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Personally, I think that if you have been black listed more than once, you should be banned from all sites. Grant it you should have to prove the problem to the black list sites. That would solve the whole problem. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

Just what do you mean by this?

If we're talking the providers' blacklist site, I'd view that as a definite problem. It's too easy for a provider with a grudge to BL a guy.

Or, do you mean being banned on ECCIE? There appear to be different levels of banning here (although it's not spelled out anyplace that I can find).

And I don't know what you're even trying to say. Are you saying that there are a "group" of guys in Houston that do something akin to B&S? Get a provider to commit to tour there, and then don't make appts. when she arrives?

Texas itself is a great state and I haven't seen anyone have anything negative to say about any city here on this site except for Houston. However, the provider bashing and sending out requests for ladies to tour Houston just to stand them up as a group is causing Houston on this site to get a bad rap. If you let these people represent you then you really have no complaint about how you are seen. Solve the problem. It's not a problem of censoring them but if you speak out against this group or any member of it, you get banned or blamed. It's not fair to refuse to censor them and then censor the rest of us. That's the REAL problem. Personally, I think that if you have been black listed more than once, you should be banned from all sites. Grant it you should have to prove the problem to the black list sites. That would solve the whole problem. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

I disagree.... Banning someone from all sites simply from being mentioned on a particular site isn't the way to go IMO. You ladies talk to each other the way you are suppose to and you can inform each other who does what.

Also the "others" that you speak of here in Houston don't represent me sweetheart. I represent myself here and every lovely lady I've met here will tell you that. I'm not concerned with Houston having a bad name. Only when my integrity gets questioned is when I'll start worrying. If a lady decides she doesn't want to see me because I'm in Houston then that's her choice.... I'll sleep just fine.

I'm very interested in hearing more about this theory she has floated about Houston men intentionally prebooking traveling providers and then canceling on them once they get down here. I'm sure that Lacey realizes that she had better have proof for an allegation like this, or else things are going to get real interesting for her on her most illustrious return to the board...

P.S.-Brooke Wild came back from a break just as full of hate as you seem to be and posted it all over the board. I'd advise you not to make the same mistake...