I do the same. What gate to use, where to anticipate a turn, everything. So they can walk right up like they have been there before.
I had my own incall at that complex years ago. Fortunately I was at one of the back apartments by a gate, I would tell the guy exactly where to park outside my fence. If I had seen him before I would discreetly hand my gate key over the fence he would let himself in and return the key. If it was a first time friend I would explain in the booking email that when I see him pull up I will walk out and open the gate, in regular clothing of course. NO lingerie at the gate.
Now all of that being said, not all gents follow instructions. I had one guy call me from the gate, he had been given very direct directions. which courtyard to go to etc. After awhile, he still hadn't got to my door. He had tried walking into the wrong apartment, and the door was open so he walked into a neighbors apartment. I even use to keep a particular wreath on the door I would tell them to look for so no walking up to apartment doors squinting for the numbers. Sheesh.
Originally Posted by Lauren Lane
Some use a wreath, a flag, etc - those are my favorite, makes it much easier to find.