~VISITING NASHVILLE JAN. 18-22~

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?p=939991#post939991

Duh lol. I am just flattered you remembered, and without a bj.

If I had a bj while reading it I might have forgotten

If I had a bj while reading it I might have forgotten Originally Posted by discreetgent

Two heads, but only enough blood pressure to run one at a time.

I guess my answer is going to be a lot like Chev's...it depends.

If I needed a companion for an event, and that companionship was to be "no BCD time"...then I would still certainly expect to front a fee for the time spent.

OTOH, if I were just doing a "I want to meet you" event...where I was buying her a few drinks, or maybe a nice dinner, and she charged me for such an event?...I'd probably pass.

I don't mind helping a lady out who's having some financial woes...and have done so several times...with no "tit for tat", so to speak. But it is my gift to them...they have not earned it...and I am not paying for anything...and frankly, they don't owe me anything.

I'll pay someone to wash my clothes. I'll pay someone to cook for me. I'll pay someone for P4P. I'll pay someone to give me a massage. I might even pay someone to drive me somewhere (albeit, I love to be the driver). But I doubt I'll pay someone to eat dinner or have a drink with me. That's what my friends (or friends to be) are for. Originally Posted by Rudyard K

I'll echo RK's comments. Originally Posted by SR Only

Agree totally.......

Thou PJ pays us to have dinner with him...

Thou PJ pays us to have dinner with him... Originally Posted by Woody of TX

Not enough!!!

I'll pay someone to wash my clothes. I'll pay someone to cook for me. I'll pay someone for P4P. I'll pay someone to give me a massage. I might even pay someone to drive me somewhere (albeit, I love to be the driver). But I doubt I'll pay someone to eat dinner or have a drink with me. That's what my friends (or friends to be) are for. Originally Posted by Rudyard K

friends can be for anything and you can pay someone for just about anything.

a good time can be worth paying for and a good time doesn't have to include sex to be a good time.

i think the road to somewhere can be very satisfying and satisfying travel can multiply the enjoyment of arrival that occurs later or perhaps never occurs. everything can have its own intrinsic worth.

Thanks so much, everyone, for your input. I'm probably going to try these out in a few weeks -- provided all my recuperating goes as planned, anyway! Since I've had some positive feedback, as Sydney said, it really doesn't hurt to try.

I do hope you are fully recovered soon Carrie.

Thank you London -- me too!

Could I have this thread closed, please? I don't want it reopened a year from now.

Could I have this thread closed, please? I don't want it reopened a year from now. Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest

Yeah, as time goes by, people will forget you're a klutz, and you don't want them coming back here for the remembrance.

[I've never believed your self-proclaimed klutziness, btw. Grace, that's what I believe when it comes to you.]

Thank you London -- me too!

Could I have this thread closed, please? I don't want it reopened a year from now. Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest