Any African-American providers are tired of the Race Wars

Yup. Sexy is sexy. Skin color got nothing to do with it. Originally Posted by cowboy8055

To you. Some men are not attracted to black women. Its a simple as that.

I have a dream one day that lil white penis and big black asses can live in peace... I have a dream today!!!!

To you. Some men are not attracted to black women. Its a simple as that. Originally Posted by brianjackson

And some men aren't attracted to asian women.
And some men aren't attracted to white women.
And some men aren't attracted to brunettes.
And some men aren't attracted to big butts.
And some men aren't attracted to flat chests
And some men aren't attracted to big lips.
And some men aren't attracted to women with tattoos
And some men aren't attracted to women with piercings/nose rings.

*gasp*

Case closed.

I have a dream one day that lil white penis and big black asses can live in peace... I have a dream today!!!! Originally Posted by DaLadiezMan

Always put the white man with a little dick. I'm glad there isn't any stereotyping.

Well, it started in grade school when I was a kid, and again, NOT by black people. Continued into adulthood, again, by people not black.

Something for nothing?? The FUCK are you talking about!!

You think black people like the way they've been treated, and continue to BE fucking treated!?!

One of the benefits of being treated as such early on in life is that it hardens you by the time you're an adult.

If you weren't such a bitch, I'd pity you the first time it happens to you (and it WILL happen). Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Most black people live in I'm the victim mode just like you Ramblo. I'm an older white man and I have never used the n word even when there are no blacks around. You proliferate it and make exception by using the a instead of the r and then complain when anyone other than a black person uses it. You just might be the one on here that's the biggest bull shitter of all. I have seen your replies over the last few years and
as always you play the victim card. Whine is all you do.

In the slavery days, white cats had no problem with 'attraction' to black women.

They got their rape on with complete leisure back then.

Funny how that attraction is nonexistent today...supposedly. [rolls eyes]

What I find funny and disturbing, is that white providers post no AA men, but black providers post "I love older white men", so who is being racist? Originally Posted by finman56

When I started looking for providers, I understood fully why most specified that they didn't want alcoholics (no AA - not joking - not LOL). When I found out the actual meaning of "No AA", I was dumbfounded that most providers of all races (Including AA) specified "no AA".

Always put the white man with a little dick. I'm glad there isn't any stereotyping.
Originally Posted by burkalini

I don't think you have this problem. I have a good memory.

In the slavery days, white cats had no problem with 'attraction' to black women.

They got their rape on with complete leisure back then.

Funny how that attraction is nonexistent today...supposedly. [rolls eyes] Originally Posted by Randall Creed

That's how they try to put us down. Make us think no one wants us. I think some think if they say it long enough it'll become true. It just doesn't work that way.

Again, if the chick is hot and the mood is right, you'll want to fuck her regardless of color - anyone who disputes this is lying through their teeth.

I don't think you have this problem. I have a good memory.

That's how they try to put us down. Make us think no one wants us. I think some think if they say it long enough it'll become true. It just doesn't work that way.

Again, if the chick is hot and the mood is right, you'll want to fuck her regardless of color - anyone who disputes this is lying through their teeth. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Please do not come to Connecticut again - no one wants you!! (more than I do)

Let's see how this works....

Where exactly do you live? Most of y clients are Caucasian some are from India and I have a few from Pakistan. No AA clients though, not because I will not see them but because the area that I live in they are far and in between. I have never been discriminated against but yes I have been told several times that I was chosen by them because I am exotic and they always had a thing for exotic AA women but never had the chance to meet or spend time with one.

Other then that I have never been told anything that was remotely racial, and here in AZ I am considered one of the top shelf providers.

I understand your frustration but maybe it is just the men in the area you are in. Originally Posted by NINA SIMONE

Good promoting on topic.

I don't think you have this problem. I have a good memory.



That's how they try to put us down. Make us think no one wants us. I think some think if they say it long enough it'll become true. It just doesn't work that way.

Again, if the chick is hot and the mood is right, you'll want to fuck her regardless of color - anyone who disputes this is lying through their teeth. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

So they want to put you down by telling you they are not attracted to AA? Really? for what purpose.

And some men aren't attracted to asian women.
And some men aren't attracted to white women.
And some men aren't attracted to brunettes.
And some men aren't attracted to big butts.
And some men aren't attracted to flat chests
And some men aren't attracted to big lips.
And some men aren't attracted to women with tattoos
And some men aren't attracted to women with piercings/nose rings.

*gasp*

Case closed. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

If you don't understand the difference then i don't know what to tell you.

Again, if the chick is hot and the mood is right, you'll want to fuck her regardless of color - anyone who disputes this is lying through their teeth. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

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I had this issue When I first began as a provider, a few times because of my race.. Like someone would rather take a 350lb+ provider because she was white.

However, other times it was because my boobs were so big from off I looked like I could be Plus size( until I put on a bikini), Some hobbyist were shocked to learn that a provider is educated. Hell, I' still have guys call and hang up or ask to speak to Governess Ty.. (I sound too white over the Phone) granted these guys don't get to book with me. I'm saying that to say that,

You are allowed to feel the way that you do because we live in a very color blind world at times... And if it isn't your color then it will always be "something" else that you will have to fight against. i.e. losing appointments because the guys calling black or white. Don't think like you sound how your picture looks...

It could be you are tiny, you are a woman, a provider, you had a tattoo, you aren't a smoker.. (believe it or not some guys won't book if you aren't a smoker because they have a woman smoking fetish)

Etc it's and there's going to always be something, It just makes a difference of how you let it affect you.

Find your audience they are out there. (it'a really big board, they just have to find you) I started in Dallas. I'll just say in NYC and Chicago There's 8 times more business than Dallas... sometimes a change in venue helps too.

After a while, I found my nitch and a hoard of hobbyist that loved what I had to offer and wouldn't have it any other way. You can't let things in this hobby bug you too much. After all it just a hobby...

I am really sick to my stomach at how much the color of my skin still matters in 2016. growing up as an African American is already challenging but as the fact that I am a sex worker and that makes it even more challenging. I'm tired of hearing the comments :you're my first African-American so I'm nervous: oh I never been with a black girl before :I'm sorry I only do Asian Latino or white(in other words you'll do anyone besides a black girl). the world we still live in still struggles with racism and it is very much alive I see it hear it feel it everyday and I am sick of it! I mean really grow up! nevertheless I would like all African American women who run across this post to voice their opinions in hopes that one day just one day our opinions will matter and we will matter not as a race but as another human being. Originally Posted by GuddKitty2589