Some Actual Food for Thought - Emotional Intimacy in the Hobby

LMAO. Baby boomers and Generation X people came before the onset of the internet and cell phones. I can understand why today's youngsters will lack social skills but I hardly see that in the "old timers." BTW, charisma is retained only by a few persons in the real world. Most people especially in the States are naturally gregarious but utterly clueless and cliché in their sincerity which makes them apparently so cheesy to most people. FAKE comes to mind. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

I take it you're a Baby Boomer? Baby Boomers are quick to espouse your point of view especially regarding the use of technology (e.g internet, cell phones) I admit there's a little truth to it but remember you guys have been socially awkward and exclusionary for decades which to me also translates into poor communication skills. Of course there are exceptions to every rule but I think socially you're ill prepared for life in 2016 that's dominated by Millennials and Centennials.

Let me ask outside of P4P can you attract women without opening up your wallet? Do you attract women or do they run from you? Personally but not exclusively I think being clueless and cliche in sincerity is more in the purview of many southern white males. Everyone else around the country for the most part seems to be ok. Except for maybe the types and likes of one Rudy Guliani but I digress.

^^^^^^^

Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

If you're gonna step up and challenge me it's cool I will engage on occasion but don't start that pivot shit on me.

Let me ask outside of P4P can you attract women without opening up your wallet? Do you attract women or do they run from you? Personally but not exclusively I think being clueless and cliche in sincerity is more in the purview of many southern white males. Everyone else around the country for the most part seems to be ok. Except for maybe the types and likes of one Rudy Guliani but I digress. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

Take a look at WW's Reviews and ask yourself that question again.

I take it you're a Baby Boomer? Baby Boomers are quick to espouse your point of view especially regarding the use of technology (e.g internet, cell phones) I admit there's a little truth to it but remember you guys have been socially awkward and exclusionary for decades which to me also translates into poor communication skills. Of course there are exceptions to every rule but I think socially you're ill prepared for life in 2016 that's dominated by Millennials and Centennials.

Let me ask outside of P4P can you attract women without opening up your wallet? Do you attract women or do they run from you? Personally but not exclusively I think being clueless and cliche in sincerity is more in the purview of many southern white males. Everyone else around the country for the most part seems to be ok. Except for maybe the types and likes of one Rudy Guliani but I digress. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

Again you are wrong. The fastest growing demographic group to be users of the internet, including social media, are persons of age 50 years and older. Baby Boomers are very much comfortable with the use of technology. They should be since they were born during a time of great technological advances, the industrial-military complex, the atom bomb, and mass consumerism. Your knowledge of history is very limited. The Baby Boomers experienced the turbulent 1960s-1970s, a time of which that the U.S. and the entire world experienced great leaps of social discourse about the status quo and culture. So it's safe to say that Baby Boomers knew how to communicate fairly well. If there is anyone that is ill prepared for life in 2016 it's the Millennials and Centennials, for they have to learn how to deal with the advertiser's bombardment of ads geared towards the melting of technology and culture for the sake of making a buck in Corporate America. The Baby Boomers grew up with Vietnam, Watergate and Reaganomics and never lost sight of the dangers of corrupt government and unethical corporations. In other words, the kids today are dumb.

Money and power are the best aphrodisiacs. A woman knows this very well. "Do you not know that a wet pussy and a dry purse don't match?" You gotta love Paul Mooney's humor. Southern white males are really no different than any other man in the nation. They are ego-bound but at the same time constantly being restrained and belittled by the feminist doctrine of man-hatred. At least with the Southern White Man he is more willing to fight it all the way. The other men are pushovers. You sound like one of them if we were to believe in the stereotype that "Southern Men" can't think that well. But I much rather prefer to call you simply a Houstonian since you think of yourself as enlightened though false that it may be.

If you're gonna step up and challenge me it's cool I will engage on occasion but don't start that pivot shit on me. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

^^^^^^^

I hobby specifically NOT to have any emotions involved or attached....

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the hobby/provider relationship, small talk, conversation and of course sex..it's all the emotional b.s. that I specifically do not want...

The tards who gave that response in the survey are the ones who get attached to hookers, become stalkers and "think" they have a relationship with them....they're probably the guys who have a shared facebook account with their SO, wear matching clothes with their SO's and go to the Nutcracker market...basically their balls are in their SO's purses...

The tards who gave that response in the survey are the ones who get attached to hookers, become stalkers and "think" they have a relationship with them....they're probably the guys who have a shared facebook account with their SO, wear matching clothes with their SO's and go to the Nutcracker market...basically their balls are in their SO's purses... Originally Posted by SNL9933

In short, they are pussy whipped or pushover.

