Percentage of hobbyists who are married

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I have some requirements lol... i require lots of affection & cuddling, NEVER been on a plane so i would like to travel at least twice a year, i want a couple kiddos, i love to cook but would like to eat out 1-2 times a week... hmmm and i love dogs and i come with 3 think u could manage?? lol Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe
Marley, you sound so sweet and ask for so little. Oh, to be young again....
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  • JT10
  • 04-02-2011, 09:35 PM
I do wonder about the single persont that does this. They are the minority according to the girls.
Yep it probably is cheaper, but not really. Girls give it away now more than ever. I so like the chase, the date, the catch. Yeah it cost money but in the end there is no sport like "sport forkin".

Except for the marriage, I spent way less "dating" than I have in the pay for play world.

P4P is way too choreographed and repetitive.
then why are you a member on a "pay for play" site? that doesnt make sense. to watch over us?
That pretty much hits the spot for me. I've been married for 14 years. I bust my ass providing for my SO so she can be a SAHM living the life of leisure ( both kids are in grade school ) and all she does is treat me like shit and say yes maybe one a month.... if I'm lucky.

I don't need a girl friend, I just need to get laid on a regular basis.
Excellent question.

JT, please do tell.. . Why are you here then?
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I think you can give it up to your man all day long, but after years of that it becomes the desire for "strange". Something is built within a man to search for new and different.

I have to say, that is what I have learned.

A hobbiest once told me "One day I wake up craving Asian food. The next, I wake up craving a good ol' burger" The point is unfortunate for me as a woman because it let's me know that no matter what, my man may desire more than my delicious burger. Even if it's the best burger ever! Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe
I have to say it is true, and it also seems to be true about women in a different way, otherwise the divorce rate wouldn't be so high. But if I was married I would be content with my wife's delicious burger, as long as she presented her delicious burger in different ways, and added a variety of toppings around it or with it.... ok, I don't know if I'm hungry or horny now!!
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I have some requirements lol... i require lots of affection & cuddling, NEVER been on a plane so i would like to travel at least twice a year, i want a couple kiddos, i love to cook but would like to eat out 1-2 times a week... hmmm and i love dogs and i come with 3 think u could manage?? lol Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe
Ok, so now that's the reason I'm still single... every woman I've met wants kids. And I know there are some women out there that don't want them, but I haven't found any. Pretty much every woman seems to want to follow the same fairy tale idea. Now I don't have anything against kids, but I just know for sure that I don't want them. Kids are not for everyone after all, but before committing to someone you should know yourself first, and some people just tend to go with the flow thinking that they will adapt, and then their lives become miserable.
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SO SO TRUE AND SOME OF WIDOW GUYS NEED LOVING TOO.
I do wonder about the single persont that does this. They are the minority according to the girls.
Yep it probably is cheaper, but not really. Girls give it away now more than ever. I so like the chase, the date, the catch. Yeah it cost money but in the end there is no sport like "sport forkin".

Except for the marriage, I spent way less "dating" than I have in the pay for play world.

P4P is way too choreographed and repetitive. Originally Posted by JT10
I have been married to the same lady for most of my adult life.

I greatly prefer P4P over the "sport forkin" scene. If for no other reason, I do not have the time, will, want or inclination to make 'forkin' a sporting event. I prefer to do my homework and then contact the provider of choice. It is quick, easy and painless!

As for the P4P being choreographed and repetitive, I would take issue with that. There is someone for everyones taste in the P4P world. It is only choreographed and repetitive if that is what you're wanting it to be!
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I've always wanted to have the life of a bull. He gets placed in a 300 acre field with 30 to 50 cows and its his job to get them all pregnant. Then he gets it done and goes back to his own little field a while to put weight back on and then goes back and does it all again.
Basically its all pretty simple which explains why females are usually happy with one and males always like to sample. Were all animals when it comes down to it, our only problem is we have the ability to reason.
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Why do single guys hobby?

Women are bat shit crazy (probably men too, but I haven't banged any and haven't got into a romantic relationships with any so I haven't experienced it).

I'm in my late 30s and have never been married.

I've had 3 women I dated less than 6 months who ended up being borderline or full on stalkers. I had one that called me 40+ times in one night after the first date.

Most FWB or FB situations haven't stayed that way. They wanted more, and got pissed when I said no.

Even friends of many years turn out psycho when romance is thrown into the equation.

I've never cheated, so when I feel the urge to go bang someone else, I tell them and/or break it off.

Pretty much sums up why I'm single as well as why I P4P rather than playing in the "free market".
Who said this.... there aint notheing like new pussy but your heart is left at home. When I was brought up I was raised YOU SAID I DO infront of God and everyone so when your husband asks if you want to have sex YOU SAID I DO just like that day you got your ring...cause if you DON'T someone else will say I do and get some of your shoe shopping money. And thats the way it goes.
I would say About 80-85% are married
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I would say About 80-85% are married Originally Posted by Absolutely
Aww ill give u widowed guys love anytime.Yall tend to always be the most loving ones!