Originally Posted by merz5 View Post
"Hmmmm. As a fairly active member and hobbyist (50+ reviews is actually kind of embarrasing), I can only say that this board has allowed me to make mostly quality decisions and very rarely am I surprised or disappointed with my provider. I have and do see different price point providers and of course have different expectations of each. But with the research I am able to do (and reading between the lines sometimes of course) I have been able to make good decisions. I hope this board continues to get and keep providers and hobbyist's as it sure makes it safer and more fun for us all. I just try to ignore the drama.This board works best when we share good, accurate information and respect each others choices.
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my point is, that due to ass holes. that environment is going away. Provider participation is a key to what you use the board for, and they are leaving or not participating more and more
Originally Posted by Mizzou82
The good informed decisions that we all seek (Originally Posted by merz5) is only obtained by good information. With positive recommendations, a ladies business will grow.
It should be pointed out that there are a large number of outstanding younger women who get into the hobby just to make some quick money, to tied them over a rough point in life or to care for a child. In my 50 years in and out of the hobby I have seen many very special ladies retire and get out of the hobby - I still talk with a few of them. In my point of view, they are great people and I enjoy having them as friends.
I spend my time here searching for new ladies to spend time with; I know the best ladies will soon leave the hobby. From my point of view, that is a good thing for them: they have improved their lives, gotten an education, found love and marriage, etc. One of my fondest memories concerns attending a college graduation of a retired favorite provider. I sat at the back, but I got a hand wave while she was with her parents. I am proud of her.
Some ladies stay in the hobby because
they like it. As one lady told me: she had fun having sex, and got paid for having fun. She really liked her "job", and it showed. Wow, that woman loved to fuck. She would wear me out, every time I visited her. The best part, she worked full time and would
never take a tip. $100 was all she wanted. I still can't believe my good luck in finding her.
But then, maybe - just maybe, sometimes the ladies may be using us for their pleasure too. Is that an odd thought, or a sometimes observation?
We should think a moment about the ladies who do not retire, but are driven out because they don't have any business. Sad to say, but some ladies can't even find enough men in the hobby to take care of their own physical needs of finding one or two guys a month. Do we wonder why, or who they are? We know who they are when we read their constant anger towards others.
With that anger, others do not seek them.
Those are ladies who leave.
It is sad.
We hope they find happiness.
What they do, is not working.
They should stop
They should do something, anything else.
After a break,
they may return refreshed.
We all need change in our lives
Give ourselves a break.
Take a vacation.
It is cheaper than a mental breakdown.
Give them a break.
They deserve it.
JR
