SO sorry for the rant, But screening is a must.

However nasty some may think the replies on here are, it pales in comparison to what any other professional would experience if they acted the same way in front of their customers. If you want to be treated with respect, act respectful.

Sens you said it best and I agree with you. It all boils down to a couple of things if you have to apologize for saying something before you even say it maybe you shouldn't say it. It also goes along with people saying something like, "I don't mean to offend you" before they either say something offensive or asking an offensive question.
Allie I have the utmost respect for you but the OP pretty much put the hobbyist on the offensive by starting this thread. Even though none of it may be directed at anybody on this board it was taken that way. As many others have said it isn't what you say it is how you say it that matters.
I think many will agree that if this was posted in some of the other forums in other cities that the comments would be a lot more intense, rude, and down right nasty compared to what has been said here.

(I agree with Allie Kat on this one. If you don't like what someone posts, then scroll on. Honestly, it makes me think that Maddie has a little spunk and I like that in a lady. Id rather have someone say what is really on their mind than toy around with the words to ensure that no one gets offended. That's just a little too PC for me.) Sooper

Madison,
I like the way Sooper put it. You do have spunk, but you're a very honest young lady and I felt a great trust with you during our communications leading up to our date. You, like so many of the KC ECCIE ladies are from very attractive to outright pretty. To stay that way without getting hurt or in trouble, you do your homework and screen. As pointed out by a previous poster, it's possible that some slime ball will leak through the cracks, don't make it any easier for him to do so. My two hours with you were terrific. You have spunk, but you were worth the wait and upon my return from Tampa, I'll be saving up to see you and a few others. No objections here to giving what info I must, but I understand Omahan's point of view, too.

Can't help thinking of the Soup Nazi Originally Posted by grayturner

OMG, thanks alot grayturner. I have coffee running out my nose from trying to drink when I saw your post.

Sometimes the best policy for all of us to follow....and think b4 saying or typing

1) Does it need to be said

2)Does it need to be said now

3) Do I need to be the one saying it now

I'm just saying to that certain person!

Each provider has her own way to screen her clients, whatever makes her feel most comfortable when she comes to spend intimate time with a client. It is important to remember that the screening process is for the protection of us all. Oklahoma City has always had a LE cloud over it and if as a provider I were to make an exception in my screening, I would be putting myself at risk...which also puts my clients at risk. And ultimately we are all trying to fly UTR. It is worth it in the long run to fly safe!

Sometimes the best policy for all of us to follow....and think b4 saying or typing

1) Does it need to be said

2)Does it need to be said now

3) Do I need to be the one saying it now

I'm just saying to that certain person! Originally Posted by vkmaster

Oh the irony!

First name is Cheaper Last name 2buyit address Aspd 2009 kck

Just got back in town & saw all this. The double standard for ladies vs. gents never ceases to amaze me. Yes, I know the guys are the customers and customers are "always right" and not to be antagonized. But one negative post from a provider inevitably draws a firestorm of criticism. I am in a customer service oriented profession as well, and there are some customers who are just more trouble than they're worth. And they often don't get the point if told politely. Maybe the original post would have been better placed in the Powder Room---but, wait, that's been taken away, hasn't it?

So please, please stay away from Madison because of this post. And while you're at it, please, Br'er Fox, don't throw me in that there briar patch!

This is just like the anti-gunners mistake thinking criminals buy guns at the gunstore.. News flash, if someone wants to actually hurt you, they will pass your screening easily. Go see a few providers, get p411 access and then call you up. If LE wants to bust you, they can get a fake id, or use a previously busted verified clients id. Screen all you wish, it will make u feel better thats great, but thinking it makes you safe, is just plain nieve. Originally Posted by AnotherJohn

I couldn't of said it better myself. In this business there is no such thing as being to safe. But if someone's demeanor is to hurt you, or bust you. It will happen. It's not what you know but who you know. This is a business about keeping a secret. If a provider wants to ruin a customers life, they can easily do it as well, because lets face it, people (especially males) like to talk themselves up. Brag about what they do or how much money they make, job title, that their wife could never catch them. BLAH BLAH BLAH I could go on and on. So gents just keep in mind that the ladies have just as much as you to loose as you do. Ladies if you want to find the flaws in your screening process feel free to pm me.

Wow your out of town for a few days and miss all the excitement. My thoughts for the Ladies You screen anyway that makes you feel comfortable. If a gentleman won't / can't handle your screening then he is not worth your time or talent! Stay Safe on Both sides of the equation.

Each provider has her own way to screen her clients, whatever makes her feel most comfortable when she comes to spend intimate time with a client. It is important to remember that the screening process is for the protection of us all. Oklahoma City has always had a LE cloud over it and if as a provider I were to make an exception in my screening, I would be putting myself at risk...which also puts my clients at risk. And ultimately we are all trying to fly UTR. It is worth it in the long run to fly safe! Originally Posted by lanalegs25

Yes OKC has a cloud but also so many other places do to. We have to do everything we can to remain safe and fly low utr.

There are few good threads down in OK co-ed on screening and even for the gentlemen looking to spend time with us.

Check them out!

R we goin for a record here? Who's keeping score?