dirty talk, when does it go too far?

SisterTwister's Avatar
I had a girlfriend of mine burst out in tears and leave a rm because a guy was asking her to say "please daddy dont rape me, I'll be a good girl" (OMG right??) Unfortunately, she had been a victim of rape so it brought back some messed up memories and she ended the session. Something like that is COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE!!

As far as my own experiences, I had to politely (but firmly..lol) tell a guy that I will not be his "Dirty lil black bitch" because it was offensive to me...and he told me that I was 'way too sensitive' to be in 'this business'...so what do u guys think about that?? Originally Posted by brooke_banks69
I think you were way to nice to this POS. Instead of politeness, he deserved a nasty kick in the balls and his ass tossed out the door. Sisters are the most beautiful and amazing women in the world and I hate the way this sicko society devalues and degrades black women. I know you're a class act Brooke, but next time this happens you should text me license # and location so I can swing by if I'm in the neighborhood and let the air out of his tires. (j/k mods...)
Caitie Mae's Avatar
When we were kids we said "sticks and stones may break my bones..."

Can you guess which way I'm gonna go on this one?

"C-Word"
"W-Word"
"B-Word"
?????????

Are you serious? We are adults here and I'm sure each and every one of us is capable of recognizing the context of the content of this discussion. Why do people give so much power to a handful of letters in a certain arrangement so much power that grown people dread or even fear using them in a conversation about those very words? Really?! Jeez!

As far as I'm concerned, pussy and dick are two that challenge me, not because I'm offended by the words, though. I just think those words are too silly sounding to really get me going, or keep me going, during a roll in the hay, so you'll rarely hear them from me. Or maybe they aren't great turn-on words for me because they have become common terms for weak people to be taken advantage of or bullies and mean people who tend to exercise that advantage-taking. Either way those two words have little sexual value for me.

However... I love cock. I love cunt and I don't mind using them or hearing them at all during the heat of the moment. I feel the same way about whore, slut, bitch and a multitude of other "naughty" words.

Not only do I love cock and cunt, but if my cunt happens to love what you're doing for her, I'm very likely to tell you (especially if you're doing that for her with your cock, I guarantee I'ma be compelled to tell you) that my cunt loves what your cock does for me.

Now if you happen to whisper that I'm a Wicked Little Whore or I've got a hot little cunt or describe giving me your cock in any way at all I'm likely to lose my grip on any self-control I might have had up to that moment. The likelihood that those words will put me over the edge practically becomes a guarantee if spitting on me is also involved even in the slightest amount or if your cock is in my mouth at the time.

I love dirty-talk. C'mon... Try to shock me! I dare you to try to offend me with words! Please, try though! Please, Daddy, will you try??

lol... sick, sad or otherwise, a little good-natured degradation is pretty fucking hotttttttt.

~sweetness~
lil_michelle's Avatar
I haven't even had my first appointment yet but I think if I am familiar with a guy or its agreed upon ahead of time I would be cool with just about any words. If I am not expecting it and the guy seemed shy but broke into that, it might scare me a bit! LOL

Otherwise... fun fun!
If her head's spinning 360 degrees, she's quoting verse and spewing pea soup, then the dirty talk has gone too far.
Gonzo DFW's Avatar
I almost came just reading Caitie Mae's post.
Yea, I love the dirty talk.. However, I gotta be careful.. Last time I ' talked dirty ', in print, on here, I got a ration of shyte.

Gotta agree with Caitie Mae, I love feeding my cock to a greedy little cockwhore, who knows her only purpose is to milk my fucking man chowder from deep within my ball sac... Or something like that....
  • dog
  • 02-11-2011, 04:50 PM
If it's not scripted and at least somewhat "spontaneous", it can be a lot of fun. As far as I'm concerned, there are no limits on what she can say--and I'll just follow her lead as far as what is cool and what is out of bounds. But I absolutely do love it when it happens!...
Just had a double with Jessica Caliente this past week...

A gent was DATY on her when all of the sudden she had a gusher orgasm -all over his face. She then told me to, Get down there and clean up her mess!
Wow, that was hot...of course, I FOLLOWED INSTRUCTIONS WELL!!

he he he



XOXO
ItalianaPrincess
damn princess. thats sexy. i love it when the ladies follow instructions.
flackman2k6's Avatar
When we were kids we said "sticks and stones may break my bones..."

Can you guess which way I'm gonna go on this one?

"C-Word"
"W-Word"
"B-Word"
?????????

Are you serious? We are adults here and I'm sure each and every one of us is capable of recognizing the context of the content of this discussion. Why do people give so much power to a handful of letters in a certain arrangement so much power that grown people dread or even fear using them in a conversation about those very words? Really?! Jeez! Originally Posted by Caitie Mae
Just had a double with Jessica Caliente this past week...

A gent was DATY on her when all of the sudden she had a gusher orgasm -all over his face. She then told me to, Get down there and clean up her mess!
Wow, that was hot...of course, I FOLLOWED INSTRUCTIONS WELL!!

he he he



XOXO
ItalianaPrincess Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess



Damn girls...


I'm not really one for dirty talk, mostly though our of fear of the reaction. I'm a pretty passive person so its just easier to not.

Actually that attitude is probably responsible for a few bad sessions, too passive, but I'm always afraid to offend.

Is there such a thing as TOO respectful? lol
  • anita
  • 02-15-2011, 12:15 PM
Dirty talk turns me on. If you start thinking about what you say while sexing then it is just blah. The more spontaneous it is, the better it is. But that is just my opinion.
Flakman - yes there is such a thing as too respectful. There's nothing wrong with that. However, my ex-fiance would never spank my ass, pull my hair, choke me, hell - he wouldn't do ALOT of things! LOL, hence the "ex"...

It all depends on what each person is comfortable with, willing to try out, enjoys, or desires. It's all about making each other happy & having fun! Im just a little hellion BCD, so sometimes I need some freek-a-leek stuff everynow & again!


XOXO
ItalianaPrincess
Caitie Mae you are sexy but after reading that you may be one of the sexiest thing around. Damm that was hot.
marisaofdallas's Avatar
AMEN! Caitie Mae!! I love dirty talk - downright DIRYT talk- BUT with certain people at certain times and in certain situations......and I just got a crush....lol
Light dirty talk is okay, but you need to save the really nasty stuff for your SO...or see a fetish girl, lol! FYI - I'm NOT a fetish girrrl.....