I guess I'm a "voyeur" as well. It really just hit me...
I have no issue telling someone that I like them, but in general, I am extremely shy. Maybe thinking if I just get it out there, that will help?
What I like most, though, is when it's kind of a secret between us... and when that person is also kind of a "teaser". Sooo hot! It doesn't even take showing much, most of the time. Just a little creativity (side-boob, under-boob, a bit of nipple showing out of a bra/bikini, t-shirts w/no bra.... *salivating* LOL!).
I used to spend a lot of time on the "camgirl" sites because some of those girls are pro's at that shit. How to integrate this into "the hobby" experience, though? Hmmm....