I can feel it slowly creeping up on me...Hobbying at 40.

Reese, you are one of a kind! Those of us who know you are blessed. Happy Birthday (a little belated, but just as sincere)

SAS

Happy Birthday girl! Age is in your mind..

Reese--you are truly awesome and one of the few, if not only, person in the hobby around which all the hype we hear is actually inadequate to express the real truth. Have a great day and an even better year than last.

Thanks again everyone! After the news that I received today on a very dear friend of mine, I will never again complain about my age! Life is a gift. Embrace it and always be sure to let the ones you love, know it everyday.

I truly believe that you can never say, " I love you and I appreciate you." too much. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

AMEN!!!! [and i'm not much into organized religion]
one of my email siglines is "touch and be touched!!"

your thoughts are right on!!! and, if you permit me, i would like to paraphrase it to focus on you, birthday woman...
"Reese is a gift. Embrace Ms. Foster and always be sure to let her know every time you see her that you love who she is."

reese, i love you for being who you are!!!!!



btw,
a nivea ad http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=78aJ3yXuXG0 where they used my sigline mentioned above.

and a good article on touching intimately.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...gest-sex-organ

AMEN!!!! [and i'm not much into organized religion]
one of my email siglines is "touch and be touched!!"

your thoughts are right on!!! and, if you permit me, i would like to paraphrase it to focus on you, birthday woman...
"Reese is a gift. Embrace Ms. Foster and always be sure to let her know every time you see her that you love who she is."

reese, i love you for being who you are!!!!!



btw,
a nivea ad http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=78aJ3yXuXG0 where they used my sigline mentioned above.

and a good article on touching intimately.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...gest-sex-organ Originally Posted by pmdelites

Thank you, PM

40, huh? Doesn't that put you right in the middle of your sexual prime? That's the great cosmic joke: Men mature sexually in their late teens, woman in their late 30's. But emotionally, it's pretty much in reverse. . .. . .LOL

Have a Happy and Naughty B-Day!

You look fantastic!! I had to look at your pictures to make sure you are the one I was thinking of... Bc the Reese I have seen, didn't look 3-0 so shocking at 4-0!

I dont know you very well Reese but I can see how fucking sexy you are!!! $0 looks great on you,no botox,no denying it! Embrace it and love it you are a hottie and from one MILF to another,"You rock hotMaMa!!!"

showcase and thought god i would LOVE to bang that woman. i'm kinda thinking today , tmr next week i will be feeling the same. chances are 5 years from now there will be tons of guys thinking i would LOVE to bang that woman. happy birthday god i would LOVE to bang you

So, tomorrow is the big day...the big 4 0. I have to decided whether to embrace it or get a lot of botox and deny til I die...lol. For those of you already in the club, tell me what I have to look forward to as I begin this new decade of my life.


Will the hobby change for me? Will gentlemen want to see me because I am now "mature", or will less want to see me because I am "mature"?


Does sex get better in your 40's? If so, in what aspects?



Ladies who date, being a single mom and 40....am I doomed?


Most importantly, am I going to wake up in the morning and say, "What the hell was all the fuss about? I don't feel any different." Originally Posted by Reese Foster

If I was turning only 40 I'd go for the an item on my bucket list .... a backstage pass at a Celtic Woman concert.

Happy Birthday Reese.

Trust me (or anyone else as old as me), 40 is NOT old. I think of it as peak MILF year.

Happy Birthday Reese. Embrace it...40's are no different than 30's. I am sure you will be just like a fine wine.....better with age!!

HH after reading that I am Ready A little over a year to go for me. Made me look at 40 in a great way!

Reese I hope you had a wonderful Birthday

Yes, life changes. Some for good, some for bad. First the bad. This is about the time your body reminds you that you are no longer 18. Things don't bend the way they used to, things don't work they way they used to. It's kind of like a car-it hits a certain age and everything starts breaking down. For the first time, gravity really kicks in. You notice wrinkles that didn't used to be there. You start to get hot flashes-trust me-they REALLY suck. You realize that eating that piece of chocolate cake has more negative results than it used to. That work out is now kicking your ass. You go to bed earlier because your body just can't stay up all night like it used to. Your patience and tolerance for BS decreases. Panicking yet?

No worries my beautiful Reese. Just like that same car, if you took good care of yourself during the "growing years" you still have a lot of life left.

Welcome to the Cougar Club Reese! I was always told that life didn't begin until 40. I never knew what that meant until I hit 40. You too, will wake up one day and say "THAT'S what that meant!" LOL Your patience and tolerance for every day stressors increases. You actually begin to understand things that made you say "WTF?" 20 years ago. Little things no longer bother you. You brush them off as well as you give a blowjob. Your sarcasm will increase because, well, you just don't really give a shit anymore lol.

Instead of looking forward and thinking "what do I want to do with my life" you will now look behind and think "THIS is what I have accomplished. THIS is what it's all about."

You have so much more to talk about with a mature man. You have raised your children and are watching your grandchildren grow. You are watching your children make the same mistakes you made 20 years ago. You shake your head and laugh as it takes you back to fond memories-and dumb mistakes. It's now time to live your life. To do all the things you wanted to do but couldn't because of those same children. You love them to death but dammit so much you couldn't do because you were tied down. IT'S NOW TIME TO DO YOU!!! (which reminds me, we need to go on vacation. Me, you, Fawn and Lana-Sex in The City style lol)

Sex for a woman in her 40s is like that of a man in his 20s. You want it all the time. You want it when you want it, and how you want it. You are finally in tune with your body. You actually understand sexuality and what your body is telling you. You will now be less concerned about how he feels about your sexuality and more concerned about "getting yours." The signals from your brain are finally conjoined with the signals being fired from your loins. You "thought" you knew what it was all about before, but now you "get it."

You will seek out a mature man for that unbelievable love making. You know the kind....where he's in your head before your pants. The passion, the ecstasy, that sheet-pulling, loud-moaning, gut wrenching GREAT love making. You will also begin to hunt for that cub to put your claws in-that back up plan for those wild times. The one you can mold to satisfy you how YOU want to be satisfied. You no longer feel guilty when you make that booty call, do him hard, smack him on his sweaty little ass and snicker as you say "I'll call you" when you send him on his way (dammit where is my little black book!)

You are old enough to understand life but still young enough to enjoy it. At the end of the day, you sit down with your favorite book/movie/CD, kick your feet up and instead of saying "now what," you say out loud "now THIS is living."

Meg Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Does this we have to make you orgasm now, too?

Happy Birthday Reese...:-)

As a single mother.....and at the age of 46....I must say I feel empowered in many ways. Mostly....the maturity has allowed me to have the confidence to get what I want.
I do not mean that in a bad way.....but listen to your own intuition and go with it.
There is a lot in life still yet to discover.....and these "good guys" on the board appreciate your position in life and they respect maturity.

Not that ALL guys get into the "mature chicks"....but for those that do....hell, I can't keep up with them...and they keep my calendar full!

Enjoy.....and be proud of where you are.
I know....you.....REESE. Enuf said....even though we've never met....I've heard that you are one of the sexiest and most inticing providers around !!

Hope you had a glorious b-day !!!

Hugs,
Torre

Happy B-day. You are a doll. The time we spent together was really special. For any who haven't met Reese, she's a wonderful person. You do not look 40.

And yes, many ladies have better, stronger sex drive in their 40's. I actually look for beautiful more mature ladies who look young like you.

Luv ya.