Face to face screening

F2f screening is damn good and hassle free idea. I would love to know how she looks like before we go bcd.

A woman knows within the first 10 seconds of meeting a man if she wants to sleep with him. Usually it's his dumbass that turns an unspoken yes into a spoken no. This is in the civilian world.

With that said, a woman can over dinner, read you like a book. We call it intuition, but it is really just an innate subconscious & conscious formula of facial, body and verbal responses that let her know if we, the male, are full of shit or not. This is at most ninety-six percent not about your physical appearance and more about who you are.

Finally, yes, any move forward is still based on a donation, but some form of connection beyond that still needs to be made. She has plenty of dicknations to choose from. Think Firefly, a companion chooses who she will see. Originally Posted by Mythos

Indeed, women have what is referred to as a "7th Sense."
(Yes, you can google it.) My mother put me onto reading about the subject while we were discussing my amusement about "hookers having their Spidey-senses." (This is a phrase that is highly used amongst the ladies.) ((Yes, my mom knows! ))

To the OP:
It doesn't matter if we feel the compulsory 10 second "would I fuck him or naw" feeling- as the Hobby is not based on primal breeding selection, but as a business meeting.
Most ladies want to be able to confidently feel as though we are not in any physical danger from the potential client, that we are not placing ourselves in the hands of a "wolf," or worse.

There is always a danger within the Hobby community of picking "the wrong whore." In your favor though, information such as what entails "being a bad whore" is usually easily found. The search bar on here is your friend.

I would also like to mention, as much as I despise the use of multiple systems (more red tape...) P411 has an excellent reputation, thanks to Gina, of keeping the disreputable ones away from P411, her business, because she tolerates very few shenanigans.

If you find the right lady:

• find that her reputation proceeds her,
• she has multiple good reviews,
• turns out no "bad reports" when searched on ALL forums (Alerts, Mens, Co-Ed, etc, BE DILIGENT),
• is a standing member of P411,
• she is game to meeting without knowing your social security numbers (I joke...)
• and she doesn't have an exorbitant rate for a M&G / Dinner date/ social only

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then I would think you are good to go to take the plunge.

Yummy Marie has stated a VERY reasonable tactic & charge for M&G, imo.

Of course, paranoia levels vary (OBVIOUSLY) within the community, but rest assured, as many stated, and I repeat-
A true professional escort has no interest in your legal name, your car tag info, or anything else of your "private life"- it is only when we are in danger that we care to find these things. A whore with common sense knows that if she exposes a client as a client OF a whore, she exposes herself AS a whore. No bueno.

You have to find a "Pro." Bottom line.

(Not to say that there are not Loud mouth potty outing whores all around... THEY ARE. Just gotta remain vigilant against them! LMPOW's are bad. )

Jesus ... This guy is scary.

TFF! ... Using the Bible to prove anything is like using a Daffy Duck cartoon as proof that ducks can talk.

"you could think I'm full of shit" ... BINGO! Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

Ha! and even though it's clear that examples / illustrations represent a blind spot for ya thanks for proving my point about how things can be made to perceive. Since I can tell you're here looking for approval and acceptance I won't go hard I will let you have your say. However, let me give you another example before I go, true story... I was eating breakfast at a hotel restaurant this AM and saw a guy staring at me so I stared back. Again a second time I looked up and he was staring at me (I stay strapped so not worried). A third time I looked up and noticed he was playing with his coffee and dipping his hands in it and rubbing it all over his face. It then became obvious that he was indeed retarded so I made sure not to make eye contact with him again because retarded people can go nuts if you play the staring game with them. Moral of the story? I won't continue to make eye contact and go back and forth with you as I see you have problem.

feel free to quote above as you wish lol

Ha! and even though it's clear that examples / illustrations represent a blind spot for ya thanks for proving my point about how things can be made to perceive. Since I can tell you're here looking for approval and acceptance I won't go hard I will let you have your say. However, let me give you another example before I go, true story... I was eating breakfast at a hotel restaurant this AM and saw a guy staring at me so I stared back. Again a second time I looked up and he was staring at me (I stay strapped so not worried). A third time I looked up and noticed he was playing with his coffee and dipping his hands in it and rubbing it all over his face. It then became obvious that he was indeed retarded so I made sure not to make eye contact with him again because retarded people can go nuts if you play the staring game with them. Moral of the story? I won't continue to make eye contact and go back and forth with you as I see you have problem.

feel free to quote above as you wish lol Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

He was probably also wondering if you were also retarded. You left the part out about smearing the egg yolks on your face ... Moral Of The Story: Retarded people stare at one another

Can ya'll hear that?

It is the sound of a million well read and intelligent providers adding Sistine Chapel (possible rehandle) to the Stalker / DNS list.

...As of he/she/it was not already there.

Can ya'll hear that?

It is the sound of a million well read and intelligent providers adding Sistine Chapel (possible rehandle) to the Stalker / DNS list.