Again you are wrong. The fastest growing demographic group to be users of the internet, including social media, are persons of age 50 years and older. Baby Boomers are very much comfortable with the use of technology. Baby boomers are only let me repeat only comfortable with their long standing financial safety nets that they created and it has less to do with technology. Technology to BB's is nothing but a necessary evil. They should be since they were born during a time of great technological advances, the atom bomb, and consumerism. Your knowledge of history is very limited. The Baby Boomers experienced the turbulent 1960s-1970s, a time of which that the U.S. and the entire world experienced great leaps of social discourse about the status quo and culture. So it's safe to say that Baby Boomers knew how to communicate fairly well. If there is anyone that is ill prepared for life in 2016 it's the Millennials and Centennials, for they have to learn how to deal with the advertiser's bombardment of ads geared towards the melting of technology and culture for the sake of making a buck in Corporate America. If they're ill prepared it has nothing to do with advertisements as you say but rather the financial liabilities created by Baby Boomers that will take generations to pay off such as the 2008 housing market crash just before Obama took office. Also 40% of all government spending is for insurance in some form or fashion (e.g. Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security, etc). People who aren't Boomers have to work twice as hard to ensure you get all this shit paid to you by the government. So when you say the youngsters today are ill prepared it's because of problems you created for them. You're totally dependent on them but you've also boxed them in politically speaking. By and large the Baby Boomer generation has failed in almost every aspect. It was the worse generation ever. The Baby Boomers grew up with Nixon and Reagan and never lost sight of the dangers of corrupt government and unethical corporations. In other words, the kids today are dumb. Wrong recent generations are smarter, better educated and more open-minded. You came up watching Archie Bunker and eating at Whites only establishments and while you still yield influence in Corporate America that influence is dying out as more of you die or retire and the newer generation work to fix all the financial, political, and social problems that you created.

Don't expect the Millennials and Centennials to make the same mistakes the Boomers made. People will get taken care of as needed but it likely wont be based on some faulty logic age metric. More people are becoming Global Citizens and so the racism and environmental denials that plagued your generation will become less and less. In other words with the retirement and / or death of more boomers life will get better for more people in general.

Money and power are the best aphrodisiacs. A woman knows this very well. "Do you not know that a wet pussy and a dry purse don't match?" - So I take it you can only pay for pussy? You gotta love Paul Mooney's humor. Southern white males are really no different than any other man in the nation. They are ego-bound but at the same time constantly being restrained and belittled by the feminist doctrine of man-hatred. Actually they live in an exclusionary bubble. Pining for the 50's when life was all about leave it to beaver type shit. At least with the Southern White Man he is more willing to fight it all the way. It's by and large what exclusionary, fearful, non-progressive, and ignorant people do. The other men are pushovers. You sound like one of them if we were to believe in the stereotype that "Southern Men" can't think that well. But I much rather prefer to call you simply a Houstonian since you think of yourself as enlightened though false that it may be.More enlightened than you'll ever know and to my point of you being a Boomer. ;-) yall just don't get it and you never will. The time is getting close you lived a "good life" now you may die in peace. ;-) Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

^ See comments in red.

In short, they are pussy whipped or pushover. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

Or a pussy-whipped-pushover ... http://m.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1501674&highlight=

Still too f-ing awesome/funny .... It's almost funnier than Kevin Hart with the student driver -> RULES ARE FOR BITCHES https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Za8BtLgKv8

You gotta remember a lot of these guys don't know how to talk to women especially baby boomers and Generation X guys. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

Where did you come up with this bullshit? Some youtube video?

They should be comfortable with their long standing financial safety. THEY ARE SENIOR CITIZENS!!! It has to do with technology. Ever heard of tech stocks? Much of senior citizen financial safety hinges upon the stock market. Baby Boomers aren't necessarily Ted Kazinski types that abhor technology. Like I said before, the older members of society are using the latest technology for personal and non-personal objectives.



They are ill-prepared because they are becoming slaves to technology. They don't get out there and socialize. STICK WITH THE TOPIC!!! This other information has nothing to do with today's youth lacking an ability to communicate. They are spoiled brats and expect the world to be on a silver platter for them.




Knowing how to take photos with your cell phone and posting it on facebook doesn't make your smart but a new kind of consumer. Hence, my accusation that Corporate America is melting technology with that of culture. BTW, the most educational gains are from women and most of their degrees are concentrated in health sciences, in education, and in social sciences, most of which are low paying jobs. The job positions of today don't require a great amount of complex intelligence and decision-making. In fact, there is such a shortage of engineers, doctors, and nurses that many times they have to be imported into the US to meet the demand. Having an education doesn't necessarily mean that a person is fully educated in terms of quality. Much of the education in the USA is remedial in nature. Less and less people are obtaining degrees in the sciences in the States and prefer to work on liberal arts degrees just to "graduate with a degree." How is that helping the US to build assets? It doesn't take a degree to make a good salesman and that is what the USA has become, service industry concentrated. If Americans have become more open minded then why are neighborhoods and schools are becoming more segregated by race and by socio-economics? The public school has now become a daycare center for impoverished parents, whereas the well-to-do send their kids to expensive private schools. The newer generation doesn't care since many are still living in their parents' basement and have no aspirations in life except to play the latest video games or to upload silly youtube videos.



