Why use backpage???

Tori your post makes good business sense
Bob
boyscoutnomore's Avatar
elle w ur face would have 2 b a 2 bagger 4 me to reject ur body and attitude ! buff trip please
boyscoutnomore's Avatar
BP is always risky unless u croos check with eccie. all of my few bad sexperiences have been BP. the worst of my eccie have been average. all of my best have been eccie.
4 health reasons my participation in the hobby is sporadic. I like appointments which I can schedule around other events since I am 45-60 minutes away from most providers. But the reference thing is a hassle since it may have been 3-4 months since my last session with a provider.
I understand the need for safety but will never provide a photo or detailed personal info for reasons stated by others. Given the length of time I have been here the reference thing is annoying if I want to see a hot, new or visiting provider. But, if the solution is that I need to see Tori or faith again I guess I will just have to swallow my pride (and her clit !!) To update my references. LOL
I have found that with providers who are on ECCIE one's reviews on this site confer some credibility, such that references are often not required. By initiating contact through a PM on this site, the provider knows you are a member and can easily check your reviews/posts, etc.
Next Best Thing's Avatar
The idea of providing a hook with personal information, particularly employment information, is laughable to me. Preposterous.

Interestingly, I have never once been asked to provide this information to bang out a hook.

I once had a hook from Dallas, who is a member of this site, ask me to provide a reference from a hook. The hook from Dallas contacted my regular by email, my regular told her to fuck off (literally sent a reply email with the words fuck off in caps and nothing more), and the Dallas hook still did an overnight outcall with me.

I would far sooner just pay an upcharge to avoid self disclosing.

Does anyone really tell the hooks who they are and where they work? This seems like a form of suicide.
JONBALLS's Avatar
i don't care who knows...

we had to go to "diversity" class at a job for an overnight "debate"

whats cheaper, a whore or a wife?

over two way radios...... we got new radios out of the deal


on our OWN frequency ..
JONBALLS's Avatar
i try to take credit for theclass

but that's fought over


i believe the class had an opposite affct
bustybabygirl's Avatar
An upcharge isn't going to help when LE nails us or when a rapist who never intended on paying anyways sees us. I totally get why men don't want to give personal information. I respect that. But we are just trying to protect ourselves.
Next Best Thing's Avatar
But it will help you if you want to buy nice stuff or pay your bills.

Regardless I would as soon hand a hook a pistol when I walk in the room as provide her with delicate personal information.

Can we reverse verify?

Let me have your social security number and mother's maiden name and we can talk.
JONBALLS's Avatar
I don't need music


or the typed word


not sure what sucks worse
Next Best Thing's Avatar
elle w ur face would have 2 b a 2 bagger 4 me to reject ur body and attitude ! buff trip please Originally Posted by boyscoutnomore
The hook appears to have an excellent body.

Whenever I hear people say that all they need to see is a tight belly, sweet rearend, etc, I think of Sandra Bernhard. She has an outstanding body as well.
bustybabygirl's Avatar
Reverse verify by looking for reviews. Most girls only want delicate info if they can't screen any other way. Or set up an appt with a girl whose screening is easier to pass and then use her as a reference. I don't blame someone for not wanting to give personal info! I respect that. But then sometimes it leaves us at an impasse.

And hell yeah Elle is hot!
Next Best Thing's Avatar
I have never once had to work that hard.

That includes dates with pornstars as well as women in foreign countries and quite a few states in the USA including Alaska.

I would really love to know if anyone actually gives hooks legitimate identifying information. Employment info especially is the kiss of death.
bustybabygirl's Avatar
Well then you must be extra special.

Yes men give whores employment information all the time.

I've also seen licenses and passports.
Next Best Thing's Avatar
I'm going to conduct a silent poll on this. Undercover.

My money is special, yes.