...As of he/she/it was not already there. Originally Posted by Mythos

In case you didn't know - not concerned at all about who will or won't see me for whatever reason; I'm doing alright. ;-) My real wonder is why you pivoted away from a direct response to your response with nonsense. Also find your well read and intelligent comment to be funny. Is that your way of saying you're well read and intelligent?

Every lady is different, I never do this nor will I ever, though I do get asked for such fairly frequently. What does a face-to-face meet prove to me? Absolutely nothing.

Either go through my screening requirements beforehand, or we don't book a session together. Many gents find no issue with this, so those do, are not the gents I need to be meeting.

I thinck taint inspections should be mandatory ...

I thinck taint inspections should be mandatory ... Originally Posted by pyramider

Finally some intellectual dialogue. That other noise was boring the shit out of me.

Most ladies want to be able to confidently feel as though we are not in any physical danger from the potential client, that we are not placing ourselves in the hands of a "wolf," or worse.

A true professional escort has no interest in your legal name, your car tag info, or anything else of your "private life" Originally Posted by FoxyNC

I couldn't agree with Foxy more. I have offered M&G for my outcall rate to a few new gents who didn't want to go through the 'gate keepers', so to speak. And I have also taken the word of a reputable provider as the only reference.

I don't think I've seen this mentioned but you could send a pm to any of the guys that have written a review on the provider you would like to see. You can check references just at we do!

Were there taint inspections?

^^^^^ my first meeting with an eccie provider was face to face over dinner. I had zero references and no 411...nothing.

She was obviously more nervous than I was because I knew she was good to go.

That night and long term....It worked out well for the both of us. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

How does that work in regards to her fee? Paying full fee seems excessive just for a meet and greet. Originally Posted by 8254F

Okay just getting around to answering this one.

For m&g and screening, all whores have their own rules. Houston women are probably the worst....followed by nola.

Fortunately, Tebow was with me on my first pursuit....and maybe with her.

I was on an out-of-town assignment that was running out at being gone 3 or 4 weeks per hitch. And the work was almost 24/7 because i have no relief or back-to-back.

Anyway, I had found eccie in Houston searching phone numbers of spas, so I knew how the system worked. So in the town I was working I studied the eccie girls and picked one. I didn't have an account so I emailed her. I told her I was there working and was lonely and was looking for a part time gf. I had no references BUT,...I'd pay her 100 dollars to meet me for dinner at a location of her choice. I told her I knew who she was and I knew all about her and knew how she liked to be treated.

She was very reluctant but the conversations continued.

All I was asking for was dinner my treat plus 100 for her time.

Rules: Everyone had to be considerate almost like we are courting and absolutly no talk of any illegal activities of any sort....nothing...NADA.

After a few friendly emails, she finally agreed to meet.

So one evening we met at the restaurant of her choice. I was waiting on the bench in the lobby...she didn't know what I looked like but I knew what she looked like. After she asked to get a table, I politely said her name and she turned around. We hugged like we knew each other and walked to the table like we owned the place.

We ordered drinks and appetizers like we'd done it 100 times before.

Had great conversation like we knew each other.

Dinner was going long so I asked for check and paid.

I said something like, "would you like to follow me to my hotel?,....i'm staying at xyz." She said something like, "I'd love to."

She knew of the hotel where i was staying so I suggested to her how we'd park so we could take the shortcut through the back door. I told her where I'd park and suggested where she could park. She knew the place and agreed.

And off we went.

Now here is some funny shit. We got to the hotel and it was dark already,...probably 8:30 or 9. Well...guess what. There was a fucking deputy sheriff parked right in the spot I had suggested for her. That was new to me. I had never seen them park there. He had is cabin light on and was doing paperwork. I parked....she hesitated....but parked. I got out and started walking towards the door. She finally got out and did the same. I think she was trying to make it look like we were separate.

I looked at her and said....surely you don't thinck that guy is with me?

She laughed and said some funny remarks. She said something like, "I thought for sure I was fucked,....but I've done NOTHING wrong,"

I agreed with her so I unlocked the door and up we went.

We got to the room. I closed the curtains,...she started to strip and dance for me and tease me. Soon i was fucking her and eating her pussy. This went on for quite a while. I busted a nut and the game continued. Don't worry,...i was prepared with my own supplies.

When it was all said and done, we cleaned up and she started to get dressed. She never said anything and finally I dropped the bomb.

I asked, "How much do I owe you." She paused,....thought,....paused, ....looked down,.....then looked at me and said, "400 dollars."

I laid down 3 100s and 5 20's and asked when she could return. She came over two nights later...skipping dinner LoL but the same dessert.

There are still very few women I've met that could fuck like that girl. I never kept records, but I'm thinking she got me for 5k before she graduated. When she started staying the night for 400, that just fucking ruined me.

i miss that girl and regularly pray she has all the best right now.

At Globespotter...Thanks for taking the time to respond and share your experience. That's hilarious about LE being at your spot. Glad to here the lady had faith that you weren't connected to whatever he/she was doing. So it does work without it having to appear like an espionage senario...

The only time I ever screened face to face was with Rose the Milk Maid.
She was something.....

The only time I ever screened face to face was with Rose the Milk Maid.
She was something.....