The faulty logic age metric died a long time ago after people realize that the Baby Boomers were aging which meant that the culture had to change to accommodate them. Ever heard of the new 30, the new 40, the new 50, and so on? The Millennials and Centennials will make the same mistake because that's the nature of human beings. We don't learn that well. One way or another Corporate America will figure out a way to sell their products to people despite the change in demographics and that is what the age metric is all about. Global Citizens? You mean the New World Order which has been around for a long time now. That's a Baby Boomer creation! The racism and the environmental denials will continue because events change but the mindset of power does not change. The new bad guy is now a Muslim but before it was the Communist. The new environmental danger are the gas guzzlers but before it was industry pollution. The death of Baby Boomers is just another era that will pass. There will be pros and cons for every and any group. These are some of the things that the Baby Boomers did for the youngsters:
(1) End the Cold War
(2) Decreased capital punishment
(3) Polio was stopped
(4) improved Africa economically
(5) Women have become more liberated which has increased the productivity in the USA
(6) Wireless communication has accelerated economic growth and promoted open communication
(7) Communism was dismantled. Communism killed millions of people.
(8) Disabled people can live normal lives and be part of the work force
(9) Welfare has been undermined
(10) Voyager I pushed humanity beyond the solar system
(11) The internet opened economic and communication boundaries
(12) The Civil Rights helped to promote social justice
(13) The democratization of the computer through creation of the personal home computer changed the world
(14) Mandatory seat belt laws have saved lives
(15) WWIII was avoided and all the millions that died during the Baby Boomer Age cannot be compared to all the deaths that occurred in WWII
(16) People can still work even after the age of 60
(17) The Golden Era of movies occurred in the 70s with some of the most iconic movies that have ever been made and that have changed culture
(18) Globalization or the interdependence between different nations and cultures was nurtured by Baby Boomers
(19) Baby Boomers apologized for a lot of things that went wrong, such as the Crusades, The Holocaust, Japanese internment, slave trade, racism, medical experimentation, etc.
(20) Environmentalism was popular during the Baby Boomer Age

(21) Baby Boomer music has impacted the culture for the good by creating awareness and promoting change and freedom

AND SO ON!



All women like successful men or men that can "pay" their own way in life. Shakes his head.

They live in such an exclusionary bubble that the Republican Party, the party of Lincoln or the man who saved the nation and who is considered one of the most thoughtful and rational men that the US has ever produced, actually nominated Donald Trump as its Presidential Candidate.

People naturally fight for their beliefs and should not readily submit because some Elitist or a group of Elitists claims its way is the most progressive. In the States, fighting for one's beliefs goes back to the Revolutionary Days when the American people proudly waved the "Don't Tread On Me" flag to fight against oppression from England. Ignorance occurs when you are willing to accept the status quo out of fear.

Your enlightenment sounds more like anger and hostility to me because your self-entitled nature requires you to actually do some real work than depend on social programs that are doom to fail. Shut up and get to work if you want the life that you want! Jealousy does little for productivity in the end.

He wants to HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. In other words, he is SELFISH. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

Who said there's anything wrong with having one's cake and eating it as well? I don't see anything wrong with that scenario. Life is for enjoying oneself; why deny yourself such pleasures? Life is fleeting.

the way you express yourself and your internet demeanor has put u on my TDL for awhile. maybe ur right. I just have alot going on in the RW and don't know if i'll truly enjoy a quick escape without guilt. But i'm beginning to feel a sense of desperation Originally Posted by maineblame

No bueno to let yourself get to such a point. As said above, life is for enjoying one's self. And thank you, sir.

I hobby specifically NOT to have any emotions involved or attached....

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the hobby/provider relationship, small talk, conversation and of course sex..it's all the emotional b.s. that I specifically do not want...

The tards who gave that response in the survey are the ones who get attached to hookers, become stalkers and "think" they have a relationship with them....they're probably the guys who have a shared facebook account with their SO, wear matching clothes with their SO's and go to the Nutcracker market...basically their balls are in their SO's purses... Originally Posted by SNL9933

Over the years, I've connected with certain gents outside of the sesh, on different levels, so I would disagree with your opinion.

Some gents want an easy in, easy out scenario with their hobby partners, which is fine and perfectly understandable; it's part of what we are paid to provide (a no drama experience.)

However, some actually do want to connect a bit deeper, and in my personal experience, this actually makes a lot of sense. You're both in the hobby, so you don't have to lie about it and can understand one another's perspective, in that regards. In a sense, you're able to connect more honestly than perhaps you can with your other, rw relationships, because you don't have to hide this part of your life from one another.

This topic has one set on and off the rails .

I like the touch of romance and emotional intimacy, I enjoy conversation G with girls , that just me , but I'm well aware of where the fantasy ends and business begins.

You have to be in this game. If you let the fantasy blur uncontrollably you can end up broken hearted and penny less - just look at the bonemake barbie story -

Back on topic, tard .... not you, cr76. (Edited)

Back on topic, tard .... Originally Posted by TryWeakly

This topic has gone off the rails Originally Posted by cr76

I just attempted to get my own thread, back on topic, lols. Hey, at least they didn't get crazy and start throwing immature insults around. I'm actually impressed by the course of this thread; good job gents.