Dissed before even setting appointment

Is she NBA?

Most likely he inadvertently showed his maturity level via his choice of vocabulary in the initial contact.

Drops the mic... I mean... "micdrop" ... my bad.

Didnt expect this much feedback but it's cool. Like I said I'm not salty not once did i say that I was or did i mention a name or diss her. She actually replied and said she just wanted an older guy had nothing to do with any stupid post or bad reviews for which, i have none because i treat my providers with respect if u doubt, u can go to my P411 and ask any of the ladies ive seen. Micdrop. Originally Posted by Jjsmooth82

That's golden, pure golden, right there.

Well, at least she was honest. Would have been nice to tell you that up front though.

Hopefully it won't be a pattern for the OP

I just want someone to hold me.

I just want someone to hold me. Originally Posted by Knighthawk

Hahahahaha! Now that is funny!

I just want someone to hold me. Originally Posted by Knighthawk

Yeah like yo mom lol.

Yeah like yo mom lol. Originally Posted by Jjsmooth82

Yeah like yo mom lol. Originally Posted by Jjsmooth82

My mother died 33 years ago from ALS... Lou Gehrig's disease. I wish she could.

<- mic drop.


For no reason whatsoever.

Hey Kayla, you turned me down the first time but we figured it out and had a fantastic visit later. If at first you don't succeed work on it and try again or go some where else. It's all about gut feel and comfort level. And I really, really like being held and cuddled...

This is a first. Was pm ing a provider from Houston who will be traveling here to Dallas next week and out of the blue she just said that she don't think we'll be a good match. I have not said one bad thing to her spelled all my words correctly and used proper grammar. When i asked her why she didn't even respond. I'm not salty or anything like that because I'll just go see someone else. Was just curious if this has ever happened to any of my fellow hobbyists? Originally Posted by Jjsmooth82

It has happened to me a couple of times, but so what? If a provider refuses you for whatever reasons or no reason, then if by chance she were to see you, then I bet the session would be sub par at best, but you still have to pay the same amount. But, most providers are actually wanting that money, and if you really wanted to be vindictive, send her the review of the provider you saw right after she said no and highlight the dollar amount paid.

Be forewarned tho, I do know first hand of a provider or two that will not move on once you disagree with her, focusing her wrath and making shit up on you and if not herself, trying to get others to buy into her agenda and even go so far as to hire someone to fuck with you as well, but that would be another thread.

When vetting a provider on who you would like to see, even if there is one instance of uneasy, uncomfortable feeling or the slightest difference of the definition of GFE or whatever, it is best to drop and forget about her then move on. No need posting about it either as no one can be all things to all people. How you get the upper hand on her is in the future, she will see all the reviews you have done and providers you have seen, with not one alert out on you or providers you have seen for sessions saying anything negative about you.

She probably has an un-posted \ undercover N"X"A policy.

But, most providers are actually wanting that money, and if you really wanted to be vindictive, send her the review of the provider you saw right after she said no and highlight the dollar amount paid. Originally Posted by davidfree986

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Ok DavidFree; couple of things: WHY would he want to be vindictive?? I don't want to see everyone one Eccie and everyone doesn't want to see me. So?
Getting vindictive because ONE certain provider says, "I don't think we'd be a good match" is childish and stupid.

And another thing; the provider he saw right before he got his feelings hurt with a no, is an extremely high end escort only on TER and P411. No Eccie account, she probably never ever checks Eccie. She has a professional assistant and booker. And he claims to have seen her and paid $1000.00. The next review, the one AFTER the NO, he paid the lady 100.00. So just because he sends a review to a provider that does NOT want to see him and circles the amount, (which was a pitiful 100), she'll still check with ALL the providers reviewed, as he is such a newbie. And I doubt he was offering the lady here $1000.00. From a thou to one benji. It's more confusing than helpful or vindictive. And raises questions. So neither of your ideas are any good from a provider POV.
AND then later on in your post you advise him on "how to get the upper hand on her"!? WHY? Is that important? She's moved on with her life and has most likely been busy. He should move on too, and not listen to BAD advice about getting the upper hand on her and being vindictive towards her. YOU have problems.

Vindictive? Really? SMH.