I dunno, any man's reaction to this kind of thing in the beginning might help any lady decide if that man would be someone they wish to be involved with long term. So weed those guys out before you get attached at all. Save yourself a little bit of "let down" or something. Who wants to have something hanging over their head that is judged so harshly as negative of any lady involved in this biz, even by the very men who would see us and give themselves a pass on being judged for it? Do yourself a favor, and be proactive rather than reactive. It seems someone will always be more than happy to call you out or give you up, so rip that band aid off yourself. ijs
No one thinks too much. Most just don't think for themselves, if at all.