Whats the right thing to do when providers photos are way out dated

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I saw a lady yesterday in San Antonio that I had met at a social about 3 years ago. At the time she was a smoking hot milf When I stepped through the door yesterday I almost didn't recognize her. She had gained about 30 lbs. The best part of the session was the bbbjnqns.

In my opinion recent pics that aren't factual are just as bad. Photos taken at certain angles to hide the beer gut and cottage cheese ass are no better.
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  • N.M.
  • 08-22-2016, 10:28 PM
I saw a lady yesterday in San Antonio that I had met at a social about 3 years ago. At the time she was a smoking hot milf When I stepped through the door yesterday I almost didn't recognize her. She had gained about 30 lbs. The best part of the session was the bbbjnqns.

In my opinion recent pics that aren't factual are just as bad. Photos taken at certain angles to hide or when they photoshop the shit out of the beer gut and cottage cheese ass are no better. Originally Posted by cctex


FIFY too...
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Heh
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No surprise there is no surprise
A provider knows if she's 20 lbs more than her pics. And that's wrong considering the purpose of Eccie. If you show up and are not pleased with what you see, leave and write about it in the locker room. Leave of course, and tell her she needs knew photos.
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I saw a lady yesterday in San Antonio that I had met at a social about 3 years ago. At the time she was a smoking hot milf When I stepped through the door yesterday I almost didn't recognize her. She had gained about 30 lbs. The best part of the session was the bbbjnqns.

In my opinion recent pics that aren't factual are just as bad. Photos taken at certain angles to hide the beer gut and cottage cheese ass are no better. Originally Posted by cctex

I've seen some ladies whose pictures are anywhere from a few months to a few years old. Sure... some changes can or have occurred, but no less than in me or other ladies. It's unrealistic to think that a person is going to look the same. And if a fancy camera angle or photo blur is used to hide or enhance, it's no big deal.
Some ladies are just too awesome in personality to judge them simply by their looks.
I don't care if they have an extra tire, crows feet, dimpled thighs or a gray hair here and there, to judge them by a photo is to cheat oneself out of an awesome experience if she turns out to be an insatiable lover.
Usually the first thing I notice are her eyes and smile, after that, I'm lost in her beauty and charm.
Sure, younger ladies have the advantage of getting better looking for at least another 10 more years, but to find them with everything I've described is few and far between.
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I had it happen to me twice in my early hobbying days. Since I made both appointments, I went through with the sessions. Both were lousy, as they could sense my displeasure over their appearance. Others must have had the same experience, as both disappeared rather quickly.

Now, it's like buying a car off the internet. It looks good, but when you see it up close, not so good. You aren't obligated to buy it, but you don't have to slam the seller. Just walk away and keep your $$$ until you find the right car.
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A provider knows if she's 20 lbs more than her pics. And that's wrong considering the purpose of Eccie. If you show up and are not pleased with what you see, leave and write about it in the locker room. Leave of course, and tell her she needs knew photos. Originally Posted by SashaSedusax
^^^ Well said hon. And usually the most photo shopped are the ones that yell the loudest about others when they look nothing like their photos once the makeup, weave, injections, fake nails, fake tan, eyelashes and painted eyebrows come off. (We won't even start on the bad boob job).

The gents don't take into consideration what we may have to stomach when we see you. Where our minds have to go and just "why" you aren't getting the eye contact you desire. At least with us you get an idea of what you're getting. Many gents want to be mind fucked and that's not always realistic. Stroking an Ego and great IOP okay but, damn; everyone has limits. Most people physically change over time, some for the better, some for the worse. Stuffing your face with food, booze and whatever else people choose as an excuse for "their choice in Lifestyle" is just that, an excuse. So, look at yourself before you openly judge others.

Ladies, we do have a responsibility as Providers to maintain our showcases, we are running a Business. There is someone for everyone around here.
I'll start caring what hookers think of my appearance the moment they start paying me for sex. Unless I stink or am unhygienic, get over it. Tell me to fuck you doggy style and fake it.
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I'll start caring what hookers think of my appearance the moment they start paying me for sex. Unless I stink or am unhygienic, get over it. Tell me to fuck you doggy style and fake it. Originally Posted by enderwiggin
Sweetie, we get over it (you're the one paying us). It's your money and our Job. There's plenty of RW dick out there Not paying many of us. It'll be okay, it's your prerogative...
Thanks for missing the point... again. You are the one selling a fantasy, not me. You get to be judged on how well you pull that fantasy off, not me. This false correlation between a provider's appearance and a hobbyists is bullshit and best kept in your ladies private space. I understand your point: some of us hobbyists are fat and disgusting. I just don't care.
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Sweetie, we get over it (you're the one paying us). It's your money and our Job. There's plenty of RW dick out there Not paying many of us. It'll be okay, it's your prerogative... Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO
There's plenty of RW pussy "out there" also! Some folks forget that!
Why is this even a thread. Quit being a weak ass man and stand up for your self.
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A provider knows if she's 20 lbs more than her pics. And that's wrong considering the purpose of Eccie. If you show up and are not pleased with what you see, leave and write about it in the locker room. Leave of course, and tell her she needs knew photos. Originally Posted by SashaSedusax

In some cases I'm finding that the very last pic in a showcase is usually the most up to date and accurate one.